Welcome to America Christie, the home of the free! Now with your 144 posts it would be awesome to push through the barriers and make your first post that doesnt involve womanism.
Remember that picture of a woman, 9 months pregnant, in a tube-top, about to drop in at Burnside.
lol, don't you hate other girl skaters yourself?
That’s a woman warrior right there. You can feel the heshness coming from the words.Expand QuoteRemember that picture of a woman, 9 months pregnant, in a tube-top, about to drop in at Burnside.[close]
Thrasher caught up with her recently.
https://www.thrashermagazine.com/articles/the-mom-who-skated-9-months-pregnant/ (https://www.thrashermagazine.com/articles/the-mom-who-skated-9-months-pregnant/)
Damn I was going to make fun of OP for that link to the enjoi article, anyone getting mad at that is reaching hard because it’s clearly a fucking stupid joke.Expand Quotelol, don't you hate other girl skaters yourself?[close]
Holy shit, right?!? You yourself (Jesu, not Ocelot) were basically calling the successful Instagram skate girls prostitutes and that you were the "real" girl skater that deserved all the shine instead for your skill over looks, even though every clip you posted was terrible. Kick rocks, sister.
And no, I'm from nowhere near Long Island.
I’m happy that skateboarding has come some way in supporting females more.
The elitist/superior attitude that men are better has started to change.
I never liked how rape and domestic violence were promoted from some cos. It shows disrespect for woman. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2013/may/09/enjoi-skateboards-pull-ads-protest
Without being said, I’ve experienced some of the attitude in my years of skating. Being called a groupie or prostitute and targeted for harassment And violent behavior.
Spoke to others in my community who were concerned but some of the skaters themselves pretend to be good people to the general public. There’s still some aspect of people thinking it’s ok to offend females.
I do not thing approving of this kind of behavior is ok.
Others in my community have thought nothing of me being targeted for this.
Expand Quotelol, don't you hate other girl skaters yourself?[close]
Holy shit, right?!? You yourself (Jesu, not Ocelot) were basically calling the successful Instagram skate girls prostitutes and that you were the "real" girl skater that deserved all the shine instead for your skill over looks, even though every clip you posted was terrible. Kick rocks, sister.
And no, I'm from nowhere near Long Island.
Old news. 7 year old article
But men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close]
But men treating us like dirt remainsI completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close]
I completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close]
I completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.
Expand QuoteI completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close][close]
Yeah ok but dirt-treaters remain in our midst.
I like IG girls skaters especially when they tictac and swipe their hair out the way while using their opposite hand holding the other side of their hair back as the do a kickflip varial in overalls and land kinda funny and tictac out again and look back at the camera and smile. And sometimes I just like watching Gino push. Me and my friends use to get yelled at all the time at our local skate park from guys in trucks. They would call us faggots. That made me sad and angry.... Idk where I'm going with this what was this thread about again?I was bombin a fat hill last week with some homies and some asshole bros thought it be sick to yell skater fags out their window. These fools swerved into the opposite lane and blared their horn just to fuck with us. Homie ate it hard mid bomb and we all had to walk back to the top to bomb it again. Point is people suck
Oh men treat other men like dirt too... not even dirt.... but shit. They treat other men like shit. Just punch them in the face.
I was bombin a fat hill last week with some homies and some asshole bros thought it be sick to yell skater fags out their window. These fools swerved into the opposite lane and blared their horn just to fuck with us. Homie ate it hard mid bomb and we all had to walk back to the top to bomb it again. Point is people suckExpand QuoteI like IG girls skaters especially when they tictac and swipe their hair out the way while using their opposite hand holding the other side of their hair back as the do a kickflip varial in overalls and land kinda funny and tictac out again and look back at the camera and smile. And sometimes I just like watching Gino push. Me and my friends use to get yelled at all the time at our local skate park from guys in trucks. They would call us faggots. That made me sad and angry.... Idk where I'm going with this what was this thread about again?
Oh men treat other men like dirt too... not even dirt.... but shit. They treat other men like shit. Just punch them in the face.[close]
I always liked Cara Beth Burnside.
Expand QuoteI always liked Cara Beth Burnside.[close]
What the hell? I always thought it was Cara Beff Burnside.
Welcome to America Christie, the home of the free! Now with your 144 posts it would be awesome to push through the barriers and make your first post that doesnt involve womanism.
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteI always liked Cara Beth Burnside.[close]
What the hell? I always thought it was Cara Beff Burnside.[close]
That's how people who hold pencils with a closed fist while writing probably say it.
I'm a chick and I have a dick - that's worth like 10 cool points these days. Eat shit boys!post a pic then fucko.
Women who skate ALWAYS get me so stoked. I don't give a shit if a girl is only using it to cruise around or is out there getting tricks, I think it's rad as hell.
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteI completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close][close]
Yeah ok but dirt-treaters remain in our midst.[close]
If you can't at least say who did what exactly, you can't expect anything helpful or productive in return. Who are the dirt treaters? What have they done? Why should it change? Being generally upset/offended/hurt doesn't solve anything.
But men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close]
Expand QuoteI was bombin a fat hill last week with some homies and some asshole bros thought it be sick to yell skater fags out their window. These fools swerved into the opposite lane and blared their horn just to fuck with us. Homie ate it hard mid bomb and we all had to walk back to the top to bomb it again. Point is people suckExpand QuoteI like IG girls skaters especially when they tictac and swipe their hair out the way while using their opposite hand holding the other side of their hair back as the do a kickflip varial in overalls and land kinda funny and tictac out again and look back at the camera and smile. And sometimes I just like watching Gino push. Me and my friends use to get yelled at all the time at our local skate park from guys in trucks. They would call us faggots. That made me sad and angry.... Idk where I'm going with this what was this thread about again?
Oh men treat other men like dirt too... not even dirt.... but shit. They treat other men like shit. Just punch them in the face.[close][close]
Both of these guys sum it up pretty well. Just because people are shitty and cruel doesn't necessarily indicate some type of prejudice against a certain group. And assuming people's motive is just you projecting your worldview onto their actions. I'm sure guys have been mean to women, but to say it was because they were a woman, is at best a guess. Like if someone stole from you, it doesn't definitively mean they did it because they hate your race/gender/group. It just means that they're a thief, and a dickhead. And until you know their motive, spewing accusations of "isms" around just sort of pours fuel on the fire of the issues that divide us as humans.
Nothing new to have anything stolen from people like this. They will steal Money, your heart, love for skating and anything elseExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI was bombin a fat hill last week with some homies and some asshole bros thought it be sick to yell skater fags out their window. These fools swerved into the opposite lane and blared their horn just to fuck with us. Homie ate it hard mid bomb and we all had to walk back to the top to bomb it again. Point is people suckExpand QuoteI like IG girls skaters especially when they tictac and swipe their hair out the way while using their opposite hand holding the other side of their hair back as the do a kickflip varial in overalls and land kinda funny and tictac out again and look back at the camera and smile. And sometimes I just like watching Gino push. Me and my friends use to get yelled at all the time at our local skate park from guys in trucks. They would call us faggots. That made me sad and angry.... Idk where I'm going with this what was this thread about again?
Oh men treat other men like dirt too... not even dirt.... but shit. They treat other men like shit. Just punch them in the face.[close][close]
Both of these guys sum it up pretty well. Just because people are shitty and cruel doesn't necessarily indicate some type of prejudice against a certain group. And assuming people's motive is just you projecting your worldview onto their actions. I'm sure guys have been mean to women, but to say it was because they were a woman, is at best a guess. Like if someone stole from you, it doesn't definitively mean they did it because they hate your race/gender/group. It just means that they're a thief, and a dickhead. And until you know their motive, spewing accusations of "isms" around just sort of pours fuel on the fire of the issues that divide us as humans.[close]
I’m happy that skateboarding has come some way in supporting females more.
The elitist/superior attitude that men are better has started to change.
I never liked how rape and domestic violence were promoted from some cos. It shows disrespect for woman. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2013/may/09/enjoi-skateboards-pull-ads-protest
Without being said, I’ve experienced some of the attitude in my years of skating. Being called a groupie or prostitute and targeted for harassment And violent behavior.
Spoke to others in my community who were concerned but some of the skaters themselves pretend to be good people to the general public. There’s still some aspect of people thinking it’s ok to offend females.
I do not thing approving of this kind of behavior is ok.
Others in my community have thought nothing of me being targeted for this.
Just sayin.. have you seen how Jah dresses?Expand QuoteI’m happy that skateboarding has come some way in supporting females more.
The elitist/superior attitude that men are better has started to change.
I never liked how rape and domestic violence were promoted from some cos. It shows disrespect for woman. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2013/may/09/enjoi-skateboards-pull-ads-protest
Without being said, I’ve experienced some of the attitude in my years of skating. Being called a groupie or prostitute and targeted for harassment And violent behavior.
Spoke to others in my community who were concerned but some of the skaters themselves pretend to be good people to the general public. There’s still some aspect of people thinking it’s ok to offend females.
I do not thing approving of this kind of behavior is ok.
Others in my community have thought nothing of me being targeted for this.[close]
Males offend males too, just look at any slap thread (cough ham mudgera and his fat shaming). If you want equality then you gotta take the good with the bad. Also I know this doesn't apply to all girls but if they don't want to be objectified, then why wear sexy ass skin tight / revealing clothing? Don't give me that 'its more comfortable' story either, thats up there with male bike riders shaving their legs and wearing lycra to get extra aero-dynamics BS. Women love to flaunt their shit but get all up tight when a guy notices. Go figure! I'm sure an army of gender police will fire off at this post, but all they are doing is proving the point. Women don't want equality, they want asylum from all things bad in this world.
Women love to flaunt their shit but get all up tight when a guy notices. Go figure!
Nothing new to have anything stolen from people like this. They will steal Money, your heart, love for skating and anything elseExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI was bombin a fat hill last week with some homies and some asshole bros thought it be sick to yell skater fags out their window. These fools swerved into the opposite lane and blared their horn just to fuck with us. Homie ate it hard mid bomb and we all had to walk back to the top to bomb it again. Point is people suckExpand QuoteI like IG girls skaters especially when they tictac and swipe their hair out the way while using their opposite hand holding the other side of their hair back as the do a kickflip varial in overalls and land kinda funny and tictac out again and look back at the camera and smile. And sometimes I just like watching Gino push. Me and my friends use to get yelled at all the time at our local skate park from guys in trucks. They would call us faggots. That made me sad and angry.... Idk where I'm going with this what was this thread about again?
Oh men treat other men like dirt too... not even dirt.... but shit. They treat other men like shit. Just punch them in the face.[close][close]
Both of these guys sum it up pretty well. Just because people are shitty and cruel doesn't necessarily indicate some type of prejudice against a certain group. And assuming people's motive is just you projecting your worldview onto their actions. I'm sure guys have been mean to women, but to say it was because they were a woman, is at best a guess. Like if someone stole from you, it doesn't definitively mean they did it because they hate your race/gender/group. It just means that they're a thief, and a dickhead. And until you know their motive, spewing accusations of "isms" around just sort of pours fuel on the fire of the issues that divide us as humans.[close]
It would be quite easy to guess based upon some of the New Yorkers that have been featured on here in the past. Anyone that fits the description as “dirty” “unkept”. Certain New Yorkers that come from Long Island think it’s cool to hate on others for no reasonExpand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close][close]
Yeah ok but dirt-treaters remain in our midst.[close]
If you can't at least say who did what exactly, you can't expect anything helpful or productive in return. Who are the dirt treaters? What have they done? Why should it change? Being generally upset/offended/hurt doesn't solve anything.[close]
Women who skate ALWAYS get me so stoked. I don't give a shit if a girl is only using it to cruise around or is out there getting tricks, I think it's rad as hell.
Expand QuoteI’m happy that skateboarding has come some way in supporting females more.
The elitist/superior attitude that men are better has started to change.
I never liked how rape and domestic violence were promoted from some cos. It shows disrespect for woman. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2013/may/09/enjoi-skateboards-pull-ads-protest
Without being said, I’ve experienced some of the attitude in my years of skating. Being called a groupie or prostitute and targeted for harassment And violent behavior.
