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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4680 on: April 22, 2014, 05:48:32 PM »
Found out that my ex is pregnant with her new boyfrind today. It's been like 4-5 years since we were together, and I've been in a relationship with another girl for almost 3 years now, but still I got really bummed when I found out. I guess it's just really weird for me that a girl I really loved and cared about once is having a baby with some other dude.


I had this one girlfriend in college with whom I had an extremely brief, mostly PG-13 relationship with. She was very cute and sunny and I really cared for her a great deal but shit was progressing super slow, I had no game, I felt like I should be sowing my wild oats with a bunch of other chicks, and she was very square and listened to Cheryl Crow and shit. I broke it off for some trashier girl with better musical tastes.

No other exes loom so large in my mind - even girls I had more serious relationships with. Now through the wonders of Facebook I am now teased by some alternate universe where she and I stayed together. She is still pretty and has kids and I imagine what if I were still in the picture. In reality it probably would not have worked out but I can say that after living in a not so sunny marriage with someone with nearly identical musical tastes, I'm not sure if Cheryl Crow would be a deal breaker at this point.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4681 on: April 23, 2014, 12:46:39 AM »
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Found out that my ex is pregnant with her new boyfrind today. It's been like 4-5 years since we were together, and I've been in a relationship with another girl for almost 3 years now, but still I got really bummed when I found out. I guess it's just really weird for me that a girl I really loved and cared about once is having a baby with some other dude.
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I had this one girlfriend in college with whom I had an extremely brief, mostly PG-13 relationship with. She was very cute and sunny and I really cared for her a great deal but shit was progressing super slow, I had no game, I felt like I should be sowing my wild oats with a bunch of other chicks, and she was very square and listened to Cheryl Crow and shit. I broke it off for some trashier girl with better musical tastes.

No other exes loom so large in my mind - even girls I had more serious relationships with. Now through the wonders of Facebook I am now teased by some alternate universe where she and I stayed together. She is still pretty and has kids and I imagine what if I were still in the picture. In reality it probably would not have worked out but I can say that after living in a not so sunny marriage with someone with nearly identical musical tastes, I'm not sure if Cheryl Crow would be a deal breaker at this point.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4682 on: April 23, 2014, 08:08:18 AM »
26 is so fucked. life is fucked. get angry and come out on top for yourself. don't settle for being unhappy. make your self happy. no one else will do it for you. i know that it is easier said than interneted. if there's a will there's a way. find that fucking way. make a path and show others. gotta be confident. it can be done. do it for yourself. i am trying for myself and it fucking sucks. but so does putting shit like this on slap where people might actually read and think about it. life sucks. but you die eventually. just go out there and get some for yourself man.
who the fuck is going to stop you. your life. mine as well.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4683 on: April 23, 2014, 08:27:10 AM »
26 is so fucked. life is fucked. get angry and come out on top for yourself. don't settle for being unhappy. make your self happy. no one else will do it for you. i know that it is easier said than interneted. if there's a will there's a way. find that fucking way. make a path and show others. gotta be confident. it can be done. do it for yourself. i am trying for myself and it fucking sucks. but so does putting shit like this on slap where people might actually read and think about it. life sucks. but you die eventually. just go out there and get some for yourself man.
who the fuck is going to stop you. your life. mine as well.

I came to the same realization at the same age mate.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4684 on: April 23, 2014, 08:55:04 AM »
Someone once asked why I was going downtown by myself just to skate and I said something like "I don't really have anyone who likes to do what I like to do with me, but i still gotta live my life and do the things I want to do" Was kind of profound moment of realization and self stoke

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4685 on: April 25, 2014, 08:17:05 PM »
find that fucking way. make a path and show others.

