When she's on the pill...

[brooklyn brawler]

Anyway IWISHILIVEDINFUCKINLA, I guess you should better both get tested because the pill might prevent her from getting pregnant but it doesn´t prevent her to pass on all the nasty deseases... it also isn´t a question of trust whatsoever. We live in a world where trust is not enough concerning these issues...
Oh and you should probably still wear a condom during her fertile days. They last around 4-5 days before the ovulation which is around 14 days before the period (assuming she has a 28day cyclus, some women have 21-34 day cycluses), and she stays fertile for 12-18 hours after the ovulations, so better wear a condom from day 10-16. I hope this made sense, it´s hard to explain that stuff since english isn´t my mother tongue. And you can also find out when she´s fertile by using a clinical thermometer cause her bodys temperature should be slightly higher during the fructuous days.

By the way, I always wear condoms cause remembering to take the pill seems to be pretty difficult ^^ So I agree that you should probably check if she takes it everyday. once forgotten, the protection is gone...

You know so much about women, and I can't even find the clitoris.  emoticon

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so if you had sex for lets say every third day for a year (which doesn´t seem very overstated)

easy for you to say
mister vagina wizard

[E.l.G]

It's all good Frankenberry. I love my son dearly and wouldn't change a thing...but I was on the pill too! I think they lie about 99% accuracy!

Oh come on!!
I bet Jayme is a beast .. no sorry, but think of it, I bet you had sex more often then 99 times. And all 99% accuracy says is that out of a hundred times you´ll get pregnant once (on average)... so if you had sex for lets say every third day for a year (which doesn´t seem very overstated) you were actually lucky it took so long for a kiddo to enter your fabulous world. Either that or pbn´s sperm is just overly potent...


Anyway IWISHILIVEDINFUCKINLA, I guess you should better both get tested because the pill might prevent her from getting pregnant but it doesn´t prevent her to pass on all the nasty deseases... it also isn´t a question of trust whatsoever. We live in a world where trust is not enough concerning these issues...
Oh and you should probably still wear a condom during her fertile days. They last around 4-5 days before the ovulation which is around 14 days before the period (assuming she has a 28day cyclus, some women have 21-34 day cycluses), and she stays fertile for 12-18 hours after the ovulations, so better wear a condom from day 10-16. I hope this made sense, it´s hard to explain that stuff since english isn´t my mother tongue. And you can also find out when she´s fertile by using a clinical thermometer cause her bodys temperature should be slightly higher during the fructuous days.

By the way, I always wear condoms cause remembering to take the pill seems to be pretty difficult ^^ So I agree that you should probably check if she takes it everyday. once forgotten, the protection is gone...

You Europeans are so sensible.

[Evil Kraken from the Arctic Sea]

Yeah, I know. But having a baby doesn´t fit in my current plans at all. Not yet, maybe in a few years when I have enough mone to be able to support a family... and getting a STD doesn´t fit either.

Btw, I love to hear people say "condoms? NO WAY! I always pull it out before I come!" ^^.

[tangerine]

the pill is more like 99.99% safe, think of the odds as one in a few thousand and if she has a bad memory theres always the depo shot. also pulling out is useless because pre-cum can get a girl pregnant.

[donnie_murdo]

I'm going to go with Sanch on this one, man even her Mum was telling her to get on the pill, i think it's a safe bet you can stop using rubbers, her Mum's obviously got her clued up about not wanting babies when she's not ready.

Anyway if i was you - and if you're in love, then you should both be trusting each other, so i'd just go for it, and as for the cumming super quick without a jonny on, well not really - you'll be fine.

I never "came" in my lady when she was on the pill just used to pull out as i was pretty paranoid even when she was on the pill (yeah, yeah i know it sounds dumb, i was 19 at the time) but the girl i was going out with at the time, gave me a bit of slagging at the time - along the lines of "If i wanted your baby i wouldn't be on the pill, you can actually cum in me and nothing will happend, i'm not goign to get up the stick"

You'll be fine

[Sleazy]

don't blast in her and only ditch the condoms if your really confident that she's not the cheating type. be naive with your heart but don't be naive with your health, so REALLY SURE...

also, i'd get tested for STD's first. my wife and i did that when we first started dating. it was only 10 bucks on campus and got the result back pretty quickly.

[ahlee]

well at least have fun with your sperm, go for the boobs. nips are bullseyes.

[Sleazy]

it's got to go somewhere, may as well have fun with it

[Evil Kraken from the Arctic Sea]

don't blast in her and only ditch the condoms if your really confident that she's not the cheating type. be naive with your heart but don't be naive with your health, so REALLY SURE...

also, i'd get tested for STD's first. my wife and i did that when we first started dating. it was only 10 bucks on campus and got the result back pretty quickly.