Spoke to others in my community who were concerned but some of the skaters themselves pretend to be good people to the general public. There’s still some aspect of people thinking it’s ok to offend females.
I do not thing approving of this kind of behavior is ok.
Others in my community have thought nothing of me being targeted for this.[close]
Males offend males too, just look at any slap thread (cough ham mudgera and his fat shaming). If you want equality then you gotta take the good with the bad. Also I know this doesn't apply to all girls but if they don't want to be objectified, then why wear sexy ass skin tight / revealing clothing? Don't give me that 'its more comfortable' story either, thats up there with male bike riders shaving their legs and wearing lycra to get extra aero-dynamics BS. Women love to flaunt their shit but get all up tight when a guy notices. Go figure! I'm sure an army of gender police will fire off at this post, but all they are doing is proving the point. Women don't want equality, they want asylum from all things bad in this world.
Christie check out r/femaledatingstrategy on reddit. Encountering men that treat us like dirt is pretty universal whether in skateboarding or anywhere else. There are ways to deal. First you’ve got to unlearn a lot of girl socialization, like being the low maintenance “cool girl.” Second is learning how to prioritize your energy and attention away from shitty men and identify and direct it towards decent quality men.
And yes men treat each other like dirt too! I know because I have to manage male employees and they are consistently more disrespectful, hostile, openly racist to each other and drama producing than females. Not saying females are perfect, but guys are just more openly aggressive with each other in general.
I will say that things are much better than they were when I started skating 20 years ago. There’s a great women’s skate culture now, young people are more equity and justice minded now and don’t tolerate sexism. I think things will continue to improve. Just keep on keepin on.
I don't think this is about dating or recruiting people to reddit. Besides, that sub is literally the butt end of jokes among my female friends as the female equivalent of MGTOW. Anyways, women deserve all the same respect as anyone else, skating or otherwise.Thanks for this. I had a lurk on that subreddit after it was brought up here and was bummed to discover another fucked up internet echo chamber philosophy.
Thanks for this. I had a lurk on that subreddit after it was brought up here and was bummed to discover another fucked up internet echo chamber philosophy.Expand QuoteI don't think this is about dating or recruiting people to reddit. Besides, that sub is literally the butt end of jokes among my female friends as the female equivalent of MGTOW. Anyways, women deserve all the same respect as anyone else, skating or otherwise.[close]
I completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close]
Christie check out r/femaledatingstrategy on reddit. Encountering men that treat us like dirt is pretty universal whether in skateboarding or anywhere else. There are ways to deal. First you’ve got to unlearn a lot of girl socialization, like being the low maintenance “cool girl.” Second is learning how to prioritize your energy and attention away from shitty men and identify and direct it towards decent quality men.
And yes men treat each other like dirt too! I know because I have to manage male employees and they are consistently more disrespectful, hostile, openly racist to each other and drama producing than females. Not saying females are perfect, but guys are just more openly aggressive with each other in general.
I will say that things are much better than they were when I started skating 20 years ago. There’s a great women’s skate culture now, young people are more equity and justice minded now and don’t tolerate sexism. I think things will continue to improve. Just keep on keepin on.
Anyone remember that King of the Road challenge from like '06ish where one of the challenges was to focus a girl's skateboard? I know they probably hooked her up with a new deck after, but I was always bummed watching that. I remember watching it with this trashy shithead when we were kids and he thought it was hilarious.
Sexism + violenceExpand QuoteI completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close][close]
Expand QuoteSexism + violenceExpand QuoteI completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close][close][close]
This is why no one takes you seriously. You quote people but don't address ANYTHING they say. It's like you're just talking to yourself. It's impossible to converse with you. If this is how you are in real life then it's your fault people (long islanders?) Talk shit about you. It's because you're either a troll or straight up moron.
Expand QuoteSexism + violenceExpand QuoteI completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close][close][close]
This is why no one takes you seriously. You quote people but don't address ANYTHING they say. It's like you're just talking to yourself. It's impossible to converse with you. If this is how you are in real life then it's your fault people (long islanders?) Talk shit about you. It's because you're either a troll or straight up moron.
Is this like the time someone thought Bread Staba actually posted here and poured their heart out to said account about an incident in which they were offended by him?
Expand QuoteIs this like the time someone thought Bread Staba actually posted here and poured their heart out to said account about an incident in which they were offended by him?[close]
Actual screenshots would be better, but don't get me wrong because Fortune is wack anyway. Manny Santiago and Rachelle Vinberg? Sure, let me just throw on my Ecko gear and wash down this Rokstar, already hyped to go skate - just watched Skate Kitchen.
Sexism + violenceExpand QuoteI completely agree with you in many ways but saying stuff like that is only gonna turn people off and stop them from listening. if you want to change people's minds you have to come at it from a point of trying to understand where there coming from not the opposite.Expand QuoteBut men treating us like dirt remainsExpand QuoteOld news. 7 year old article[close][close][close]
the best way to provide validity is ofcourse to post cropped screenshots with no context
paging links pics and quotes
the best way to provide validity is ofcourse to post cropped screenshots with no context
paging links pics and quotes
what the hell is this? who is going to fuck someone w/ a real job? i'm confused. did BA put his hands on the girl? it's in NY, where is Quartersnacks to explain it in jargon?
Actual screenshots would be better, but don't get me wrong because Fortune is wack anyway. Manny Santiago and Rachelle Vinberg? Sure, let me just throw on my Ecko gear and wash down this Rokstar, already hyped to go skate - just watched Skate Kitchen.
When I was just a youngin', maybe 18 or 19 a girl skater came to town for college. She fucking ripped those 4 years and got the same respect as everyone else.
I remember there was no shit talk, no acting weird, everyone just accepted her. She was bad ass and I wonder what she's up to these days.
Dunno where I'm even going with this, that I guess some girls fit in right away cuz they're down for theirs. Maybe there was some drama, but if there was I was never privy. She was basically just one of the boys/us.
If you're out there, what up girl!!!
So basically there was one girl who in particularly was known in the crowd. Obviously she got around once or twice and everyone in the crowd knew. The next week her picture is all over Facebook and instagram with degrading captions. Everyone started laughing and reinforcing the behavior. Calling her a hoe etc.That's weak if they did so. How come you didn't just screencap all that?
seems like her actual boyfriend at the time did not see her as anything more than a booty call. Looks to me that he treated her badly.
It disgusts me that anyone would encourage that type of behavior. Especially if these people claim to be other role models and even are promoting another female skater.
These people are far from being role models degrading chicks calling them groupiesever since christie dejesu played a little show in GuadalupeExpand QuoteWhen I was just a youngin', maybe 18 or 19 a girl skater came to town for college. She fucking ripped those 4 years and got the same respect as everyone else.
I remember there was no shit talk, no acting weird, everyone just accepted her. She was bad ass and I wonder what she's up to these days.
Dunno where I'm even going with this, that I guess some girls fit in right away cuz they're down for theirs. Maybe there was some drama, but if there was I was never privy. She was basically just one of the boys/us.
If you're out there, what up girl!!![close]
Christie DeJesu: Well, you had mentioned about something called slut shaming, or guilt shaming, and I've definitely been accustomed to such behavior in which I almost felt inferior to particular men for no apparent reason. They just targeted me on the internet. I don't know if it's because I didn't skate as good as they skated, or just because they saw me as a girl they could easily take advantage of. Why would someone do something so cruel? Especially people that I had been friends with who I had thought were close friends of mine even.
Christie: I wasn't trying to get anyone else's attention, but for some reason, when I started posting videos on Instagram, people thought that I was specifically trying to get their attention in a sexual way. And, no - I'm just trying to be friendly with people. I'm not trying to get their sexual attention.
Christie: I got interested when I was 18 years old. And, yeah, I am turning 28 tomorrow. I just had this one really horrible guy message me on social media and threaten me for no apparent reason. I mean, he had told me he wanted a date with me. Gave me all these promises of all these things and the life that we would have together. And then, out of nowhere, he starts threatening me. He even - he's like, threatening me with a kid even. I was like, "Where did this come from? I don't know why you would do this to me. I was your friend all along and you're just gonna fake friendship on me and slut shame me for being a girl skater?"
Christie: I think that they act differently towards their male friends, and that people might not actually know that they're bad people unless I were to go on a podcast and explain to people what I've been going through. Especially being emotionally abused as a female and basically treated like a fucking prostitute.
Christie: I had explained my situation to a bunch of people within the skate scene here and there. No one went out of their way to help me, and I was just left feeling like I had nowhere to go and no one really cared about me.
Christie: I'm kind of frightened after this all happened to me knowing that the person knows all these people in New York and in general. What can possibly happen if they made me feel very inferior and I felt scared to even be around them. What can possibly happen? I'm not really that far away from the person.
Dylan Manna: So, let me ask you this, if you don't mind. Could you, without telling names, tell the story that triggered all this? Recently I've been noticing on your Instagram that you have one story after the other about various people who you've discovered - sort of, almost in a secret kind of way - bad mouthing you and shaming you as best they know how.
Christie: They hide behind the cell phone and say horrible things, and manipulate me, and control me. Use me like a prostitute and they think it's OK.
Christie: I became friends with a group of guys. They all saw me as kind of like an object and that it was OK to just fool around with me however they wanted to. And it escalated to a really extreme point of one of them actually cyberbullying me to the point of criminal harassment.
Dylan: So, do you think that you stuck around with these guys because -
Christie: I for some reason thought they were good skaters and I thought that they'd be good influences on me because the way they present themselves on social media seems like, "Oh, they're good guys. And they're cool guys. Why wouldn't you want to hang out with them?" But you don't know what they're actually doing aside from that.
Dylan: So you would have never have hung out with them if you didn't love skating?
Christie: No, no, I just had hung out with them because I thought that I wanted to hang out with people that are a little bit better than me and that I could potentially better myself from being with them.
Christie: You learn from the people with the most experience, but I didn't think they would be such sick people to do something this terrible to me that's basically a crime. If I were to go to the cops right now they would say that it's domestic violence or criminal harassment.
Christie: No, I wasn't raped, but the aggression on the internet was as aggressive as someone saying, "I'm gonna rape you, or I'm gonna do something else even worse to you."
Dylan: If you don't feel like it's too much to talk about, could you give some more detail about the kind of stuff they actually did?
Christie: They had said to me, "If you loved me, then you would stop skating." They told me that I had to move back to Long Island when they knew that I was out here in the city doing things that I was doing. Made me feel terrible about even being here in the city - living here. Forcing me to go back to Long Island for whatever reason.
Dylan: But they also took images of you and -
Christie: Oh yeah, the sexual images thing. They were asking for sexual images of me almost to like, shame me. Asking for pictures of my tits. Like, "Let's see some pictures" of my tits. Basically to humiliate me at first. Humiliate me, shame me, guilt me, trick me, manipulate me. All that.
Christie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females. If you know someone is acting up in your friend circle, then you should step up and say something. You shouldn't just allow that to happen. I had this guy screaming at me in front of a group of guys, and everyone was just sitting there doing nothing. They were just staring and watching. That's not the correct way to act. If you see someone being mistreated, you should stand up and say something.
That's weak if they did so. How come you didn't just screencap all that?Expand QuoteSo basically there was one girl who in particularly was known in the crowd. Obviously she got around once or twice and everyone in the crowd knew. The next week her picture is all over Facebook and instagram with degrading captions. Everyone started laughing and reinforcing the behavior. Calling her a hoe etc.
seems like her actual boyfriend at the time did not see her as anything more than a booty call. Looks to me that he treated her badly.
It disgusts me that anyone would encourage that type of behavior. Especially if these people claim to be other role models and even are promoting another female skater.[close]
It's a slow night - let's throw some people under the bus.
kinda sad how girls like this nowadays just pivot to victim when they suck at something
like pick a different career or something jeez
reading those excerpts, i think she's mentally ill. she ran around w/ a skate crew and hooked up w/ a few of them. so obviously, they're gonna look at her as a woman of loose morals. in what world are titty pics 'to humiliate'? they're for jerking off.
it does suck if they shared them beyond that but i'm sure their motivation for asking for nudes was prurient, not to belittle.
if you wanna be one of the guys, maybe don't hook up with a few of the guys? it doesn't justify if there was actual abuse but she was effectively the wide eyed intern in the blue dress. replace that bad vibe with good skating.
