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Which post? The one on instagram says something to the effect of ‘I wish you could have accepted that help when it was offered to you and pull out of your downward spiral.’ Sounds like a real cold/jerky thing to say but Tony Hawk has always been a jerk.
"I wish you could have pulled out of the downward spiral and accepted help"
i don't think its cold at all. it comes off as really sincere and well thought out. he knows that young people will be reading what he wrote. i enjoyed mike davis, his skating and personality. pretty sure my only post on the appreciation board was a thread dedicated to him. when it comes to mental illness and drug abuse, (fortunately) I've always been on the side reaching out my hand to help pull people out so i don't know how hard it is to accept help. but I'm with tony on this one. especially when when you have a kid. Take the fucking hand and accept the help.
I'm not picking on you and I hope I don't come off like a dick, but it's not always as easy as accepting the help when it comes to addiction, especially when mental illness is involved. A more people would beat heroin and opiates if all it took was accepting the help and support their family and friends offer up.
I recently lost my younger brother to heroin addiction, and he had more love and support than most will ever get. He also battled depression and schizophrenia and the combination of all that made even his best days a struggle. He had long stints of soberity and even then I could see the pain and unhappiness in his eyes. The unfortunate thing is that the one thing that could dull his pain was what would kill him.
I was very hesitant to post this because I didn't want to make the thread about me, but my intention is it let people know that overcoming something like addiction is not as simple as a lot of us think. Like Gip said, they can't just flip a switch on and off. People suffering need our love and support and also our empathy. Addicts still have a terrible stigma and that only makes it harder for them to get clean and repair their lives. Do what you can to help those in need and try to understand that what someone might be going through is a real fucking battle that many of us fortunately don't have to fight.
None of us knew what Mike was going through and it's not fair to judge. May he rest in peace.