I still don't see your point. If you are arguing some "live and let live" attitude, then you should tolerate my attitude too. I'm indifferent to poofs in real life (bar one fist fight with a dyke, but my philosophy was "if you want to fuck like a man, you can fight like a man" - and that, when you think about it, is equality). You stereotype bigots the same way I stereotype homos. So why is my way 'wrong', and your way 'right'?