This is the dumbest fucking troll thread. Stop responding to these dummies just trying to stir shit up. These ladies (if they're actually women and not just pretending to be) aren't doing real women any favors. Look at their arguments, they're random, all over the place, and don't directly respond to anyone being reasonable. It's all just nonsense. Be good to other people no matter their gender, and stop feeding the trolls.
This is the dumbest fucking troll thread. Stop responding to these dummies just trying to stir shit up. These ladies (if they're actually women and not just pretending to be) aren't doing real women any favors. Look at their arguments, they're random, all over the place, and don't directly respond to anyone being reasonable. It's all just nonsense. Be good to other people no matter their gender, and stop feeding the trolls.
Expand QuoteThis is the dumbest fucking troll thread. Stop responding to these dummies just trying to stir shit up. These ladies (if they're actually women and not just pretending to be) aren't doing real women any favors. Look at their arguments, they're random, all over the place, and don't directly respond to anyone being reasonable. It's all just nonsense. Be good to other people no matter their gender, and stop feeding the trolls.[close]
reading those excerpts, i think she's mentally ill. she ran around w/ a skate crew and hooked up w/ a few of them. so obviously, they're gonna look at her as a woman of loose morals. in what world are titty pics 'to humiliate'? they're for jerking off.
it does suck if they shared them beyond that but i'm sure their motivation for asking for nudes was prurient, not to belittle.
if you wanna be one of the guys, maybe don't hook up with a few of the guys? it doesn't justify if there was actual abuse but she was effectively the wide eyed intern in the blue dress. replace that bad vibe with good skating.
So if someone leaves abusive messages we should ignore that.
Just let it go! It’s a female and she should be treated that wayExpand QuoteExpand QuoteThis is the dumbest fucking troll thread. Stop responding to these dummies just trying to stir shit up. These ladies (if they're actually women and not just pretending to be) aren't doing real women any favors. Look at their arguments, they're random, all over the place, and don't directly respond to anyone being reasonable. It's all just nonsense. Be good to other people no matter their gender, and stop feeding the trolls.[close][close]
Nah, it's just 1 person with 3 accounts. Pretty good troll. Seems like a bot.
Who wanted to fight you?
kinda sad how girls like this nowadays just pivot to victim when they suck at something
like pick a different career or something jeez
The person who started the Chase Webb party thread was a troll who was spoofing the person who started this thread. Despite my earlier misgivings, I've talked to them and they are real. If you wanna confirm you gotta do it like a man.Expand QuoteWho wanted to fight you?[close]
The girl who started the chase webb rape thread. I’m pretty sure she started this thread but changed her name. She’s the one talking to herself in here I think.
QuoteExpand QuoteChristie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females.[close]
Expand QuoteQuoteExpand QuoteChristie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females.[close][close]
I think a lot of people are aware of how women are treated. The picture below is very relevant and demonstrates how some guys act on the internet. It's more of an internet/social media thing than it is a skateboarding thing. I have a sister that's had to deal with shit like this and my girlfriend has as well, neither of which have much of a connection to skateboarding at all. It's not just guys either, women tear each other apart as well. I mean some of the first posts from OP had to do with calling out other instagram girl skaters if I recall correctly. Then again who knows, might be one of the goons harassing her on the internet posing as her and trolling my stupid ass.
(https://i.postimg.cc/nVD5NfN6/Screenshot-14.png)
Expand QuoteWho wanted to fight you?[close]
The girl who started the chase webb rape thread. I’m pretty sure she started this thread but changed her name. She’s the one talking to herself in here I think.
http://youtu.be/qHzb84tH_8U
The person who started the Chase Webb party thread was a troll who was spoofing the person who started this thread. Despite my earlier misgivings, I've talked to them and they are real. If you wanna confirm you gotta do it like a man.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteWho wanted to fight you?[close]
The girl who started the chase webb rape thread. I’m pretty sure she started this thread but changed her name. She’s the one talking to herself in here I think.[close]
If someone straight up tells someone they don’t like them because they are a skateboarder it is about skating.
I watched the podcast. It all started when she was posting videos of herself skating. Hate crimes towards female skaters are not particularly new either. This particular group of people were sharing images with other skaters.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteQuoteExpand QuoteChristie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females.[close][close]
I think a lot of people are aware of how women are treated. The picture below is very relevant and demonstrates how some guys act on the internet. It's more of an internet/social media thing than it is a skateboarding thing. I have a sister that's had to deal with shit like this and my girlfriend has as well, neither of which have much of a connection to skateboarding at all. It's not just guys either, women tear each other apart as well. I mean some of the first posts from OP had to do with calling out other instagram girl skaters if I recall correctly. Then again who knows, might be one of the goons harassing her on the internet posing as her and trolling my stupid ass.
(https://i.postimg.cc/nVD5NfN6/Screenshot-14.png)[close]
Expand QuoteIf someone straight up tells someone they don’t like them because they are a skateboarder it is about skating.
I watched the podcast. It all started when she was posting videos of herself skating. Hate crimes towards female skaters are not particularly new either. This particular group of people were sharing images with other skaters.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteQuoteExpand QuoteChristie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females.[close][close]
I think a lot of people are aware of how women are treated. The picture below is very relevant and demonstrates how some guys act on the internet. It's more of an internet/social media thing than it is a skateboarding thing. I have a sister that's had to deal with shit like this and my girlfriend has as well, neither of which have much of a connection to skateboarding at all. It's not just guys either, women tear each other apart as well. I mean some of the first posts from OP had to do with calling out other instagram girl skaters if I recall correctly. Then again who knows, might be one of the goons harassing her on the internet posing as her and trolling my stupid ass.
(https://i.postimg.cc/nVD5NfN6/Screenshot-14.png)[close][close]
Plenty of people didn't like skateboarders when I was growing up. There are shitty people out there, but they're not shitty just because they skateboard. From what I can gather, it seems like more of a gatekeeping thing(which has also been around forever) and hopefully she found better friends to skate with for her own sake.
Sending other people's nudes is lame as fuck and those dudes can kick rocks, there's no excusing that. A woman did that to Johnny Layton and his dong ended up all over the internet. It's a cautionary tale about who you share yourself with intimately and it's unfortunate that it happened.
Seems like skating is a world of slut shaming at parties and on the internet.Have you ever considered it's not your gender that makes people dislike you or whatever? Your personality seems insufferable, and I would feel the same if you were a dude.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteIf someone straight up tells someone they don’t like them because they are a skateboarder it is about skating.
I watched the podcast. It all started when she was posting videos of herself skating. Hate crimes towards female skaters are not particularly new either. This particular group of people were sharing images with other skaters.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteQuoteExpand QuoteChristie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females.[close][close]
I think a lot of people are aware of how women are treated. The picture below is very relevant and demonstrates how some guys act on the internet. It's more of an internet/social media thing than it is a skateboarding thing. I have a sister that's had to deal with shit like this and my girlfriend has as well, neither of which have much of a connection to skateboarding at all. It's not just guys either, women tear each other apart as well. I mean some of the first posts from OP had to do with calling out other instagram girl skaters if I recall correctly. Then again who knows, might be one of the goons harassing her on the internet posing as her and trolling my stupid ass.
(https://i.postimg.cc/nVD5NfN6/Screenshot-14.png)[close][close]
Plenty of people didn't like skateboarders when I was growing up. There are shitty people out there, but they're not shitty just because they skateboard. From what I can gather, it seems like more of a gatekeeping thing(which has also been around forever) and hopefully she found better friends to skate with for her own sake.
Sending other people's nudes is lame as fuck and those dudes can kick rocks, there's no excusing that. A woman did that to Johnny Layton and his dong ended up all over the internet. It's a cautionary tale about who you share yourself with intimately and it's unfortunate that it happened.[close]
Have you ever considered it's not your gender that makes people dislike you or whatever? Your personality seems insufferable, and I would feel the same if you were a dude.Expand QuoteSeems like skating is a world of slut shaming at parties and on the internet.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteIf someone straight up tells someone they don’t like them because they are a skateboarder it is about skating.
I watched the podcast. It all started when she was posting videos of herself skating. Hate crimes towards female skaters are not particularly new either. This particular group of people were sharing images with other skaters.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteQuoteExpand QuoteChristie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females.[close][close]
I think a lot of people are aware of how women are treated. The picture below is very relevant and demonstrates how some guys act on the internet. It's more of an internet/social media thing than it is a skateboarding thing. I have a sister that's had to deal with shit like this and my girlfriend has as well, neither of which have much of a connection to skateboarding at all. It's not just guys either, women tear each other apart as well. I mean some of the first posts from OP had to do with calling out other instagram girl skaters if I recall correctly. Then again who knows, might be one of the goons harassing her on the internet posing as her and trolling my stupid ass.
(https://i.postimg.cc/nVD5NfN6/Screenshot-14.png)[close][close]
Plenty of people didn't like skateboarders when I was growing up. There are shitty people out there, but they're not shitty just because they skateboard. From what I can gather, it seems like more of a gatekeeping thing(which has also been around forever) and hopefully she found better friends to skate with for her own sake.
Sending other people's nudes is lame as fuck and those dudes can kick rocks, there's no excusing that. A woman did that to Johnny Layton and his dong ended up all over the internet. It's a cautionary tale about who you share yourself with intimately and it's unfortunate that it happened.[close][close]
reading those excerpts, i think she's mentally ill. she ran around w/ a skate crew and hooked up w/ a few of them. so obviously, they're gonna look at her as a woman of loose morals. in what world are titty pics 'to humiliate'? they're for jerking off.
it does suck if they shared them beyond that but i'm sure their motivation for asking for nudes was prurient, not to belittle.
if you wanna be one of the guys, maybe don't hook up with a few of the guys? it doesn't justify if there was actual abuse but she was effectively the wide eyed intern in the blue dress. replace that bad vibe with good skating.
I’m not mentally ill just the slight action of sharing nudes is abusive. That’s aside from all the shaming, physical abuse or mental abuseone way to not have nudes shared is to not share nudes...there are no take backs on the internet/social media so choose wisely.Expand Quotereading those excerpts, i think she's mentally ill. she ran around w/ a skate crew and hooked up w/ a few of them. so obviously, they're gonna look at her as a woman of loose morals. in what world are titty pics 'to humiliate'? they're for jerking off.
it does suck if they shared them beyond that but i'm sure their motivation for asking for nudes was prurient, not to belittle.
if you wanna be one of the guys, maybe don't hook up with a few of the guys? it doesn't justify if there was actual abuse but she was effectively the wide eyed intern in the blue dress. replace that bad vibe with good skating.[close]
Ok, so three of y’all are definitely the same bot— or Turing Test- failing person. Meaning I’m wasting my time replying, but fuck it.
Christie (?); you‘ve got to take a different approach if you want things to change.
Making this thread was pointless for starters. What do you even mean by “support of female skateboarders?” You’re not talking about actual industry support, nor mainstream society but specifically the peer support of male skateboarders.
Most of them do support females skating. But thats not the same as intervening in interpersonal drama a girl is having with a boy or group of boys she’s had various levels of sexual interaction with. You said in the podcast there was no rape (which would merit getting others involved), but “abuse” and “manipulation.” I sympathize, that sucks. But you can’t expect dudes barely known to you to white knight in and “support” you through these vague, nebulous complaints simply because they also skate. People hook up and feelings get hurt everywhere, all the time. Close friends may take sides, but those who are not and who have little first hand knowledge of the conflict are going to steer clear (unless they thrive on drama).
So let’s drop the pretense that this is about general support of female skateboarding. It’s not. Because it really doesn’t fucking matter if a group of “cool” NYC skaters thinks you should skate or not. Just do what you want, don’t solicit their approval first, keep doing it to spite and annoy them. How much consideration do you give to the opinions of average, non-skating professionals who think you’re too old to be playing skateboards? Because there’s a fuck ton more of them looking down on you than this group of mean boys. And none of them get any input on your choice of leisure activity.
