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General Discussion => WHATEVER => Topic started by: Bklynbank on August 12, 2006, 12:13:59 PM
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who here has made this work for more than a month? not to be selfish or anything, i just hate sharing a girl with other dicks even though we havent hooked up with anyone else yet
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pretty e-tarded idea.
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uh, the real key here would be to realize that you obviously don't want a "casual relationship". sounds like you want a girlfriend but without all the work. like pussy that falls on you whenever you want but doesn't touch anyone else. that's pretty hard to come by, my friend.
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yup, quit being a bitch and marry one
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ha but im the same way
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nah actually i was ready for a real relationship, weve been friends for like 4 years and she just got out of like a sick 3 year of and on relationship with a total dick, she said she doesnt want one and were also going to different colleges i dono im just wondering how far this could go
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i know she really likes me,sex is good, i guess she just doesnt want us to end horribly if we got into a real relationship, i have no fucking idea, girls are fucking stupid
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be cool, brief, and let her know you could handle a serious relationship because your a real man, and dont call her too much.
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there like animals, you have to find a path of communication that they respond too, hit and miss, if your already fucking her than you prolly have a few chances
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i gets mine.
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i dono im just wondering how far this could go
not very far if neither of you is willing to commit to anything. that 'friends with benefits' shit doesn't exist because someone always ends up being bummed out.
edit: i wrote either instead of neither
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i know, and shes obsessed with me also, calls me all the time, told her parents about me? wants to hang out alot. She seems to be just scared of the title. I asked her if shes worried she will hookup with other losers back at school, she never gave me a clear answer. Ill wait this out till september but like i really dont like to be fucked with emotionally even though i wanna still be with her. i need to go skate
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i need to go skate
problem solved!
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I always thought that having a 3 some with someone when your in a serious relationship is such a bad idea because you might ruin the relationship but with this setup you don't have to sweat that. You should work that angle and see if she is down. If nothing else you will scratch a hella fun item off the "you should do before you get married" list.
I actually had a friends with benifits type setup with this girl for about 8 months to a year. She was pretty and we had good chemistry but she just got out of a long relationship with this guy and I wasn't looking for a serious relationship at all. At that point I had never really dated yet and didn't want to. She actually told me that she was attracted to me because I was so anti-dating. Sometimes I would see her out and ask her if she wanted to hook up later and she would be like "hey the nights early, if you still want me to come when you get home call." It was fucking awsome, like get laid insurance. Could hang out and play the numbers all night and still got something to fall back on. After about a year or so she stopped answering the late night request and that was it but it was really cool while it lasted. We never actually hung out during the day light and she would always come over and then split right after we hooked up. Never stayed the night or anything. I don't think I ever saw her in the day light and we never did anything together, no movies, no watching TV, no going to eat, nothing but hooking up. The guy she was dating for years right before we started messing around was actually a childhood friend of mine who I ran into out at the bars when I went to college and he was always with this hot girl who was his high school sweet heart. I was always attracted to her but didn't want to cross that line. She used to come to party's at my house late when they were dating and want to hook up but I would say no and then not be able to sleep kind of thing. One night a friend of mine came by who knew what was up and told me that she was out looking for me and had broke up with her boyfriend. I went out and found her and then it was on for like a year or so.
I wish I had a disaster story for you but my freinds with benifits setup was fucking killer but I wouldn't have dated anyone at that time, there were too many girls at the school I went too and it seemed like everyone was cheating anyway so this just made more sense to me.
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I reckon you should change the topic title to "Booty call tales"
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They never really work. I've had a few that lasted for months, but after that, we end up hating each other.
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I had one of these last for about 6 months. It was kinda funny because we went out for about 6 months, but I was too jealous/possessive for her so we broke up. After we broke up, we still went at it and hung out and probably had more fun than when we were actually going out since there weren't any strings attached. Now, we're both married and we're still friends. I remember she sent me a card after we broke up that said I was the best ex-boyfriend she ever had.
