Only Bauhaus I listened to was half of "she's in parties" right now, so i don't know how representative it is of their overall sound, but you might like this. Some similar elements, but it's more intense than that song at least.
I might just want another excuse to post this song, cause I put it in the shoegaze thread too
As far as keeping up on music, the quietus and drownedinsound are pretty solid sites. I like tinymixtapes too, but sometimes they're annoying