I'm usually a really mellow and really calm guy. But I used to get a really bad hockey temper while I was skating. Especially when I was around 19-20. Skating was a ventilation back than and frustration ha dto get out somewhere right?
But... I never eeeeeeeeeeeeever focused a board.
I punched quarter pipes and kicked ledges... After a while I saw a clip that was being edited and there was a part of me where I was freaking out... And I thought to myself: "man, you like an person, what the HELL are you doing???!!!"...
When something is not working for you, it's not the board, it's not the shoes, it's not the weather or the spot. It's YOU.
When I get frustrated now I just take a deep breath and count to 3. And I'm over it.
Like someone else said, it's skateboarding and it's supposed to be fun.