I feel like there's a lot of different ways to be a skater, and I think it's regular to try to decide which is more "real."
Like, there's the full-on 15-year-old skaterat with no other interests or responsibilities who skates every day & is obsessed with progressing and learning as many tricks as possible, who really lives & breathes the shit.
Then there's the 40-year-old who hits the bowl a couple of times a week, full-padded, and just carves around for an hour, enjoying the feel of wheels on smooth crete.
Which of these is the "real" skater?
Your relationship to skating will likely change as you age, but ultimately the relationship is yours to define - not someone else's. And if you're judging someone's love/dedication based on what tricks they are doing, you've probably got some growing up to do.