I know this is hard for some of you to believe but not too far in the past everyone bagged on gay people. It was the norm. Not saying it was right but general acceptance of homosexuality is a relatively new concept in this world. Jay or anyone else in that situation would have maybe gotten their ass kicked or even killed for not going along. As I've gotten older I've learned to generally accept anyone who isn't directly harming or affecting me in any negative way regardless of their race, sexual orientation etc. but I guarentee there's not a guy on here my age who hasn't at one time or another in their past ridiculed, made fun of or even just joked about gay people. Unless they happen to be gay that is...
this is true, and it's actually somewhat relevant. however let me preface this does not EXCUSE JAY'S PAST VIOLENT ACTIONS.
But yeah, at the time, it was generally acceptable to make fun and humiliate gays. Hell, even a lot of punk rock/hardcore with it's anti-right/anti-reagan liberal ranting would bash the oppressive christian right and make fun of "faggots" in the same sentence. In retrospect it was incredibly stupid (and ironic... darby crash?), but it was the norm.
Again, THIS IS NOT MAKING EXCUSES FOR JAY'S PAST VIOLENT ACTIONS, just saying that at certain times and places people's thought process was different.
Also noticed MOFO was holding it down in the comment section