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i really have no idea what will happen i hope if we do stop hooking up we will still stay friends, shes really cool just to hang out with and talk to. I go to school in manhattan and she goes to school 5 hours away at penn state its fucked up im gonna try and visit her a few times i just dont wanna see her end up with some dickhead from pa, i hate all these abercrombie dudes who have no brain nor sense of humor, its probably inevitable were gonna hook up with other people unless she totally realizes that she wants to be with me, u ever like get that feeling that like "woah i could totally fuck another girl right about now, but im just not feeling it" i dono i got a few weeks to either finish this shit or choose to continue this over school time i kinda feel that were already a serious couple she just hates having a title and being told shes in a relationship, bitches man
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sounds like you are too attached for friends with benifits. I would recomend staying away completely for a while because it's only a matter of time before you see her with a guy (or are there when one calls, or whatever) and he will seem like a tool to you know matter who he is because he isn't you. There won't be a guy out there good enough to replace you when you have feelings for a girl.
Also, if there is any chance of her wanting to get back together, the quickest way to find out is to blow her off. If you give her all the benifits without her having to commit you will most certainly be in the friend category, chris rock's "dick in a glass case" for use in emergencys.
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word
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You sound kind of attached. That shit is dangerous. Make your feelings clear. I got fucked by a situation like this. Started hooking up with one of my best friends. At first we were just having fun, she had a boyfriend in Italy who she met while abroad. That obviously failed and she started acting really attached to me, so I let myself grow attached to her. Then one night I called her and told her that it would be cool if she could come hang out after I finished writing my senior thesis because it was driving me insane. Instead she came over, dumped me, broke my fucking heart, and then tried to downplay all the shit because we never had an official title. Then she got drunk with my oblivious roommates while I sat in my room dying and attempting to finish my thesis. I guess my point to this is that if you want something with this girl, you better make it clear, because some chicks will use the lack of a title as an easy way to fuck you over
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bringing back this thread may be super gay, but after 3 weeks of being apart she told me she feels sorry for not being able to see me and having no time outside of studying for school, this stuff could be total bs i dono but we have decided to stop seeing each other ....pretty much sucks
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women...
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treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore, it's the secret to getting women.
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at one piont i tried the friends with benefits with my ex of three years. from my perspective, things were going fine. sex every now and then without the obligations of a boyfriend. then after a good five months of that, she tells me that she wanted to date some other fuck so we'd have to quit the whole friends thing. after that i was going through pussy withdrawal and eventually caved in (probably due to the month long abstinence).
now i realize why i left her in the first place and regret getting back together. to sum up, friends with benefits was a bad idea.......and frequent jagging off is good break up medicine despite what anyone says.
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fuck the bitch.
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no time outside of studying for school
i read somewhere that that is the #1 used excuse used for avoiding dudes.
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i have a habit of first befriending girls and then falling in love with them. really annoying.
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not me...I'm usually too awkwardly shy at first, making it obvious that there's something on my mind...but once I'm comfortable with her, we're best friends, lovers, everything. I'm with a girl I met 5 years ago...it was a friends with benefits thing back then. I was crazy about her but too shy to do anything about it, she was just confused about it. So 3 years go by with no communication. Then out of nowhere I'm hanging out with one of my friends, we're playing pool. He tried to call one of his friends and somehow dials her number on accident. So she meets up with us and I hit it off that night. We've been together for a year and 4 months.
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i have a habit of first befriending girls and then falling in love with them. really annoying.
It can be annoying in some cases, but personally I wouldn't want to be in a long term relationship with a girl unless it was someone would I could be friends with if we weren't dating.
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my specific problem right now is that we hooked up and thats it for her, while im left wanting more. and because we are good friends and we see each other quite often that sucks a little bit.
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For 'hooking up', I care less about the friendship factor, because then your interaction is sexually based. But if I'm going to be in a longterm relationship with a girl I wouldn't want to be with some bitch whos only positive quality is shes good in the 'sack'. Also, I don't mean they have to be my friend already, but someone who's personality I like and would have fun hanging out with when not having sex.
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but someone who's personality I like and would have fun hanging out with when not having sex.
that's a given. i don't really care that much about sex to be honest.
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annd by "wanting more" I mean a relationship of sorts
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Stop being a emotional wuss bag and get in control of your emotions pussy. Thats what Segrean Payne used to tell me all the time. Now i dont know what u heard bout me but im a P.I.M.P.
