I don't really have much to add to this thread, I read the whole thing and alot of it hits home.
I was farmed out/sold out by my ex-favorite cousin to some airline pilot when we went to visit him at his mansion in Miami. Im not sure if he abused my cousin prior to my assault, since he and I never talked about it, and when I ended up having a nervous breakdown a decade later in front of my fam, he denied it ever happened to me when he was confronted.
Just wanna say if this has happened to anyone here, and you need to talk to someone, you can always drop me a line, I'm all ears. I've learned a lot about trauma, self blame, disassociation to trauma, gaslighting, how family ain't shit sometimes, etc, at 13 yrs old.