PRISONER'S DILEMMA!

Crimes and Misdemeanors (Woody Allen - 1989) - Final scenes

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I've been there. She's going to be so sour. Once you've "betrayed the trust," you're out in the cold. Staying the course is certainly not worth it, my dude.

yeah, you've already cheated you may aswell tell a lie/not tell and get the fuck outta there while you can.

you've got a dilemma, that is for sure.

I will tell you that I have cheated on a few girls who I very much cared about, one of whom I had been in a 4 year stint with.

When I didn't tell them, I very soon realized that I didn't respect them enough to be honest so I kept fucking around and dragged out the relationship. Eventually, as someone suggested, finding another way to break it off.

When I did tell, and they kept me around, I soon lost respect because there is no way that I would stay with a woman who had lied/cheated/whatever, and broke it off.

It's all about respect. I can't say respecting your girl to the utmost is a preventative measure. Everyone has moments of doubt and indiscretion, but at the same time, whether she will stay with me or not, there is NO way I'm staying with someone that I fucked around on.

Maybe I'm not the best guy for relationship advice... When I do meet someone worth sticking with it's going to be time to quit drinking and going to bars... those activities are my ultimate downfall.

good luck

i speak from experience when i say that the only time i was ever put into a situation like you're in (same thing pretty much) i let it happen because i wasnt happy in the relationship. maybe re-evaluate the relationship and decide if you really even want to be with her. be ready to deal with another year of horrible fights over nothing because the trust is gone and she is deep down always going to be pissed.

Was dating this girl from about the beginning of April, and I was really into her and wanted to move things forward but she had all these trust issues from past relationships going sour. Things sorta started slowing down; we wouldn't hang out as much, she kept blowing me off, saying she wasn't feeling good or had an appointment or something, but she would just go to partys without me (I know cause she would be tagged in pictures on FB) Well my senior prom was a few days ago, and she was my date (she's a year behind me). Things were going fine until after the ceremonies our school put off a "safe grad (its basically just a bunch of activities the school put together to try and keep people from getting drunk)". She was acting weird, it seemed to me that she would keep trying to ditch me, although she was my date... Well she ended up leaving early, which i wasn't stoked on but she said she was really tired and wanted to go to sleep.

Anyways, fast forward 2 days and there's this huge camping trip organized for everyone to go get smashed in a field (this was last night btw). She told me she couldn't go because she didn't have a ride, and I wasn't driving and there was no room in my buddy's car. So I head out there, not expecting to see her, but sure enough there she is. At this point I didn't know what to think because she told me she wasn't coming up, but anyways we start drinking.

So I was sharing a tent with my one of my best friends Desmond, and this girl and him are friends, and i had my suspicions that he liked her, but never really got into it with either of them. Anyways, it gets dark, and im pretty drunk, and I go to our tent to grab another beer, and she's there in the tent with him, I didn't say anything and just sat there and talked to them like things were cool, but then later on we were sitting around a campfire, and right in front of me, she gets up and sits on his lap. At first I was surprised that she would do that right in front of me, but then i was sorta pissed. I walked over to her and said i needed to talk to her, and confronted her about her and Desmond. She denied everything and said they were just friends, and we got into it about whether there was anything going on between them, and i said something along the lines of "If there's something going on between you guys tell me now so I know I'm not just wasting my time". She said she just wanted to be friends with me...didn't see it coming. Hurt like hell man. So im sitting by the fire sippin down my beer and everyone else is headin back to their tents to pass out, and not wanting to just sit there by myself, I do the same.

The next morning I notice Desmond has a fresh hickey on his neck so i asked him about it. At least he had the balls to tell me that it was her. I felt like punching him but I didn't. Wish I had. Needless to say things between me and her are done for. Pretty bummed here today...For some reason, every girl that Im actually into falls for one of my best friends...Has happened 3 times in the past 2 years.
And sorry if the story sounds complicating, it's because it is complicating

Lol

No swag.

U lost so bad.

Hate basically summed it up. The same thing might keep happening to you with an awesome girl. And she might break your heart and you're going to cry your eyes out. It happens and fucking sucks. But you know what, that wasn't the girl you were suppose to be with. Because it looked like you were the only one trying. And reading that let us know that you're a guy you gives a fuck, and actually cares. And it sounds so stupid to say and hear, but you can't give up. Push through, give it some time, and stay warm.

you're not alone. I had a high sex drive when I was in a relationship. Now it's whatever. If it happens, it happens.

I was like that after my last ex, but with some girls it can be usefull.

If they can see that you are talking to them just for the sake of a conversation and that you dont really have sex on the mind then they'l be more likely to be wondering why sex isnt on your mind and if its their fault. If they think youre not attracted to them, they will usually try to fix this by putting your willy in their mouth. Doesnt always work obviously, but youd be suprised how many chicks want sex if youre just a tiny bit flirty but not atall sexual.

Don't be ashamed! I'm also an ABBA lover.

Last year I passed out at a music festival after getting far too drunk, woke up at like 6am to find i'd shat and pissed myself. I was still drunk at this point and wandered to the festivals loos, which are disgusting. Was in there for about 45 minutes clearing stuff up and ended up ditching my boxers. I got back to my tent and fell asleep till like 10 and woke up and there was shit on my air bed and i'd also pretty much slept in my own vomit. Such a gross/ashamed feeling waking up that morning.
I laugh at this now though, especially with my friends and my girlfriend even digs into me about it haha. Strangely enough though my stomach hasn't been the same since that night.

I can really relate to the bolded. I always seem to be naturally attracted to the crazy girls. Beyond that, I would say forget that chick. It sounds destructive to stay attracted to her. There are a lot of other girls out there! Lots of other crazy ones that will let you get down too!

I used to think crazy chicks were more interesting and that I could deal with a certain level of psychological malfunction. I don't even want to fuck them anymore, it's always giving too much for too little in return. Drop that chick.

don't have no shame in yr game, man. i watch it on the regular too and you best believe i'm about to watch part 2 of the Dominican Republic vacay. Sunday is my Kardash Day and even Gawd knows it (sorry Jesus!)

Scott is pretty fuckin funny too. he has constant one-liner hammers.