Seriously just think over your life and priorities and see if this relationship is worthwhile. She prob broke up with the asshole and is using you as a comfort/reboundf person to boost her self esteam while shes trying to think over what she REALLY wants which is usually the opposite of what she tells you. Look for body language(closed= lies, open = truth), facial expressions sad happy, tone of voice when she tellls you what she says.
If your fuckin multilple biches make sure to maintain the power in the relationship. Always end calls first, end chill sessions/ dates first, tell her your busy later on. It just creates value and anticiaption which hopeuflly u have some hobbies besides skating to make you a fun and interesting individual.
The FB system is good by the way i got 2 girls on it right now for about 4 months could of done 3 but i love to skate more than i like girls. Since shes just so emotionally fucked up tell her something like this " I know your going through alot with your bf and maybe getting into a relationship wouldnt be the best option for you right now since you need time to recover, but i like women who follow the natural way and go according to there instincts so we should just feel comfortable in each others presence and if one thing leads to another so be itl... it was natural after all"
Then this bich will smile and wanna suck your dick and she can imagine about what the relationship is in her fucked up mind and never have a clear answer making for constant sexual relations,
GO pick up girls too everywhere u go too... expand and fuck that pussssy!
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ah i see the thread is now revived, yeap
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It worked for me, just for a month. Then you won't be friends anymore at all.
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this is funny because 80% of slap are probably virgins
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heres my curve now that im in vietnam, and its seriously working.
ok well first off vietnam isnt just dirty asian hoes
im talkin expats here, lookers too
ok, so i purposely went into the friend zone, with some slight hints here and there, but nothing real, with as many girls possible. eventually when i became pretty good friends with 5 girls who i was attracted to (and their respective ugly friends to get some compassion points), i went straight into this other chick from another district from the french school, lasted 1 week, then fucked off.
then told a friend who i knew couldnt hold his mouth shut
suddenly
all those girls who i was friends with all started to like me more for 'some strange reason', and whatever, i told one of them, the one i liked the most of course, the next week, that i liked her, the next day we were dating.
so now i already have my 'b squad' set up
but yeah
libido is a cool thing
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are you talking about girls in vietnam or the States (or wherever you're from)?
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man...i got a fucking married on the weekend...
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i have a habit of first befriending girls and then falling in love with them. really annoying.
Its happened to me a couple times, and then comes the question "Now what the fuck do I do?"
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are you talking about girls in vietnam or the States (or wherever you're from)?
western girls who live in vietnam
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man...i got a fucking married on the weekend...
Drunk?
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little rich Xpat girls. Living in southeast asia is like living in a small town with nothing but rich people. My family currenlty lives in Kalu lumpar (sp), Malaysia. I was raised partially in Singapore and Thialand.
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yeah... it sucks right? but i dont really have a choice. ive lived in singapore as well... just moved out there.
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It was fun when I lived there but would be lame now. Singapore is too strict and Thailand is too sketch. I can't imagine skating is legal on any level in singapore. When I lived there bubble gum was illegal.
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It was fun when I lived there but would be lame now. Singapore is too strict and Thailand is too sketch. I can't imagine skating is legal on any level in singapore. When I lived there bubble gum was illegal.
Wan't there a recent coup in Thailand?
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there's a skatepark in Singapore, but can't imagine street skating to be received so well.
and yeah turkey, there was.
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When isn't there a one. My Dad was there one time when one went down. I think they have had some shit like that every 5-10years over there.
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i know, going down on hairy chicks is a bit tricky...
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Stop being a emotional wuss bag and get in control of your emotions pussy. Thats what Segrean Payne used to tell me all the time. Now i dont know what u heard bout me but im a P.I.M.P.
Seriously just think over your life and priorities and see if this relationship is worthwhile. She prob broke up with the asshole and is using you as a comfort/reboundf person to boost her self esteam while shes trying to think over what she REALLY wants which is usually the opposite of what she tells you. Look for body language(closed= lies, open = truth), facial expressions sad happy, tone of voice when she tellls you what she says.
If your fuckin multilple biches make sure to maintain the power in the relationship. Always end calls first, end chill sessions/ dates first, tell her your busy later on. It just creates value and anticiaption which hopeuflly u have some hobbies besides skating to make you a fun and interesting individual.
