I'm a skateboarder but I am far from the All American White Guy®. Would she still find me "hot" in airquotes? Or would it be a conditioned "attraction" in an attempt to be "antiracist" or by the very least, against the grain?
I assume that she would still have a preferential bias towards whoever "hurt" her. Not that I am seeking her approval nor is it that I would be automatically deserving of it. However, I really dislike being put in the same category of her oppressor or whatever.
On the social totem pole in the United States, or more specifically, the North-East where I'm from, I would totally disagree I would be anywhere near the same team as what she is claiming she is opposing. When somebody like her is punching-up at me, I argue that it's actually punching-down.
I've lost my marbles talking on race, gender, and class, and in 2020 I find that people are saying what I've claimed and it's frustrating, especially after being dismissed before. I unfortunately am judging her, but my problem isn't with her. I am trying to be fair when it's not necessary. I'm not sure if I have a problem to present, but I guess I have a question.
I've seen the term "white feminism" in this thread a few times, and I'm wondering about the proper usage of the term. I want to use it in the same ways and it has, kind of mocking/equating it to a Millennial Karen, to address the conflict I've come across. However, when I read up on White Feminism or toxic femininity, it's referring completely to the actions and exclusions against other women of different backgrounds or not being supportive of other women. Is not calling eachother out an act of white-feminism? It sounds so dirty.
IHateJulio and Armin, maybe y'all nailed it with people needing spotlights because non-fugly middle class white women sometimes have a sense of entitlement to be heard/seen/complimented/agreed with.
TL:DR - I'm just wondering what I've come across and how to use the term "white-feminism" properly. If I'm wrong, teach me something.