I stand by my FDS recommendation. I believe you are getting bullied and manipulated by these boys. And it sounds like a familiar, gendered dynamic. It’s not really a skateboarding thing; it’s more of a being a young single adult thing. FDS is the strategy to counter this by addressing the only thing you can control: your behavior.
And this isn’t slut shaming. There’s nothing morally wrong about being sexual and taking nudes. But it’s PRACTICALLY problematic when nudes get passed around in a way you find abusive. You can’t make abusive guys not be that way, but you can take measures to protect yourself. Why send nudes anyways? Because the guy asked? What do you get out of it? His attention? You’re worth more than that. If you’re “cool” and casually hook up with or exchange photos with a guy for NOTHING than you run a real high risk of him being an asshole who will treat you as a “prostitute” and “object” (your terms from podcast). Vet the dudes first! His attention is not enough! If he wants to “hook up” make him work for it and demonstrate his sincerity through investments of his time and money first. Objectifying, manipulating jerks won’t jump through hoops so you can filter them out instead of sending the titty pic at their initial request and hoping they’ll turn out to be decent guys.
Expand QuoteOk, so three of y’all are definitely the same bot— or Turing Test- failing person. Meaning I’m wasting my time replying, but fuck it.
Christie (?); you‘ve got to take a different approach if you want things to change.
Making this thread was pointless for starters. What do you even mean by “support of female skateboarders?” You’re not talking about actual industry support, nor mainstream society but specifically the peer support of male skateboarders.
Most of them do support females skating. But thats not the same as intervening in interpersonal drama a girl is having with a boy or group of boys she’s had various levels of sexual interaction with. You said in the podcast there was no rape (which would merit getting others involved), but “abuse” and “manipulation.” I sympathize, that sucks. But you can’t expect dudes barely known to you to white knight in and “support” you through these vague, nebulous complaints simply because they also skate. People hook up and feelings get hurt everywhere, all the time. Close friends may take sides, but those who are not and who have little first hand knowledge of the conflict are going to steer clear (unless they thrive on drama).
So let’s drop the pretense that this is about general support of female skateboarding. It’s not. Because it really doesn’t fucking matter if a group of “cool” NYC skaters thinks you should skate or not. Just do what you want, don’t solicit their approval first, keep doing it to spite and annoy them. How much consideration do you give to the opinions of average, non-skating professionals who think you’re too old to be playing skateboards? Because there’s a fuck ton more of them looking down on you than this group of mean boys. And none of them get any input on your choice of leisure activity.
I stand by my FDS recommendation. I believe you are getting bullied and manipulated by these boys. And it sounds like a familiar, gendered dynamic. It’s not really a skateboarding thing; it’s more of a being a young single adult thing. FDS is the strategy to counter this by addressing the only thing you can control: your behavior.
And this isn’t slut shaming. There’s nothing morally wrong about being sexual and taking nudes. But it’s PRACTICALLY problematic when nudes get passed around in a way you find abusive. You can’t make abusive guys not be that way, but you can take measures to protect yourself. Why send nudes anyways? Because the guy asked? What do you get out of it? His attention? You’re worth more than that. If you’re “cool” and casually hook up with or exchange photos with a guy for NOTHING than you run a real high risk of him being an asshole who will treat you as a “prostitute” and “object” (your terms from podcast). Vet the dudes first! His attention is not enough! If he wants to “hook up” make him work for it and demonstrate his sincerity through investments of his time and money first. Objectifying, manipulating jerks won’t jump through hoops so you can filter them out instead of sending the titty pic at their initial request and hoping they’ll turn out to be decent guys.[close]
hope she reads this bro
Tell me how much of you all support females when half the skaters I’ve seen post pics of ass and boobs on Instagram.
I’m a woman. This is relevant because I’ve been there. I know what she’s thinking here too: post on SLAP, get the skater men’s attention and try to pressure a culture change in the boys club or at least get some white knights to stick up for her.
Culture change is admirable, but it happens a lot slower than the scale of actual human relationships. White knighting isn’t realistic either because it’s an anonymous message board and generally folks don’t get involved in random drama out of the goodness of their hearts.
The truth is there’s two camps the men she’s talking to fall into. The decent guys who look at women as full humans and sympathize with her but we’re never the ones causing her problems in the first place. And the assholes who look at women as objects, feel entitled to use them and see manipulation and abuse as part of “the game” who won’t give a shit about her post anyways.
Making a thread like this is essentially like saying “hey guys, what do you think of girl skaters? What do you think about me skating? Do you support it? What do you think about this abuse I’ve experienced? Do you agree? Are you on my side?” Stop asking men what they think! If you wanna skate that’s all the approval you need. You don’t need to get SLAP to agree with your experience; you lived it that’s enough. Just let go of what the skater men’s think period. It’s irrelevant. Focus on you.
Stop asking men to be nicer to you. Don’t ask or beg for decent treatment, TELL them how they are to treat you and block them from your life and DMs if they don’t comply. Talk to some other women hun.
I’m a woman. This is relevant because I’ve been there. I know what she’s thinking here too: post on SLAP, get the skater men’s attention and try to pressure a culture change in the boys club or at least get some white knights to stick up for her.
Culture change is admirable, but it happens a lot slower than the scale of actual human relationships. White knighting isn’t realistic either because it’s an anonymous message board and generally folks don’t get involved in random drama out of the goodness of their hearts.
The truth is there’s two camps the men she’s talking to fall into. The decent guys who look at women as full humans and sympathize with her but we’re never the ones causing her problems in the first place. And the assholes who look at women as objects, feel entitled to use them and see manipulation and abuse as part of “the game” who won’t give a shit about her post anyways.
Making a thread like this is essentially like saying “hey guys, what do you think of girl skaters? What do you think about me skating? Do you support it? What do you think about this abuse I’ve experienced? Do you agree? Are you on my side?” Stop asking men what they think! If you wanna skate that’s all the approval you need. You don’t need to get SLAP to agree with your experience; you lived it that’s enough. Just let go of what the skater men’s think period. It’s irrelevant. Focus on you.
Stop asking men to be nicer to you. Don’t ask or beg for decent treatment, TELL them how they are to treat you and block them from your life and DMs if they don’t comply. Talk to some other women hun.
That isn’t what this is at all.
Some people I used to associate that have harassed me. A few are involved with a skate company.
They had said this other girl we skated with ripped and all I am is a groupie and no one thinks I can skate.Expand QuoteI’m a woman. This is relevant because I’ve been there. I know what she’s thinking here too: post on SLAP, get the skater men’s attention and try to pressure a culture change in the boys club or at least get some white knights to stick up for her.
Culture change is admirable, but it happens a lot slower than the scale of actual human relationships. White knighting isn’t realistic either because it’s an anonymous message board and generally folks don’t get involved in random drama out of the goodness of their hearts.
The truth is there’s two camps the men she’s talking to fall into. The decent guys who look at women as full humans and sympathize with her but we’re never the ones causing her problems in the first place. And the assholes who look at women as objects, feel entitled to use them and see manipulation and abuse as part of “the game” who won’t give a shit about her post anyways.
Making a thread like this is essentially like saying “hey guys, what do you think of girl skaters? What do you think about me skating? Do you support it? What do you think about this abuse I’ve experienced? Do you agree? Are you on my side?” Stop asking men what they think! If you wanna skate that’s all the approval you need. You don’t need to get SLAP to agree with your experience; you lived it that’s enough. Just let go of what the skater men’s think period. It’s irrelevant. Focus on you.
Stop asking men to be nicer to you. Don’t ask or beg for decent treatment, TELL them how they are to treat you and block them from your life and DMs if they don’t comply. Talk to some other women hun.[close]
Nick Sassa is a domestic abuser and Brett Conti and Chad Caruso are serial harassers and Fortune Skateboards loves them
Expand QuoteNick Sassa is a domestic abuser and Brett Conti and Chad Caruso are serial harassers and Fortune Skateboards loves them[close]
(https://i.imgur.com/PhWYE96.jpg)
(https://i.imgur.com/e6ra5N1.jpg)
(https://i.imgur.com/lyAUhP2.jpg)
https://youtu.be/dYY_JwZkAw0 (https://youtu.be/dYY_JwZkAw0)
Expand QuoteNick Sassa is a domestic abuser and Brett Conti and Chad Caruso are serial harassers and Fortune Skateboards loves them[close]
(https://i.imgur.com/PhWYE96.jpg)
(https://i.imgur.com/e6ra5N1.jpg)
(https://i.imgur.com/lyAUhP2.jpg)
https://youtu.be/dYY_JwZkAw0 (https://youtu.be/dYY_JwZkAw0)
Expand QuoteThat isn’t what this is at all.
Some people I used to associate that have harassed me. A few are involved with a skate company.
They had said this other girl we skated with ripped and all I am is a groupie and no one thinks I can skate.Expand QuoteI’m a woman. This is relevant because I’ve been there. I know what she’s thinking here too: post on SLAP, get the skater men’s attention and try to pressure a culture change in the boys club or at least get some white knights to stick up for her.
Culture change is admirable, but it happens a lot slower than the scale of actual human relationships. White knighting isn’t realistic either because it’s an anonymous message board and generally folks don’t get involved in random drama out of the goodness of their hearts.
The truth is there’s two camps the men she’s talking to fall into. The decent guys who look at women as full humans and sympathize with her but we’re never the ones causing her problems in the first place. And the assholes who look at women as objects, feel entitled to use them and see manipulation and abuse as part of “the game” who won’t give a shit about her post anyways.
Making a thread like this is essentially like saying “hey guys, what do you think of girl skaters? What do you think about me skating? Do you support it? What do you think about this abuse I’ve experienced? Do you agree? Are you on my side?” Stop asking men what they think! If you wanna skate that’s all the approval you need. You don’t need to get SLAP to agree with your experience; you lived it that’s enough. Just let go of what the skater men’s think period. It’s irrelevant. Focus on you.
Stop asking men to be nicer to you. Don’t ask or beg for decent treatment, TELL them how they are to treat you and block them from your life and DMs if they don’t comply. Talk to some other women hun.[close][close]
What company? Who are harassing you? What are the specifics of the harassment? They’ve called you a groupie— that’s mean. Have you got names or screenshots? What are you hoping to get out of this?
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteThat isn’t what this is at all.
Some people I used to associate that have harassed me. A few are involved with a skate company.
They had said this other girl we skated with ripped and all I am is a groupie and no one thinks I can skate.Expand QuoteI’m a woman. This is relevant because I’ve been there. I know what she’s thinking here too: post on SLAP, get the skater men’s attention and try to pressure a culture change in the boys club or at least get some white knights to stick up for her.
Culture change is admirable, but it happens a lot slower than the scale of actual human relationships. White knighting isn’t realistic either because it’s an anonymous message board and generally folks don’t get involved in random drama out of the goodness of their hearts.
The truth is there’s two camps the men she’s talking to fall into. The decent guys who look at women as full humans and sympathize with her but we’re never the ones causing her problems in the first place. And the assholes who look at women as objects, feel entitled to use them and see manipulation and abuse as part of “the game” who won’t give a shit about her post anyways.
Making a thread like this is essentially like saying “hey guys, what do you think of girl skaters? What do you think about me skating? Do you support it? What do you think about this abuse I’ve experienced? Do you agree? Are you on my side?” Stop asking men what they think! If you wanna skate that’s all the approval you need. You don’t need to get SLAP to agree with your experience; you lived it that’s enough. Just let go of what the skater men’s think period. It’s irrelevant. Focus on you.
Stop asking men to be nicer to you. Don’t ask or beg for decent treatment, TELL them how they are to treat you and block them from your life and DMs if they don’t comply. Talk to some other women hun.[close][close]
What company? Who are harassing you? What are the specifics of the harassment? They’ve called you a groupie— that’s mean. Have you got names or screenshots? What are you hoping to get out of this?[close]
You seem like a reasonable, strong, independent woman. I'm sorry you got caught up in giving thoughtful insight to this fake internet troll. It sucks when you try to be real with people because you think there's an opportunity for meaningful discourse, but it's all just a troll. Aside from the advice you gave (which was sound), I made the exact point you did about specifics a few pages back. And if you think I'm white knighting, read my initial posts to get my full perspective.