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« Reply #4686 on: April 25, 2014, 08:25:25 PM »
Someone once asked why I was going downtown by myself just to skate and I said something like "I don't really have anyone who likes to do what I like to do with me, but i still gotta live my life and do the things I want to do" Was kind of profound moment of realization and self stoke
i've been sorta on that kick lately but more cruising than hitting up spots. my sister lives in kind of the drug neighborhood but there's a lot of gorgeous architecture and actually some pretty neat spots that nobody hits. i enjoy cruising past the old factories and looking at trains. i've done what you're talking about and sometimes it's lonesome and other times i feel weird cause ya end up at a spot w/ a bunch of way younger kids. that stuff weirds me out in my hometown even though when i'm anywhere else i don't respect people's opinions so i'm in an egoistic bubble. i'm pushing 40, back at my ma's house, no job prospects, no girls, nothin comin on the 1st of the month but i'm not depressed cause i skate every day. it is a little awkward to run into people from 'back in the day' though.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4687 on: April 28, 2014, 03:16:24 AM »
kinda started a new relationship and found out my ex has a new lover as well, since this weekend. although the break up was neccessary, we still cared for each other. (but had arguments about everything) anyway, she has 2 kids (3 - 6) and i hope for one that the new guy looks after them and treats them and her right.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4688 on: April 28, 2014, 12:20:05 PM »
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find that fucking way. make a path and show others.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4689 on: April 29, 2014, 07:02:26 PM »
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« Reply #4690 on: April 29, 2014, 07:11:25 PM »
i was born w/ anosmia which is a fancy word for smell blind. i prolly all the time reek of garlic and stoges but i don't care cause i'm oblivious. i can taste though so that's another lie my teacher told me.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4691 on: April 29, 2014, 07:21:44 PM »
i was born w/ anosmia which is a fancy word for smell blind. i prolly all the time reek of garlic and stoges but i don't care cause i'm oblivious. i can taste though so that's another lie my teacher told me.


I feel like that's what Worcester smells like anyways so you're probably not sticking out too much.
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« Reply #4692 on: April 29, 2014, 07:27:10 PM »
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i was born w/ anosmia which is a fancy word for smell blind. i prolly all the time reek of garlic and stoges but i don't care cause i'm oblivious. i can taste though so that's another lie my teacher told me.
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I feel like that's what Worcester smells like anyways so you're probably not sticking out too much.
heheheh. maybe it does have a bad smell and that's why people are all the time irritated?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4693 on: April 30, 2014, 09:33:35 PM »
I pooped in the neighbor's front yard of a fellow Slap Pal.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4694 on: April 30, 2014, 10:19:08 PM »
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Someone once asked why I was going downtown by myself just to skate and I said something like "I don't really have anyone who likes to do what I like to do with me, but i still gotta live my life and do the things I want to do" Was kind of profound moment of realization and self stoke
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i've been sorta on that kick lately but more cruising than hitting up spots. my sister lives in kind of the drug neighborhood but there's a lot of gorgeous architecture and actually some pretty neat spots that nobody hits. i enjoy cruising past the old factories and looking at trains. i've done what you're talking about and sometimes it's lonesome and other times i feel weird cause ya end up at a spot w/ a bunch of way younger kids. that stuff weirds me out in my hometown even though when i'm anywhere else i don't respect people's opinions so i'm in an egoistic bubble. i'm pushing 40, back at my ma's house, no job prospects, no girls, nothin comin on the 1st of the month but i'm not depressed cause i skate every day. it is a little awkward to run into people from 'back in the day' though.

I feel both of you on this one.  What keeps me motivated these days when I'm on a one man mission is believing that I just have to live  my life. As cliche as it sounds, Fuck everybody else, our individual happiness is at stake. And no one can make me happy but me. It doesn't matter if we are 16 or 40 or 80, Skateboarding is our life. Just keep pushing and this too shall pass. Just believe.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4695 on: May 01, 2014, 07:16:44 AM »
I think Tracer makes some alright topics from time to time.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4696 on: May 01, 2014, 09:51:31 AM »
For some reason I have constructed a reality in which Dakota Servold rides for vans and is on toy machine.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4697 on: May 01, 2014, 09:56:39 AM »
I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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« Reply #4698 on: May 01, 2014, 10:07:18 AM »
I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.

