I've hit a rough patch, and it's getting hard to pull out of. I think a lot of it stems from my job, I won't go into detail, but I'm fucking miserable here. I'm trying to apply elsewhere, or at least move around in the company but lately it's felt like I'm drowning. I've applied for a new position to make some better money here, but it's the work itself more than anything. It's mentally and emotionally draining. I know it's easy to say "Stop being a pussy, quit and get a new job" but that shit is stupid. It's not as easy as I'd like it to be. I'm not pulling in huge money by any means, but I've been here long enough that I'm making a decent living. My girlfriend and I live together and make about the same, she always tells me that she would support me trying to find something else that makes me happier, but I'd feel like a prick if I suddenly cut my income basically in half and leave her to do the heavy lifting. The problem though is I need to decide if it's more important to be a "fiscally responsible adult" or quit this shit and try to retain my happiness. It's starting to affect my personal life, I've been an irritable asshole and prone to snapping at people more including my girlfriend. If I was single I would have been done with this place ages ago, but I'm trying to make a bit of a life for myself so I can't just work on snap decisions anymore. I'm not looking for pity from you guys, I know people out there have bigger fish to fry, but does anyone have any advice? Even just someone who has dealt with/is dealing with something similar?