i got mine from the same site. i wear alot of regular-fitting jeans myself and they look fine. from a distance they just look like your typical black/white cupsole shoe and its pretty much the same up close its just that the outsole makes em look kinda like sneakers, but only because of the outsole. as far as finding relaxed pants you really cant go wrong with some good dickies, you just gotta find the right fit/size. they're super good shoes tho man. they got that dunk/cupsole feel but the toe is just a lil bit more square-ish so they flick really well for a more padded shoe.