Anyone here have like an actual career they studied for? If so, did you move away from home and put skating and hobbies to the side in the name of career growth?
Went to university back in 2003 and got BSc Hons in Product Design (Industrial Design), got scouted by a local retail design company during my final degree show/open day, and was working for them before my graduation later in the summer. Used to get quite a bit of skating done during uni, the campus had some decent spots, but i probably spent more time getting drunk.
Moved out of university accomodation straight into a rented flat, and never moved back home... carried on skating and doing whatever, but got heavily into snowboarding so that's where a lot of my pay went (trips are expensive when you're UK based), along with messing around with cars.
Been in the retail display industry ever since, went from junior through to senior roles across 3 companies, and am now managing a team of 6 designers and engineers.
Paid off the last of my student loan last year, skate about 5 days a week, and WFH apart from a couple days a month here and there. Work/life balance is decent and I earn good money, don't own a house, but got plenty of savings to eventually do so.
Can't see myself ever leaving this industry tbh, never intended to get into it specifically, but i'm pleased to have spent my career sofar doing what I studied to do. I've just about been doing it 15 years now, been at my current company the last 11.
TL;DR - I never put my hobbies or life to one side to grow my career, and have actively prioritised hobbies and interests alongside working 9-5... you definately don't need to sell your soul and have no life to get ahead in your career, not in the UK and in my experience anyway.
I'd like to hope that you don't have to sacrifice one to achieve the other, but I suppose that depends heavily on the career you choose. I have definately sacrificed getting on the property ladder in the name of very expensive hobbies in my 20s through to early 30s...but that was more down to me choosing how to spend my money than related to my job/career.