I went out to shows/bars on an almost unstoppable basis when i lived in chicago, and usually had really funny and interesting times/good luck w/ girls.
Since I moved to La and got what is more or less a "real job" and moved in w/ my on-off girlfriend, I basically can't get myself to go out, even when I have time to do so.
Perfect example, she was gone all weekend and doesn't care what I do when I'm alone, I have more money in the bank right now then I have in the last year or two, there are some ok shows going on....
Yet, all i'm doing is drinking beer, smoking weed, listening to records and trying to force myself to go out and meet some kids (I'm not super social but any time I've been drinking and manage to get out I seem to meet cool kids/girls).
Just not happening, though. But, in my defense, this does NOT SEEM to be a walker's city, and I'm not into driving at all.