(https://i.imgur.com/JfN97XT.jpg)Expand QuoteAll for girls skating but I’d appreciate it if the 15-17 year old girls would stop skating in the summer with a white tank top and no bra on. Shits just plain ignorant doesn’t matter how old you are. You’re sitting there with your tits out and complain if people look, shit is fucking wack and they would lose their minds if I skated around with a testicle hanging out.[close]
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteThat isn’t what this is at all.
Some people I used to associate that have harassed me. A few are involved with a skate company.
They had said this other girl we skated with ripped and all I am is a groupie and no one thinks I can skate.Expand QuoteI’m a woman. This is relevant because I’ve been there. I know what she’s thinking here too: post on SLAP, get the skater men’s attention and try to pressure a culture change in the boys club or at least get some white knights to stick up for her.
Culture change is admirable, but it happens a lot slower than the scale of actual human relationships. White knighting isn’t realistic either because it’s an anonymous message board and generally folks don’t get involved in random drama out of the goodness of their hearts.
The truth is there’s two camps the men she’s talking to fall into. The decent guys who look at women as full humans and sympathize with her but we’re never the ones causing her problems in the first place. And the assholes who look at women as objects, feel entitled to use them and see manipulation and abuse as part of “the game” who won’t give a shit about her post anyways.
Making a thread like this is essentially like saying “hey guys, what do you think of girl skaters? What do you think about me skating? Do you support it? What do you think about this abuse I’ve experienced? Do you agree? Are you on my side?” Stop asking men what they think! If you wanna skate that’s all the approval you need. You don’t need to get SLAP to agree with your experience; you lived it that’s enough. Just let go of what the skater men’s think period. It’s irrelevant. Focus on you.
Stop asking men to be nicer to you. Don’t ask or beg for decent treatment, TELL them how they are to treat you and block them from your life and DMs if they don’t comply. Talk to some other women hun.[close][close]
What company? Who are harassing you? What are the specifics of the harassment? They’ve called you a groupie— that’s mean. Have you got names or screenshots? What are you hoping to get out of this?[close]
You seem like a reasonable, strong, independent woman. I'm sorry you got caught up in giving thoughtful insight to this fake internet troll. It sucks when you try to be real with people because you think there's an opportunity for meaningful discourse, but it's all just a troll. Aside from the advice you gave (which was sound), I made the exact point you did about specifics a few pages back. And if you think I'm white knighting, read my initial posts to get my full perspective.
I'm a older skater who always says what's up to everyone at the park, it's been sick to see more girls coming out and skating recently. I always make sure that they feel welcomed
I do hate people that skate around in headphones and act to cool to say hi. I never understood that. I liked Mike V's interview on the 9 Club, even though he gets too preachy sometimes.
"Skate with Me, not against me"
Expand QuoteI'm a older skater who always says what's up to everyone at the park, it's been sick to see more girls coming out and skating recently. I always make sure that they feel welcomed
I do hate people that skate around in headphones and act to cool to say hi. I never understood that. I liked Mike V's interview on the 9 Club, even though he gets too preachy sometimes.
"Skate with Me, not against me"[close]
Some people are loners and dont care to interact with you or give you an ounce of their time. Which they are 100% allowed to do. So long as they arent snaking you or being an asshole. I dont get why people give a shit so much about this. Personally dont skate with headphones but i definitely dont get bummed on anyone.
I don’t acknowledge these idiot you tubers who have nothing better to do than talk badly about other femalesExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI'm a older skater who always says what's up to everyone at the park, it's been sick to see more girls coming out and skating recently. I always make sure that they feel welcomed
I do hate people that skate around in headphones and act to cool to say hi. I never understood that. I liked Mike V's interview on the 9 Club, even though he gets too preachy sometimes.
"Skate with Me, not against me"[close]
Some people are loners and dont care to interact with you or give you an ounce of their time. Which they are 100% allowed to do. So long as they arent snaking you or being an asshole. I dont get why people give a shit so much about this. Personally dont skate with headphones but i definitely dont get bummed on anyone.[close]
Seems like skating is a world of slut shaming at parties and on the internet.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteIf someone straight up tells someone they don’t like them because they are a skateboarder it is about skating.
I watched the podcast. It all started when she was posting videos of herself skating. Hate crimes towards female skaters are not particularly new either. This particular group of people were sharing images with other skaters.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteQuoteExpand QuoteChristie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females.[close][close]
I think a lot of people are aware of how women are treated. The picture below is very relevant and demonstrates how some guys act on the internet. It's more of an internet/social media thing than it is a skateboarding thing. I have a sister that's had to deal with shit like this and my girlfriend has as well, neither of which have much of a connection to skateboarding at all. It's not just guys either, women tear each other apart as well. I mean some of the first posts from OP had to do with calling out other instagram girl skaters if I recall correctly. Then again who knows, might be one of the goons harassing her on the internet posing as her and trolling my stupid ass.
(https://i.postimg.cc/nVD5NfN6/Screenshot-14.png)[close][close]
Plenty of people didn't like skateboarders when I was growing up. There are shitty people out there, but they're not shitty just because they skateboard. From what I can gather, it seems like more of a gatekeeping thing(which has also been around forever) and hopefully she found better friends to skate with for her own sake.
Sending other people's nudes is lame as fuck and those dudes can kick rocks, there's no excusing that. A woman did that to Johnny Layton and his dong ended up all over the internet. It's a cautionary tale about who you share yourself with intimately and it's unfortunate that it happened.[close]
Expand QuoteSeems like skating is a world of slut shaming at parties and on the internet.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteIf someone straight up tells someone they don’t like them because they are a skateboarder it is about skating.
I watched the podcast. It all started when she was posting videos of herself skating. Hate crimes towards female skaters are not particularly new either. This particular group of people were sharing images with other skaters.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteQuoteExpand QuoteChristie: Males should be more aware of the way that other men treat females.[close][close]
I think a lot of people are aware of how women are treated. The picture below is very relevant and demonstrates how some guys act on the internet. It's more of an internet/social media thing than it is a skateboarding thing. I have a sister that's had to deal with shit like this and my girlfriend has as well, neither of which have much of a connection to skateboarding at all. It's not just guys either, women tear each other apart as well. I mean some of the first posts from OP had to do with calling out other instagram girl skaters if I recall correctly. Then again who knows, might be one of the goons harassing her on the internet posing as her and trolling my stupid ass.
(https://i.postimg.cc/nVD5NfN6/Screenshot-14.png)[close][close]
Plenty of people didn't like skateboarders when I was growing up. There are shitty people out there, but they're not shitty just because they skateboard. From what I can gather, it seems like more of a gatekeeping thing(which has also been around forever) and hopefully she found better friends to skate with for her own sake.
Sending other people's nudes is lame as fuck and those dudes can kick rocks, there's no excusing that. A woman did that to Johnny Layton and his dong ended up all over the internet. It's a cautionary tale about who you share yourself with intimately and it's unfortunate that it happened.[close][close]
You are terrible. It doesn't even matter that youre a girl. You suck at skating. You seem like all you do is bitch and complain on your insta. You look like a troll. Just skate and do laundry Christy. Stay in the kitchen
ASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread
share tit pics w/ skaters always
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close]
STUDY AND OBEY THE BIBLE
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close]
share tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill!
Because all girls are bitches and deserved to be smacked and shamed.Where in that did you get hit and smack a chick around? There was a good other bit you could criticize out of that, but yet you choose to make shit up?
Lots of pieces of shit out thereExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close]
I don’t acknowledge these idiot you tubers who have nothing better to do than talk badly about other femalesYou do realize that none of these quotes talk bad about females, right? Reading Comprehension; look into it.Expand QuoteExpand QuoteI'm a older skater who always says what's up to everyone at the park, it's been sick to see more girls coming out and skating recently. I always make sure that they feel welcomed
I do hate people that skate around in headphones and act to cool to say hi. I never understood that. I liked Mike V's interview on the 9 Club, even though he gets too preachy sometimes.
"Skate with Me, not against me"[close]
Some people are loners and dont care to interact with you or give you an ounce of their time. Which they are 100% allowed to do. So long as they arent snaking you or being an asshole. I dont get why people give a shit so much about this. Personally dont skate with headphones but i definitely dont get bummed on anyone.[close]
share tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill!
Where in that did you get hit and smack a chick around? There was a good other bit you could criticize out of that, but yet you choose to make shit up?Expand QuoteBecause all girls are bitches and deserved to be smacked and shamed.
Lots of pieces of shit out thereExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close][close]
Someone in here needs to be slut shamedAh cool, really moving shit forward.
There’s too much abuseExpand QuoteWhere in that did you get hit and smack a chick around? There was a good other bit you could criticize out of that, but yet you choose to make shit up?Expand QuoteBecause all girls are bitches and deserved to be smacked and shamed.
Lots of pieces of shit out thereExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close][close][close]
Ah cool, really moving shit forward.Expand QuoteSomeone in here needs to be slut shamed
There’s too much abuseExpand QuoteWhere in that did you get hit and smack a chick around? There was a good other bit you could criticize out of that, but yet you choose to make shit up?Expand QuoteBecause all girls are bitches and deserved to be smacked and shamed.
Lots of pieces of shit out thereExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close][close][close][close]
It’s a shame there’s assholes like thisCan we please agree to write replies below the quotes? Trying to decipher the order of the replies is really confusing when you have to bounce between the top and bottom of the post.Expand QuoteAh cool, really moving shit forward.Expand QuoteSomeone in here needs to be slut shamed
There’s too much abuseExpand QuoteWhere in that did you get hit and smack a chick around? There was a good other bit you could criticize out of that, but yet you choose to make shit up?Expand QuoteBecause all girls are bitches and deserved to be smacked and shamed.
Lots of pieces of shit out thereExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close][close][close][close][close]
share tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill!
This is pretty damaging when people use reputation and sexual nature to abuseif i
There aren’t many girl skaters out there. Credit needs to be given to those tryingExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close]
if iExpand QuoteThis is pretty damaging when people use reputation and sexual nature to abuse
There aren’t many girl skaters out there. Credit needs to be given to those tryingExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close][close]
wanna take a guy
home with me tonight
it's none of yo business
and you
shouldn't even get into
who i'm giving skins to
it's none of yo business
if she
wanna be a freak and
sell it on the wknd
it's none of yo business.
To everyone on here that doesn’t knowsexual slavery i can forgive. using technology to put the quote under the answer is against the law. bird law.
using technology to abuse a woman is against the law.
Especially if it includes unfair treatment similar to sexual slaveryExpand Quoteif iExpand QuoteThis is pretty damaging when people use reputation and sexual nature to abuse
There aren’t many girl skaters out there. Credit needs to be given to those tryingExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close][close]
wanna take a guy
home with me tonight
it's none of yo business
and you
shouldn't even get into
who i'm giving skins to
it's none of yo business
if she
wanna be a freak and
sell it on the wknd
it's none of yo business.[close]
sexual slavery i can forgive. using technology to put the quote under the answer is against the law. bird law.Expand QuoteTo everyone on here that doesn’t know
using technology to abuse a woman is against the law.
Especially if it includes unfair treatment similar to sexual slaveryExpand Quoteif iExpand QuoteThis is pretty damaging when people use reputation and sexual nature to abuse
There aren’t many girl skaters out there. Credit needs to be given to those tryingExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close][close]
wanna take a guy
home with me tonight
it's none of yo business
and you
shouldn't even get into
who i'm giving skins to
it's none of yo business
if she
wanna be a freak and
sell it on the wknd
it's none of yo business.[close][close]
Y’all mf really do be nazis about the quote function. Fascism has many faces I suppose. Your gonna fix my spelling of you’re in your head as you read this you swine
Y’all mf really do be nazis about the quote function. Fascism has many faces I suppose. Your gonna fix my spelling of you’re in your head as you read this you swine
I skipped the last five pages. Could someone give me a tldr? Is OP just bitchin because her crappy IG does not get enough shine? Or is it really about some serious stuff?