I agree a 100%.

[Evil Kraken from the Arctic Sea]

well at least have fun with your sperm, go for the boobs. nips are bullseyes.

Shit, I want to gnar you.

[ahlee]

it's got to go somewhere, may as well have fun with it

one time in highschool.. my gf was giving me a bj.. and i like.. went to tell her i was about to come.. and she lifted her head up and was like "huh?" and it shot her DIRECTLY in between the eyes.. and almost like split in half and got in both of her eyes.. i felt so bad.. but it didnt stop me from telling every single person at the lunch table the next day.

[MexicanSpaniard]

It's been pretty well covered but a few things have been left out: Do you drink and smoke fairly heavilly? Do you wear white-y tight-y's? Those are a few things that will help reduce your potency.

[Duffy]

Oh come on!!
I bet Jayme is a beast .. no sorry, but think of it, I bet you had sex more often then 99 times. And all 99% accuracy says is that out of a hundred times you´ll get pregnant once (on average)... so if you had sex for lets say every third day for a year (which doesn´t seem very overstated) you were actually lucky it took so long for a kiddo to enter your fabulous world. Either that or pbn´s sperm is just overly potent...

Probably the only thing on this message board that actually made me feel uneasy for a minute.

[j....soy.....]

I never "came" in my lady when she was on the pill just used to pull out as i was pretty paranoid even when she was on the pill (yeah, yeah i know it sounds dumb, i was 19 at the time) but the girl i was going out with at the time, gave me a bit of slagging at the time - along the lines of "If i wanted your baby i wouldn't be on the pill, you can actually cum in me and nothing will happend, i'm not goign to get up the stick"

You'll be fine

I'm sure the pulling out had everything to do with 'safety'.....it had nothing to do with how fun it is to make a mess....

I'd just wear a condom....it's like you do or you don't....'sometimes' just fucks everything up....you don't feel like wearing one...she thought that she had taken the pill....keeping track of ovlulation....yeah...good luck...

you just have to think of a smooth way to explain how you pulled out for safety reasons....and somehow the condom slipped off and....oops...made a big mess....here's a towel....

[Sleazy]

it's got to go somewhere, may as well have fun with it

one time in highschool.. my gf was giving me a bj.. and i like.. went to tell her i was about to come.. and she lifted her head up and was like "huh?" and it shot her DIRECTLY in between the eyes.. and almost like split in half and got in both of her eyes.. i felt so bad.. but it didnt stop me from telling every single person at the lunch table the next day.

i shot a girl in the eye one time when she had looked back over her shoulder when i was behind her and pulled out. the girl was 6'+ tall so i was pretty stoked. it was the hail marry of loads for me.

[ahlee]

HAHAHA

[MexicanSpaniard]

What JSoy said about the fun of making a 'mess' is so true. Dated a girl on the pill for about 3-4 years and made a 'mess' just about everywhere on her: face, feet, stomach, back, hair, neck, chest, buttocks, mouth/lips, cupped hands. Only inside a few times.

[bornindabay]

Paint targets on her with the smaller targets being worth more points. That'd be a fun game.

[ahlee]

Feet? haha...

"spread those toes baby..."

[Sleazy]

and if you leave it in you'll never get to say

"i'm about to glaze you like a cheap donut"

[ahlee]

and if you leave it in you'll never get to say

"i'm about to glaze you like a cheap donut"

Maybe he's a boston creme kinda guy.

[MexicanSpaniard]

Feet? haha...

"spread those toes baby..."

I blame her for all my fetish/perv tendencies. I met her when I was 18 and she was 22. She was in that 'experimental' phase of her life and I had only been doing the 'normal' style up until then.

[ahlee]

I can only imagine.

"ok, listen.. im going to let do me from the back.. but im going to hold onto my butt cheeks and pull them back and forth like its a big talkign mouth gobling up your penis, you down? "

"uhh, sure"

[bornindabay]

Sound effects would be fun. "Would you like to hear shotgun or semi auto"?

[Sleazy]

haha

"and then after you finish giving me a fresh sanchez that's when you reach for the devil'd eggs"

"OK, but how does the sand paper fit into this again"

*she sighs and goes back to the white board*

[sweatloaf]

My girlfriend just got her IUD changed yesterday. That's another 5 years of good feelings for me.

[j....soy.....]

if i were a chick...no fucking way i'd get one of those things....it's a man's world....

[Sleazy]

sounds like if you were a chic you might be a dike

[skatebored]

shits sketchy and everyone is different. its all based on how risky you are. if you want to cum inside of her, your best bet is to wear a condom. if shes on the pill, and you pull out you should be fine. if shes been around, wrap that shit up so your dick is still there in a few years.