The FB system is good by the way i got 2 girls on it right now for about 4 months could of done 3 but i love to skate more than i like girls. Since shes just so emotionally fucked up tell her something like this " I know your going through alot with your bf and maybe getting into a relationship wouldnt be the best option for you right now since you need time to recover, but i like women who follow the natural way and go according to there instincts so we should just feel comfortable in each others presence and if one thing leads to another so be itl... it was natural after all"
Then this bich will smile and wanna suck your dick and she can imagine about what the relationship is in her fucked up mind and never have a clear answer making for constant sexual relations,
GO pick up girls too everywhere u go too... expand and fuck that pussssy!
damn, man you've got that down, so true sooo true
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nah, fuck playing chicks. you're gonna wake up and realize you're serving these virgin girls straight to satan, and that act won't come without a price...YOUR SOUL BOUND TO THE ETERNAL FLAMES OF DAMNATION!!!!
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there's a skatepark in Singapore, but can't imagine street skating to be received so well.
and yeah turkey, there was.
the park is modular, and like any big city skating isnt recieved well. before i moved out this summer, i skated there every sat and sunday for 3 years straight, never got a ticket (but i did get chased a couple times). skating is the fucking shit there, almost every building in the city is skateable, at least half has marble
as ive said before (under a diff name) singapore, together with tokyo, osaka, hong kong, shanghai and maybe some others will be the new places to go to on your holidays.
i was in thailand during the coup, wasnt a huge deal, i didnt even notice it.
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i was in thailand during the coup, wasnt a huge deal, i didnt even notice it.
Really? Why did I assume this was some sort of big deal. Didn't the military take control of the government? That's not noticable? Wow. Please don't take this as me doubting you, its just kinda crazy. I imagined tribunals and flaming villages, not just another day.
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nah, it was more like they just rolled in with their cars, silent and shit, and just talked on tv.
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I guess you weren´t at Bangkok, because there it was big deal. I mean it was all in alla very peaceful coup, no violence at all, but there were tanks all over the city. My girlfriends (whoops, EX since a few days) father works there...
yeah... but they didnt really do anything... just drove around.
most people acted like it was nothing though it was kind of funny
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Yeah, I heard it was basically just a bunch of guys coming into town in tanks and saying this shit is ours. I think if the goverment would have resisted the raping, burning and pillaging would have started.
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Yeah, I heard it was basically just a bunch of guys coming into town in tanks and saying this shit is ours.
Yeah, you put it really well!
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Bump this thread as I didn’t want to start a new one.
So it seems I have a girlfriend these days and I’m super excited about it. We couldn’t stand each other when I lived in Denver but through a series of unfortunate experiences past and over the last 18 years we’ve had similar experiences and are mature with handling things differently and rationally.
I’m going to be going to Manitou springs this Sunday from Denver. She’s a professional masseuse and herbalist. I’m on cloud 9 and I couldn’t be happier.
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thats just plain nice to hear fapinator
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Bump this thread as I didn’t want to start a new one.
So it seems I have a girlfriend these days and I’m super excited about it. We couldn’t stand each other when I lived in Denver but through a series of unfortunate experiences past and over the last 18 years we’ve had similar experiences and are mature with handling things differently and rationally.
I’m going to be going to Manitou springs this Sunday from Denver. She’s a professional masseuse and herbalist. I’m on cloud 9 and I couldn’t be happier.
hell yeah!
what happened to gipper? is he around with a new name?
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Bump this thread as I didn’t want to start a new one.
So it seems I have a girlfriend these days and I’m super excited about it. We couldn’t stand each other when I lived in Denver but through a series of unfortunate experiences past and over the last 18 years we’ve had similar experiences and are mature with handling things differently and rationally.
I’m going to be going to Manitou springs this Sunday from Denver. She’s a professional masseuse and herbalist. I’m on cloud 9 and I couldn’t be happier.
hell yeah!
what happened to gipper? is he around with a new name?
Not sure who the Gipper was but I heard of him.
I had a fantastic time BTW Manitou Springs was wonderful and our hotel bed definitely got a workout. I love my girlfriend, might move out there summertime.
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Had one back in 2011, ended up marrying her and we have 3 kids. Life’s crazy lol.
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I don't have a girlfriend, I just know a girl that would get real pissed if she heard me say that.