If it's about shine. Think about how evelien bouilliart must have felt, she didn't get her fair share of shine...and she skated acutally really fucking well.
Enough with all this abuse GUYS.Expand QuoteI skipped the last five pages. Could someone give me a tldr? Is OP just bitchin because her crappy IG does not get enough shine? Or is it really about some serious stuff?
If it's about shine. Think about how evelien bouilliart must have felt, she didn't get her fair share of shine...and she skated acutally really fucking well.[close]
ABUSE
It's a troll that used to type coherent sentences with the other same trolls - this was their second attempt, confirmed. To any who posted sincerity in this thread at any point, don't lose compassion regarding the subject or anything, but I think we can more or less shit on anything here now. No one is buying Fortune decks, regardless of the allegations being true or not. ABUSE!
men abuse women physically and women abuse men mentally, everyone sucks equally. ;D
it's disgusting seeing a woman abuse a man too. especially if he's a good skater.Expand Quotemen abuse women physically and women abuse men mentally, everyone sucks equally. ;D[close]
Disgusting seeing any guy mistreat a woman and him using being a skater or good at it as a reason to
Most likely started as a case of perpetual harassment, where dudes (or one troll, whose efforts have diminished) are basically pretending to be her and her friends online. Could still be rooted in the initial allegations. On the flip of things, it could be an effort to keep said allegations afloat for as long as possible. Either way, all the cards have thrown on the table so
https://www.instagram.com/p/B3KbXUEF4jC/?igshid=rqyuh609oive.
https://www.instagram.com/p/ByeHGYxh07K/?igshid=ifduk22tbjne
Expand Quotehttps://www.instagram.com/p/ByeHGYxh07K/?igshid=ifduk22tbjne[close]
What type of girls go online and lie about abuse allegations?
Expand QuoteExpand Quotehttps://www.instagram.com/p/ByeHGYxh07K/?igshid=ifduk22tbjne[close]
What type of girls go online and lie about abuse allegations?[close]
Crazy attention seekers for one
Most likely started as a case of perpetual harassment, where dudes (or one troll, whose efforts have diminished) are basically pretending to be her and her friends online. Could still be rooted in the initial allegations. On the flip of things, it could be an effort to keep said allegations afloat for as long as possible. Either way, all the cards have thrown on the table so
https://www.instagram.com/p/B3KbXUEF4jC/?igshid=rqyuh609oive.
https://www.instagram.com/p/ByeHGYxh07K/?igshid=ifduk22tbjne
I support girls skating but fucking put some clothes on when you skate. Don’t be surprised everyone is staring at your tits when you got 36Cs flopping around skating in ONLY a bra or tank top (obviously it’s white) and you’re sweating so hard I can count the dimples on your areola.
Makes it even worse when the girl is like 16.
We should be able to wear what we want without being abused sexually !!
If I was skating with my dick hanging out , you girls would be bummed. So let’s have some mutual respect here.
Abused sexually is a fucking stretch. You’re being looked at for making a scene of yourself at the park? You’re drawing unnecessary attention to yourself and then being upset people look at you or judge you. You wouldn’t have a problem if I skated in pink short shorts with my scrotum skin hanging out? Or how about white bike shorts that highlight my penis when I sweat and I come at talk to you while you’re sitting down and my dick is at your eye level.
That’s literally what girls do at the park in the summer time. Then they have the nerve to give you weird looks when you take your shirt off.
I’m happy that skateboarding has come some way in supporting females more.
The elitist/superior attitude that men are better has started to change. More woman should skate.
I never liked how rape and domestic violence were promoted from some cos. It shows disrespect for woman. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2013/may/09/enjoi-skateboards-pull-ads-protest
Some companies even promote girls being groupies and being weak in nature.
Today mainstream skate culture still considers attractive females to be groupies.
Without being said, I’ve experienced some of the attitude in my years of skating. Things such as being called a groupie or prostitute and targeted for harassment And violent behavior. Being good at skating does not justify abusive behavior towards females. It is disgusting seeing any guy mistreat a woman.
Spoke with others in my community who were concerned but some of the skaters themselves pretend to be good people to the general public. It’s hard for anyone to suspect this.
I think some people think it’s ok to refer to girls as hoes. They may even say they support females. There’s still some aspect of people thinking it’s ok to offend females. I do not think approving of this kind of behavior is ok. Females are not trying to be used and abused. We are not property.
Others I know have thought nothing of me being targeted for this.
Christie New York
@prettiestmess_
I support y’all like a training bra
Women be sk8ing in the cover the time magazines and shit elssia streamer on a video game shut up
Your completely misunderstanding the event. Even if they are trolled they threatened me with “sexual violence” in a harassing manner.Then yeah that’s a problem then if people are threatening you. I’m talking about girls making a stink when you even glance over at them. That’s horrible that happens to you sorry to hear.Expand QuoteAbused sexually is a fucking stretch. You’re being looked at for making a scene of yourself at the park? You’re drawing unnecessary attention to yourself and then being upset people look at you or judge you. You wouldn’t have a problem if I skated in pink short shorts with my scrotum skin hanging out? Or how about white bike shorts that highlight my penis when I sweat and I come at talk to you while you’re sitting down and my dick is at your eye level.
That’s literally what girls do at the park in the summer time. Then they have the nerve to give you weird looks when you take your shirt off.[close]
this girl is still angry that there are hotter girls than her who can treflip
yet still people are lining up to say "of course I support females, I'm not disgusting"
Expand QuoteI’m happy that skateboarding has come some way in supporting females more.
The elitist/superior attitude that men are better has started to change. More woman should skate.
I never liked how rape and domestic violence were promoted from some cos. It shows disrespect for woman. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2013/may/09/enjoi-skateboards-pull-ads-protest
Some companies even promote girls being groupies and being weak in nature.
Today mainstream skate culture still considers attractive females to be groupies.
Without being said, I’ve experienced some of the attitude in my years of skating. Things such as being called a groupie or prostitute and targeted for harassment And violent behavior. Being good at skating does not justify abusive behavior towards females. It is disgusting seeing any guy mistreat a woman.
Spoke with others in my community who were concerned but some of the skaters themselves pretend to be good people to the general public. It’s hard for anyone to suspect this.
I think some people think it’s ok to refer to girls as hoes. They may even say they support females. There’s still some aspect of people thinking it’s ok to offend females. I do not think approving of this kind of behavior is ok. Females are not trying to be used and abused. We are not property.
Others I know have thought nothing of me being targeted for this.
Christie New York
@prettiestmess_[close]
Lets's take your orginal question first. Do all males support females?
Do you live in the US? Do you know who your rapey president is? You have your answer then.
Skateboarding has ZERO to do with what you are talking about. You've conflated "all" males in existence with "all males" in skateboarding.
You would be experiencing these things at the water cooler at an office job.
Don't conflate this with skating....nor ALL males. You're lame if you do.
Make friends with the good ones. They will watch out for you. THATS skateboarding.
Most likely started as a case of perpetual harassment, where dudes (or one troll, whose efforts have diminished) are basically pretending to be her and her friends online. Could still be rooted in the initial allegations. On the flip of things, it could be an effort to keep said allegations afloat for as long as possible. Either way, all the cards have thrown on the table so
https://www.instagram.com/p/B3KbXUEF4jC/?igshid=rqyuh609oive.
When you have tons of horrible messages criticizing your ability and some saying to kill yourself your such a whore there’s something to be said. We aren’t talking about being attractive.
As well as the use of sexual threats and slut shame and humiliationExpand Quotethis girl is still angry that there are hotter girls than her who can treflip
yet still people are lining up to say "of course I support females, I'm not disgusting"[close]
Don't worry Wendell I have been informed that the answer is "Yes"
All males support all females. No question.
Where in that did you get hit and smack a chick around? There was a good other bit you could criticize out of that, but yet you choose to make shit up?Expand QuoteBecause all girls are bitches and deserved to be smacked and shamed.
Lots of pieces of shit out thereExpand Quoteshare tit pics w/ skaters alwaysExpand Quote
END SLUT SHAME WOMAN ABUSE
Calling girls hoes
Even if a girl does act like a groupie don’t mistreat herExpand QuoteASK JESUS TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS ALWAYS
PRAY ALWAYS GET TO KNOW THE LORD
QUIT SINNIN’
end thread[close][close]
hook up always get to know the crew
study and obey feminism
take no accountability
skate ill![close][close]
Damn. Y’all sound like crazy people up in here and smell like trollsThat’s you man. You smell.
Well at least I can take a shower and not smell.That’s you man. You smell.Expand QuoteDamn. Y’all sound like crazy people up in here and smell like trolls[close]
You could plug your nose or also get hit in the head and lose your sense of smell.Well at least I can take a shower and not smell.Expand QuoteThat’s you man. You smell.Expand QuoteDamn. Y’all sound like crazy people up in here and smell like trolls[close][close]
THAT IS NOT WHAT I MEANTYou could plug your nose or also get hit in the head and lose your sense of smell.Expand QuoteWell at least I can take a shower and not smell.Expand QuoteThat’s you man. You smell.Expand QuoteDamn. Y’all sound like crazy people up in here and smell like trolls[close][close][close]
https://www.instagram.com/p/B6831aWpS6g/?igshid=1ixc4x8dew6xh
Stop changing the fucking title! I keep getting fooled into clicking on this thread again.
Seriously, how the fuck can he still be this bad?All funds go toward drywalling his studio/laundry room.
Can't he afford a music lesson?
https://www.instagram.com/p/B6831aWpS6g/?igshid=1ixc4x8dew6xh
So like I should be told to go ollie off a bridge?
Leave this country and state of New York for good. This is like using someone for sexual slavery and making accusations of them being sexual in nature and telling them yes you should be treated bad. Because woman are meant for sex workExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI’m happy that skateboarding has come some way in supporting females more.
The elitist/superior attitude that men are better has started to change. More woman should skate.
I never liked how rape and domestic violence were promoted from some cos. It shows disrespect for woman. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2013/may/09/enjoi-skateboards-pull-ads-protest
Some companies even promote girls being groupies and being weak in nature.
Today mainstream skate culture still considers attractive females to be groupies.
Without being said, I’ve experienced some of the attitude in my years of skating. Things such as being called a groupie or prostitute and targeted for harassment And violent behavior. Being good at skating does not justify abusive behavior towards females. It is disgusting seeing any guy mistreat a woman.
Spoke with others in my community who were concerned but some of the skaters themselves pretend to be good people to the general public. It’s hard for anyone to suspect this.
I think some people think it’s ok to refer to girls as hoes. They may even say they support females. There’s still some aspect of people thinking it’s ok to offend females. I do not think approving of this kind of behavior is ok. Females are not trying to be used and abused. We are not property.
Others I know have thought nothing of me being targeted for this.
Christie New York
@prettiestmess_[close]
Lets's take your orginal question first. Do all males support females?
Do you live in the US? Do you know who your rapey president is? You have your answer then.
Skateboarding has ZERO to do with what you are talking about. You've conflated "all" males in existence with "all males" in skateboarding.
You would be experiencing these things at the water cooler at an office job.
Don't conflate this with skating....nor ALL males. You're lame if you do.
