I remember when my dad found out that I was gay and threw me out of the house. I was like, "Well I guess I'm out of the closet now," and I kind of went all crazy queeny. Like, wearing freedom rings around my neck and wearing Don't Panic t-shirts and acting sassy. I think I felt like I needed a new family and to belong in that new family I'd need to dress a certain way and act a certain way, like certain things and go to certain places. Fortunately, that turned out to be a phase (not being gay, but acting gay, if that makes sense). I realized I didn't need to be anything different than I'd always been and I could still be queer. So I got scuzzy and crusty and baggy and saggy again and have always been okay with the way I present myself as a homo gay queer.
All of that to say that it seems like BA is going through something similar and I wonder if he's lost forever or if he'll come back from the rodeo?
And who am I to say what he should or shouldn't wear? I'm nobody. Still it's interesting to watch.