My whole point is.. To a certain degree yes gender is a social construct.. But it's not completely so. The reason why I'm conflating gender and sex is that they are different, but they're not actually completely separate... This is the argument I'm trying to make, I don't see why anyone would insult me for this. A few definitions from our good reliable friend the internet tell us that the idea of gender being entirely a social construct is not actually the one and only definition for gender:
"Gender is the wide set of characteristics that are seen to distinguish between male and female. It can extend from sex to social role or gender identity"
"refers to the different roles and responsibilities attributed to men and women in society. It does not only mean the biological definition of sex as male and female, but also how these biological definitions are constructed in a social context, subject to historical and cultural change"
My argument is that to say gender is COMPLETELY socially constructed is to ignore that gender is actually fundamentally related to ones sex and that also some, probably not most, gender differences are the result of the different physiology of men and women.. Like it or not there is a biological difference to men and women... To acknowledge that men and women have different hormones acting at different levels and then to claim that there could be absolutely NO BIOLOGICAL determinant in the difference between the way men and women act is kinda ridiculous to me. Think about it.. Women act differently when going the menopause... Men don't have that same period. Take a endocrinology class.. Men and women have different hormones acting at different levels which is going to cause AT LEAST SOME difference in behavior...
I agree that the difference is much less than traditionally believed but if you read my argument I don't really understand how you could still justify saying that gender is entirely socially constructed, unless you just say your definition of gender is that it merely the socially constructed gender roles etc in society.. But then again I would say that these gender roles evolved over a very long period of time, at the beginning of which biological sex differences probably more closely determined gender differences.
Just think about it.. Men and women serve different purposes in the grand scheme of things.. Women carry the child.. Men don't.. Women invest a lot more of themselves into a child, having it in them for 9 months etc, whereas men only invest their sperm. The sexes interact with each other in different ways. This basic fundamental difference has to at least in some way affect the gender differences between the sexes does it not?
Hormones can without question be said to affect how people act... Men and women experience different hormones at different levels at different times of their life. Think about menopause, "pms", whatever the word might be for males experiencing dramatic decreases in testosterone in their life... Men and women do have AT LEAST AT SOME MINUTE LEVEL a biological difference in the way they act.. For fucks sake it might barely even be there but I think it's there there..
Like you said, males are better at short bursts of strength, whereas females may be better suited to and extended use of strength.. Differences like these probably created a division in labor in the beginning of society, which over time became more and more socially constructed but I don't think it's crazy or bigoted to believe there is at least some trace root somewhere in biological sex..
That's the end of the rant.. I think that sex and gender are intrinsically related so that to talk about them without conflating them is sort of impossible.
Am I just crazy for this oyolar or is it at least a fairly well reasoned argument? I don't mean disrespect to hillary or anyone else, or to try to justify current gender differences. I'm just saying they must have developed over the progression of society from some kind of biological basis to where they are now.