Make friends with the good ones. They will watch out for you. THATS skateboarding.[close]
(https://assets.bigcartel.com/product_images/221402506/3BE74F01-479F-4476-8CCA-9114A09EB6FF.jpeg?auto=format&fit=max&h=1000&w=1000)Yikes. Not surprised at all but that is bad. The show is on some hip shit too, could only watch the first few episodes.
that is all
new title, sick!
how you can tell if females are groupies or not is if they can fakie 360 flip and skate fast or not?
skate slow = must be a hoe
skates fast = she's a bad ass
has fakie tres = stay outta her way
can't land them shits = show us your tits
sounds like you ain't got them shits. you know the rules.Expand Quotenew title, sick!
how you can tell if females are groupies or not is if they can fakie 360 flip and skate fast or not?
skate slow = must be a hoe
skates fast = she's a bad ass
has fakie tres = stay outta her way
can't land them shits = show us your tits[close]
Doing 360 flips does not gauge you being a good skater. There’s good skaters that only do heelflips, kickflips and manuals and people enjoy watching them. Also some weak Tre flip is not exactly gonna grab my attention more than a shuv it
When you have tons of horrible messages criticizing your ability and some saying to kill yourself your such a whore there’s something to be said. We aren’t talking about being attractive.It's not like everyone gives shit to everyone in this site. Are you even a pal if no one ever told to focus your account
As well as the use of sexual threats and slut shame and humiliationExpand Quotethis girl is still angry that there are hotter girls than her who can treflip
yet still people are lining up to say "of course I support females, I'm not disgusting"[close]
I don't even have words that can describe how I feel about this.I actually figured this out the other day thanks to one of Dooley's reposts of Sherm's IG content. I would put actual money on him having an unlisted but nasty as hell Snapchat that he sells anonymously to random mopes. Filthy big dick twink stuff. I am dead serious and I sorta want someone to bet me on this.
What the actuall f*ck did he throw his skatecareer away for?
My friends and I were wondering how Jereme Rogers makes money:
Selfish skateboards? Seems done? Last post was from 14 weeks ago.
Sponsors? I don't think he has any left?
Royalties? Maybe the Tony Hawk game? Because it sure as hell won't be from his music...
Thread title change, new question so here goes. The way this thread is going, it won't change any minds about people's perspectives about women in skateboarding, so I will offer this. I saw Marisa Dal Santo skate in person years ago one random night at Wilson skate park in Chicago and she was shredding harder than anyone else there that day. She earned the respect of her peers by just skating and getting along with people. Sadly, she got screwed as far as her stint on Zero went(although when they finally released a board for her, it sold really well), but still skates for the love of it. There are also instagram accounts that embrace women in skateboarding like @shredthemidwest. I'm sure other groups around the world are doing it, hell you could do it too and encourage the change. You can take what I said with a grain of salt, but I feel like it's moving in a positive direction. Posting some Mar parts cause she rules.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m18cvpRl2rY&t=4s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p44TIA0Dlvk&t=2s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIy8lYxJl5s
sounds like you ain't got them shits. you know the rules.Expand QuoteExpand Quotenew title, sick!
how you can tell if females are groupies or not is if they can fakie 360 flip and skate fast or not?
skate slow = must be a hoe
skates fast = she's a bad ass
has fakie tres = stay outta her way
can't land them shits = show us your tits[close]
Doing 360 flips does not gauge you being a good skater. There’s good skaters that only do heelflips, kickflips and manuals and people enjoy watching them. Also some weak Tre flip is not exactly gonna grab my attention more than a shuv it[close]
but if you skate fast it can make up for a lack of trick selection. if you're lacking there, you bettah werq!
Maybe not the right thread to ask this in.. but..Backside buss it
What's the double grab check out my booty air called?
https://www.instagram.com/p/BdgW1ZFHRHU/?igshid=1tla3ai47xfui
https://www.instagram.com/p/BdgW1ZFHRHU/?igshid=1tla3ai47xfui
Expand QuoteThread title change, new question so here goes. The way this thread is going, it won't change any minds about people's perspectives about women in skateboarding, so I will offer this. I saw Marisa Dal Santo skate in person years ago one random night at Wilson skate park in Chicago and she was shredding harder than anyone else there that day. She earned the respect of her peers by just skating and getting along with people. Sadly, she got screwed as far as her stint on Zero went(although when they finally released a board for her, it sold really well), but still skates for the love of it. There are also instagram accounts that embrace women in skateboarding like @shredthemidwest. I'm sure other groups around the world are doing it, hell you could do it too and encourage the change. You can take what I said with a grain of salt, but I feel like it's moving in a positive direction. Posting some Mar parts cause she rules.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m18cvpRl2rY&t=4s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p44TIA0Dlvk&t=2s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIy8lYxJl5s[close]
Maybe not the right thread to ask this in.. but..
What's the double grab check out my booty air called?
(https://i.giphy.com/media/26ybwn7PdZDyMsBOM/giphy.webp)
Let me get back to watching some fortune videos because I got nothing better to do than pretend I’m jealous of other girls on fortune hahayou should do a commentary about WBATB and how much better you could've done if invited. though it lacked a woman's touch i thought this one did a good job.Expand Quote(https://i.giphy.com/media/26ybwn7PdZDyMsBOM/giphy.webp)[close]
is this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn
I feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptableis that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close]
men abuse women physically and women abuse men mentally, everyone sucks equally. ;D
is that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.
The sex industry is proven to rely heavily on trafficking and exploitationprostitution isn't entitlement. entitlement is free pussy, if you have to pay for somethign it's the opposite of entitlement.
It promotes violence against woman!
Prostitution is violent
This caters and promotes male sexual entitlementExpand Quoteis that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.[close]
Those are both some Dumb generalizations. There are definitely brutal People in all sexes.Expand Quotemen abuse women physically and women abuse men mentally, everyone sucks equally. ;D[close]
this is untrue. men abuse women both physically and mentally. men suck more
prostitution isn't entitlement. entitlement is free pussy, if you have to pay for somethign it's the opposite of entitlement.Expand QuoteThe sex industry is proven to rely heavily on trafficking and exploitation
It promotes violence against woman!
Prostitution is violent
This caters and promotes male sexual entitlementExpand Quoteis that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.[close][close]
with that asides, what in the wide world of sports does sex industry have to do with skateboarding? you are talking a bunch of bollocks, Nancy.
It is illegal using someone for those purposesit's also illegal for women to prostitute themselves and use their own bodies for that. but none of that is relevant to skateboarding, ya big dummy!Expand Quoteprostitution isn't entitlement. entitlement is free pussy, if you have to pay for somethign it's the opposite of entitlement.Expand QuoteThe sex industry is proven to rely heavily on trafficking and exploitation
It promotes violence against woman!
Prostitution is violent
This caters and promotes male sexual entitlementExpand Quoteis that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.[close][close]
with that asides, what in the wide world of sports does sex industry have to do with skateboarding? you are talking a bunch of bollocks, Nancy.[close]
it's also illegal for women to prostitute themselves and use their own bodies for that. but none of that is relevant to skateboarding, ya big dummy!Expand QuoteIt is illegal using someone for those purposesExpand Quoteprostitution isn't entitlement. entitlement is free pussy, if you have to pay for somethign it's the opposite of entitlement.Expand QuoteThe sex industry is proven to rely heavily on trafficking and exploitation
It promotes violence against woman!
Prostitution is violent
This caters and promotes male sexual entitlementExpand Quoteis that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.[close][close]
with that asides, what in the wide world of sports does sex industry have to do with skateboarding? you are talking a bunch of bollocks, Nancy.[close][close]
So this video now brings up another question . Leo Baker has been openly gay for a very long time, has dressed non binary and probably identified as a male. Why did she wait two months for WBATB to end to change her name and identify as a man, oh yeah, because it would have been easier to win WBATB, which she failed to even do. Leo 100% should have to enter exclusively men’s contests moving forward. Otherwise what’s preventing some desperate man am try hard going intersex and saying he’s a girl wearing a wig winning every contest like Juwanna Mann. You wouldn’t even be able to question his motives because it’s considered rude and homophobicyou should do a commentary about WBATB and how much better you could've done if invited. though it lacked a woman's touch i thought this one did a good job.Expand QuoteLet me get back to watching some fortune videos because I got nothing better to do than pretend I’m jealous of other girls on fortune hahaExpand Quote(https://i.giphy.com/media/26ybwn7PdZDyMsBOM/giphy.webp)[close][close]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNNLBlVAdVg
Leo is calculating/highly opportunistic. Dry toast tricks from a sneaky bat.
Leo is calculating/highly opportunistic. Dry toast tricks from a sneaky bat.
is that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.
I can agree on her standpoint that males think they are entitled to treat woman terribly in the skate world. Everyone should be equal. Just because a girl is skating doesn’t mean she deserves cruel treatmentExpand QuoteLeo is calculating/highly opportunistic. Dry toast tricks from a sneaky bat.[close]
Just because it’s not my preferred trick choice doesn’t mean I can’t do them.Expand Quotesounds like you ain't got them shits. you know the rules.Expand QuoteExpand Quotenew title, sick!
how you can tell if females are groupies or not is if they can fakie 360 flip and skate fast or not?
skate slow = must be a hoe
skates fast = she's a bad ass
has fakie tres = stay outta her way
can't land them shits = show us your tits[close]
Doing 360 flips does not gauge you being a good skater. There’s good skaters that only do heelflips, kickflips and manuals and people enjoy watching them. Also some weak Tre flip is not exactly gonna grab my attention more than a shuv it[close]
but if you skate fast it can make up for a lack of trick selection. if you're lacking there, you bettah werq![close]
It’s pretty obvious how this person views woman
https://www.instagram.com/p/B7MGNFUFE0g/?igshid=cetter9x5b13
it's also illegal for women to prostitute themselves and use their own bodies for that. but none of that is relevant to skateboarding, ya big dummy!Expand QuoteIt is illegal using someone for those purposesExpand Quoteprostitution isn't entitlement. entitlement is free pussy, if you have to pay for somethign it's the opposite of entitlement.Expand QuoteThe sex industry is proven to rely heavily on trafficking and exploitation
It promotes violence against woman!
Prostitution is violent
This caters and promotes male sexual entitlementExpand Quoteis that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.[close][close]
with that asides, what in the wide world of sports does sex industry have to do with skateboarding? you are talking a bunch of bollocks, Nancy.[close][close]
you're messing up the rotation putting the quotes at the top. anyways, if sex work is a choice not a crime, going to see a prostitute is also a choice. it's keeping that whore employed. you can't promote sex work as viable and in the saame breath, condemn the men who facilitate the making of a living through sex work, nawmean?
Woman are people.
Sex work is a choice
No one looks to be dehumanized
Nothing justifies abuse or exploitationExpand Quoteit's also illegal for women to prostitute themselves and use their own bodies for that. but none of that is relevant to skateboarding, ya big dummy!Expand QuoteIt is illegal using someone for those purposesExpand Quoteprostitution isn't entitlement. entitlement is free pussy, if you have to pay for somethign it's the opposite of entitlement.Expand QuoteThe sex industry is proven to rely heavily on trafficking and exploitation
It promotes violence against woman!
Prostitution is violent
This caters and promotes male sexual entitlementExpand Quoteis that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.[close][close]
with that asides, what in the wide world of sports does sex industry have to do with skateboarding? you are talking a bunch of bollocks, Nancy.[close][close][close]
I would be more supportive of women in skateboarding if they stopped self-objectifying themselves eg: skating without a bra, croptops etc. Of course there are 'no rules' to skateboarding but this whole thot / skater chick trend is super whack.
I would be more supportive of women in skateboarding if they stopped self-objectifying themselves eg: skating without a bra, croptops etc. Of course there are 'no rules' to skateboarding but this whole thot / skater chick trend is super whack.
Expand QuoteI would be more supportive of women in skateboarding if they stopped self-objectifying themselves eg: skating without a bra, croptops etc. Of course there are 'no rules' to skateboarding but this whole thot / skater chick trend is super whack.[close]
By this logic, you also don't support any male skater who has ever taken his shirt off. Just because you get a boner when you see a girl doesn't mean she's "self-objectifying"
Christ sakes!
I would be more supportive of women in skateboarding if they stopped self-objectifying themselves eg: skating without a bra, croptops etc. Of course there are 'no rules' to skateboarding but this whole thot / skater chick trend is super whack.
I would be more supportive of women in skateboarding if they stopped self-objectifying themselves eg: skating without a bra, croptops etc. Of course there are 'no rules' to skateboarding but this whole thot / skater chick trend is super whack.
Expand QuoteI would be more supportive of women in skateboarding if they stopped self-objectifying themselves eg: skating without a bra, croptops etc. Of course there are 'no rules' to skateboarding but this whole thot / skater chick trend is super whack.[close]
flamingoflyout on "she was asking for it"confirmed.
