Thanks guys. I used to have 3,000+ posts but focused my account. When I was around a lot, I went through a bad breakup and lived through the situation pretty openly on SLAP. The people that helped me kept things positive, focusing on how I could get through it constructive behavior. I found myself passing along that message to other people. I still have ups and downs. I like talking through these issues because it reminds me of who I want to be. In the end, all we are is what we do. If you're not criticizing your own behavior, you're running in place.