Like Nike Just do it. Get it over with, youll feel better

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4699 on: May 01, 2014, 10:10:48 AM »
I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4700 on: May 01, 2014, 11:26:35 AM »
I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4701 on: May 01, 2014, 01:49:16 PM »
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I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.
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I got you l33t, first try no warm ups. You got this man.

this really is key. Just dive into it and every time after it will get easier.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4702 on: May 01, 2014, 09:44:17 PM »
I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.

In my experience people usually cut you some slack if they know you are nervous and you can get away with being a pretty big dork. I mean i gave my current gf finger guns as a way to say good night after our first date and to my surprise she still wanted to see me again

So just do it be nervous say some dorky shit and it doesnt really matter.

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« Reply #4703 on: May 02, 2014, 02:04:01 AM »
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I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.
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In my experience people usually cut you some slack if they know you are nervous and you can get away with being a pretty big dork. I mean i gave my current gf finger guns as a way to say good night after our first date and to my surprise she still wanted to see me again

So just do it be nervous say some dorky shit and it doesnt really matter.
Finger guns are dorky? Damn I've got no game.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #4704 on: May 02, 2014, 07:38:09 AM »
doublesteveburger: I'm gonna stick to being sad and skating with my poor friends.
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« Reply #4705 on: May 02, 2014, 08:53:20 AM »
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I'm scared to talk to a person that I really should talk to. This anxiety is killing me.
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In my experience people usually cut you some slack if they know you are nervous and you can get away with being a pretty big dork. I mean i gave my current gf finger guns as a way to say good night after our first date and to my surprise she still wanted to see me again

So just do it be nervous say some dorky shit and it doesnt really matter.
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Finger guns are dorky? Damn I've got no game.
No, no, you're thinking of finger bang, not finger gun. You're fine.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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« Reply #4706 on: May 02, 2014, 09:16:26 AM »
Got in trouble yesterday for taking some cheap 9 dollar headphones that I could've easily just paid for. In my head while I was doing it I told myself I should just pay for it but I didn't anyway. I've never been in trouble with the law for anything before but I'm nervous as fuck because I have to go to court. I'm really hoping to pay a small fine or something and get this off my record. I know I'm above doing dumb shit like this so this whole situation is really making me feel terrible and truly disappointed in myself.

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« Reply #4707 on: May 02, 2014, 09:23:45 AM »
It should be a slap on the wrists unless the judge is an asshole that wants to make an example out of you. Sometimes no matter how rational your thought process is you end up doing stupid shit. No one is immune. I'm so glad I never got caught for some of the worse things I've done. I think about them everyday along with the rest of my failures.
Before you say the music sucked, have you considered shutting the fuck up?

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« Reply #4708 on: May 02, 2014, 12:44:28 PM »
Got in trouble yesterday for taking some cheap 9 dollar headphones that I could've easily just paid for. In my head while I was doing it I told myself I should just pay for it but I didn't anyway. I've never been in trouble with the law for anything before but I'm nervous as fuck because I have to go to court. I'm really hoping to pay a small fine or something and get this off my record. I know I'm above doing dumb shit like this so this whole situation is really making me feel terrible and truly disappointed in myself.
We all do stupid shit and occasionally we get caught doing it. From personal experience of court appearances the best advise I can give you is to ask as many people you know of reputable positions in society ie. former teachers, employers, any body you know with a title or a business or anyone that can provide a letterhead and tell them what you did and ask them to provide a statement of character on that letterhead with there details on it. The statement of character should make mention of how long they have known you, mention what you did and express that this was out of character for you and that you have expressed remorse for doing so. Ask for these to be presented to the judge. I was facing some serious charges for something I did whilst drunk off my ass and managed to escape a conviction without a criminal record and pay a fine and the judge said it was owing solely to the character testimonies I provided. Good luck BrvaUlysses

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« Reply #4709 on: May 02, 2014, 01:31:14 PM »
Thanks guys. I'll consider the letterhead thing but I feel uncomfortable with getting other people involved in some stupid shit that I did. Another problem with this whole situation is the time I have to be at the court is 9 a.m. and I don't have a car and I don't think any of my friends would be willing to wake up at 7 a.m. on a Tuesday to take me somewhere. I've been looking up public transportation routes but so far I haven't found any that fits where I am that lead to the courthouse.