When the girls make a big stink of you looking at them , yeah it’s a problem. I’ve dead ass watched kids get yelled at by girls for looking. Meanwhile it’s hot as fuck, they’re wearing a white tube top with no bra and you can count the dots on their areola the shit is so see through.Expand QuoteI would be more supportive of women in skateboarding if they stopped self-objectifying themselves eg: skating without a bra, croptops etc. Of course there are 'no rules' to skateboarding but this whole thot / skater chick trend is super whack.[close]
By this logic, you also don't support any male skater who has ever taken his shirt off. Just because you get a boner when you see a girl doesn't mean she's "self-objectifying"
Christ sakes!
Tell Groupie to get over it
comment from that instagram bubble blowing babe
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prettiestmess_
Glad you were able to set up a shoot with her. If you need any help finding models for the brand I'll be able to help you
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so primarily, Christina Dejesu is the Ghislane Maxwell to skateboarding's Jeffrey Epstein. she's the Oprah feeding young aspiring actresses to Harvey Weintstein.
A bit of decency doesn’t hurt. They would be bummed if I skated in white Lycra bike shorts and you could see my dick
what is your stance on yoga pants while skateboarding?
I for one side with nyjah and think they should be worn across the board in any skate competition. Gender neutral
in fact they should be mandatory.
the year is 2030, Bam is in a digital camo pair of yoga pants infused with spanx from his new brand inspired by newfound sobriety.
Promoting some semi-obscure and soft-hard core band with the logo covering every square inch of his thick brauts.
Sell out? no, he bought in.
The future is now.
you're messing up the rotation putting the quotes at the top. anyways, if sex work is a choice not a crime, going to see a prostitute is also a choice. it's keeping that whore employed. you can't promote sex work as viable and in the saame breath, condemn the men who facilitate the making of a living through sex work, nawmean?Expand Quote
Woman are people.
Sex work is a choice
No one looks to be dehumanized
Nothing justifies abuse or exploitationExpand Quoteit's also illegal for women to prostitute themselves and use their own bodies for that. but none of that is relevant to skateboarding, ya big dummy!Expand QuoteIt is illegal using someone for those purposesExpand Quoteprostitution isn't entitlement. entitlement is free pussy, if you have to pay for somethign it's the opposite of entitlement.Expand QuoteThe sex industry is proven to rely heavily on trafficking and exploitation
It promotes violence against woman!
Prostitution is violent
This caters and promotes male sexual entitlementExpand Quoteis that supposed to be your body with Manny's hands on it?Expand QuoteI feel my body was used in a way that is not acceptable
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wR-3DBSJO/?igshid=lsi46qmukcv3Expand Quoteis this the "change to support females" thread?
I'm so confused rn[close][close]
otherwise i don't understand what you speak of.[close][close]
with that asides, what in the wide world of sports does sex industry have to do with skateboarding? you are talking a bunch of bollocks, Nancy.[close][close][close][close]
What is the point of this thread?
As long as woman exist there will always be groupies. A guy being popular in music, skating, youtube or any damn thing on the planet there will always be a group of woman following you that wanna ride your wang.
Expand QuoteAs long as woman exist there will always be groupies. A guy being popular in music, skating, youtube or any damn thing on the planet there will always be a group of woman following you that wanna ride your wang.[close]
There is a misunderstanding that any woman would want to be someone’s groupie. Just because a girl may like the way you skate doesn’t mean she is your groupie.
Many other skaters assume based upon how we look that we are a groupie. No female likes being called a hoe. We are not asking for it or want to be treated this way. Most of us are just skating and looking to skate and that’s it
Wondering how op feels about the doja cat berry video? Still haven’t seen it.She won’t comment on it because it goes against her narrative. The video objectifies women, degraded them and even goes as far to throw shit at men which fuels the “man vs woman” fight. That video or themes don’t bother me it’s just funny to see them be so hypocritical .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VuFA0gf-arQ
the word you're looking for is "pro ho" and the fact you didn't know that should answer your question.
DaBaby is a musician/celebrity...he has groupies. Skaters do not...Skaters wish they had groupies like DaBaby, so they just call whoever a groupie which is a dick move. Women who are attracted to skaters are not groupies lol, that's arrogant as fuck for a man to think that. You ain't DaBaby homie!
Edit to add: There's definitely male groupies like a mother fucker.
Expand QuoteDaBaby is a musician/celebrity...he has groupies. Skaters do not...Skaters wish they had groupies like DaBaby, so they just call whoever a groupie which is a dick move. Women who are attracted to skaters are not groupies lol, that's arrogant as fuck for a man to think that. You ain't DaBaby homie!
Edit to add: There's definitely male groupies like a mother fucker.[close]
If a male skater gives me a board I consider it a friendly gesture. I don’t expect to there to be my picture all over the internet saying I’m a groupie at the park. This is not the type of support I’m looking for. Especially if they go and tell their abusive friends I’m easy and will do anything.
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteDaBaby is a musician/celebrity...he has groupies. Skaters do not...Skaters wish they had groupies like DaBaby, so they just call whoever a groupie which is a dick move. Women who are attracted to skaters are not groupies lol, that's arrogant as fuck for a man to think that. You ain't DaBaby homie!
Edit to add: There's definitely male groupies like a mother fucker.[close]
If a male skater gives me a board I consider it a friendly gesture. I don’t expect to there to be my picture all over the internet saying I’m a groupie at the park. This is not the type of support I’m looking for. Especially if they go and tell their abusive friends I’m easy and will do anything.[close]
Somebody gave you a board, then other skaters started harassing you online? That sounds really wack and immature, can you skate somewhere else? That scene sounds like a bunch of clowns. If they do that, then they probably do a bunch more dumb shit.
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteDaBaby is a musician/celebrity...he has groupies. Skaters do not...Skaters wish they had groupies like DaBaby, so they just call whoever a groupie which is a dick move. Women who are attracted to skaters are not groupies lol, that's arrogant as fuck for a man to think that. You ain't DaBaby homie!
Edit to add: There's definitely male groupies like a mother fucker.[close]
If a male skater gives me a board I consider it a friendly gesture. I don’t expect to there to be my picture all over the internet saying I’m a groupie at the park. This is not the type of support I’m looking for. Especially if they go and tell their abusive friends I’m easy and will do anything.[close]
Somebody gave you a board, then other skaters started harassing you online? That sounds really wack and immature, can you skate somewhere else? That scene sounds like a bunch of clowns. If they do that, then they probably do a bunch more dumb shit.
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteDaBaby is a musician/celebrity...he has groupies. Skaters do not...Skaters wish they had groupies like DaBaby, so they just call whoever a groupie which is a dick move. Women who are attracted to skaters are not groupies lol, that's arrogant as fuck for a man to think that. You ain't DaBaby homie!
Edit to add: There's definitely male groupies like a mother fucker.[close]
If a male skater gives me a board I consider it a friendly gesture. I don’t expect to there to be my picture all over the internet saying I’m a groupie at the park. This is not the type of support I’m looking for. Especially if they go and tell their abusive friends I’m easy and will do anything.[close]
Somebody gave you a board, then other skaters started harassing you online? That sounds really wack and immature, can you skate somewhere else? That scene sounds like a bunch of clowns. If they do that, then they probably do a bunch more dumb shit.
Why is this broad posting from two accounts? What is fortune skateboards? Who the fuck cares about them besides this girl with two much time on her hands? Where is this thread going? When will it end? How the fuck can two people reply the same way and not be the same person?
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteDaBaby is a musician/celebrity...he has groupies. Skaters do not...Skaters wish they had groupies like DaBaby, so they just call whoever a groupie which is a dick move. Women who are attracted to skaters are not groupies lol, that's arrogant as fuck for a man to think that. You ain't DaBaby homie!
Edit to add: There's definitely male groupies like a mother fucker.[close]
If a male skater gives me a board I consider it a friendly gesture. I don’t expect to there to be my picture all over the internet saying I’m a groupie at the park. This is not the type of support I’m looking for. Especially if they go and tell their abusive friends I’m easy and will do anything.[close]
Somebody gave you a board, then other skaters started harassing you online? That sounds really wack and immature, can you skate somewhere else? That scene sounds like a bunch of clowns. If they do that, then they probably do a bunch more dumb shit.[close]
Yes
Expand QuoteWhy is this broad posting from two accounts? What is fortune skateboards? Who the fuck cares about them besides this girl with two much time on her hands? Where is this thread going? When will it end? How the fuck can two people reply the same way and not be the same person?[close]
Excellent questions. This whole thread is very confusing and just a little bit of clarity would help. OP's use of two accounts to incorrectly use the quote function just so she can have a conversation with herself may be the weirdest thing.
I feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.
if only there was a way to take a picture of the screen.Expand QuoteI feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.[close]
I think we should all be aware of the negative effects of social media. The gang violence and crime that can be committed behind a screen. This stuff is extremely impossible to prove to anyone
Expand QuoteI feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.[close]
I think we should all be aware of the negative effects of social media. The gang violence and crime that can be committed behind a screen. This stuff is extremely impossible to prove to anyone
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteI feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.[close]
I think we should all be aware of the negative effects of social media. The gang violence and crime that can be committed behind a screen. This stuff is extremely impossible to prove to anyone[close]
I'm pretty sure everyone's already aware of the negative effects of social media. this thread affected my thoughts on that 0%.
fuck abusers, post screenshots if you have them. if not maybe focus thread and account? or not. it just doesn't seem like you really have a coherent message to share with us
Expand QuoteExpand QuoteI feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.[close]
I think we should all be aware of the negative effects of social media. The gang violence and crime that can be committed behind a screen. This stuff is extremely impossible to prove to anyone[close]
I'm pretty sure everyone's already aware of the negative effects of social media. this thread affected my thoughts on that 0%.
fuck abusers, post screenshots if you have them. if not maybe focus thread and account? or not. it just doesn't seem like you really have a coherent message to share with us
wat?Expand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.[close]
I think we should all be aware of the negative effects of social media. The gang violence and crime that can be committed behind a screen. This stuff is extremely impossible to prove to anyone[close]
I'm pretty sure everyone's already aware of the negative effects of social media. this thread affected my thoughts on that 0%.
fuck abusers, post screenshots if you have them. if not maybe focus thread and account? or not. it just doesn't seem like you really have a coherent message to share with us[close]
Just being told to do things behind a screen would be what it is.
wat?Expand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.[close]
I think we should all be aware of the negative effects of social media. The gang violence and crime that can be committed behind a screen. This stuff is extremely impossible to prove to anyone[close]
I'm pretty sure everyone's already aware of the negative effects of social media. this thread affected my thoughts on that 0%.
fuck abusers, post screenshots if you have them. if not maybe focus thread and account? or not. it just doesn't seem like you really have a coherent message to share with us[close]
Just being told to do things behind a screen would be what it is.[close]
screenshot it if you have a case and slap will arbitrate.Expand Quotewat?Expand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.[close]
I think we should all be aware of the negative effects of social media. The gang violence and crime that can be committed behind a screen. This stuff is extremely impossible to prove to anyone[close]
I'm pretty sure everyone's already aware of the negative effects of social media. this thread affected my thoughts on that 0%.
fuck abusers, post screenshots if you have them. if not maybe focus thread and account? or not. it just doesn't seem like you really have a coherent message to share with us[close]
Just being told to do things behind a screen would be what it is.[close][close]
These people will hide their tracks behind a screen. They are guilty of saying a lot of harassing things to her online that was emotionally hurtful.
screenshot it if you have a case and slap will arbitrate.Expand QuoteExpand Quotewat?Expand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteExpand QuoteI feel like this thread is the most advertising Fortune skateboards will ever get.[close]
I think we should all be aware of the negative effects of social media. The gang violence and crime that can be committed behind a screen. This stuff is extremely impossible to prove to anyone[close]
I'm pretty sure everyone's already aware of the negative effects of social media. this thread affected my thoughts on that 0%.
fuck abusers, post screenshots if you have them. if not maybe focus thread and account? or not. it just doesn't seem like you really have a coherent message to share with us[close]
Just being told to do things behind a screen would be what it is.[close][close]
These people will hide their tracks behind a screen. They are guilty of saying a lot of harassing things to her online that was emotionally hurtful.[close]