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Title: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on May 29, 2018, 10:48:02 AM
Long story okay if you skip sections however it gets good. So as some may know and not I use to be an army brat moved constantly took forever to meet skate friends was small bullies always had a target for stealing shit or picking on me also some places had no skate shops this was from 87' to 94' I had moved quite extensively throughout the states. I lived in NYC upperwest side and loved the New Engand area for raw streets and always a few kids to kick it with. Now I lived in plenty of other backwooods shitholes such as Huntsville Arab Groton New London also Chattanooga but during these times I'd skate my ass off. as the title goes I met my HS bully a few years back in AL. Joey Walker real piece of work redneck as fuck stole my board throughout HS and wouldn't skate it basically set my shit on fire and brag and bring the rubble of steel and polyurethane at my feet. So was passing through the south and stopped by Arab area to show off spots to my wife and few friends skating with me. We end up at a bar a friend I guess owns now and we are hooked up with a place for the weekend Siked right?! Well at the end of the bar sat this short turd your atypical drunkard who hated going home to see his kids and his old lady I asked bartender like who is that  why does he look familiar? Oh that's so and so Joey didn't you guys have beef? I'm like yeah went over and sized him up hey you alright ? you remember me? he looks at me and the moment most people don't want to realize is how bad they feel for being a shithead he already looked like he was welling up from his own stress/bs at home he looked at me and said I'm so sorry for being a dick to you and pulled out a wad of money, I looked at him no dude all I ever wanted was this moment here for you to realize what you've done wrong to me. in all honesty I did want to fuck him up on sight but my head said just wait see what happens and you might like the results..... In summation if your brain tells you something is possible go for it, if not wait and build yourself up to conquer all things including bullies
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: SodaJerk on May 29, 2018, 12:13:49 PM
You did the right thing. Fuck what happened way back when you're the winner now.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on May 29, 2018, 12:28:50 PM
I thought this was going to be a dead thread, as in most dudes won't admit they were bullied somewhat throughout life or were too cool to admit the possibility of being picked on or were the bully in certain ways. I'll admit I have heckled and bullied a few drug dealers out of a park but thats because they were lazy to wak through my line while skating. gtfo my way is my go to and shit gets rowdy well get outta the park.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: pizzafliptofakie on May 29, 2018, 05:24:30 PM
Not much of a story, but my highschool had a typical football jock idiot who would always try and start fights with me. It was so unwarranted I don't even remember the dude's name. Either way I saw him a couple years ago when I stopped in my hometown and he had to get around in one of those electric carts because he gained a shitton of weight. Not that I'm happy for his fate or anything, but it goes to show how irrelevant people are who go out of their way to be dickheads to you.
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Post by: Thrillho on May 30, 2018, 12:18:57 AM
Delivered a couple pizzas to a trailer a year or so out of high school. Middle age guy, acting super nice, invites me in and gives me a five. Kid I recognized from a class came out of the back room.

He was a year younger than me, and would try to mess with me. I wasn't afraid of him so much as the consequences of beating him, but he would sit behind me and fuck with me on occasion. Throw stuff, pop me in the back with rubber bands.

When he comes out and sees me he looks away immediately. This was a tiny 2 bedroom trailer with at least 6 people living in it. As he walks up behind the older guy, guessing kid's step dad or something the like, to grab the pizzas, dude says "get the plates", and as kid turns guy grabs his head and shoves him forward knocking him into the kitchen table. Kid kinda laughs it off nervously. Older guy looks at me like, "can you believe this?"

Makes sense, I guess.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: fulfillthedream on May 30, 2018, 03:18:17 AM
ha funny replies. this isnt really a bully just a funny story of seeing someone who was popular and cool after hs;

i saw adrian lopez at a circa demo and took a photo.. i used the photo for a assignment and this girl took the photo and told me " i ripped it in half and kept the other dude and threw your photo away" and i was kinda bumed but not really cause i didnt like her or anything but she was one of the hotter/cool girls..

 a good 8 years later im working at a sporting good store during college and i see her pregnant with this fat dude - she recognized me what i was upto , filled each other in and she was like "yeah i just ended up getting knocked up" and seemed pretty sad over all
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Post by: shark tits on May 30, 2018, 04:32:19 AM
my next door neighbor growing up was a few yrs older than me but short for his age. we were halfway troublemakers already but he pushed us to really be menaces.
he was legitimately gnarly, he'd reach out the window of a moving car and punch a bicyclist in the back and fight people his own age but he was always quick to punch us.
we had a rope swing in my yard and another neighborhood kid and he were sharing the hose/handle and he let go on purpose so the other kid would fall.
when he fell, he broek both his arms but dude just punched him in both arms for 20 minutes like 'don't be a pussy'.
dude wanted me to sneak him drugs in jail and was all threatening when i told him piss up a rope.
he had some giant settlement because the cops beat him up on video in the jail and i never heard of him for about 15 yrs.
about 4-5 yrs ago i seen that he od'd [rips on fb] and  i just thought, couldn't have happened to a better person.

oh, one time at like midnight i see him fly out his back door and do that cartwheel over the railing and take the 2 story drop a few steps ahead of his dad swinging a tennis racquet. i guess that's where it came from but fuck that dude anyways.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on May 30, 2018, 04:46:24 AM
Delivered a couple pizzas to a trailer a year or so out of high school. Middle age guy, acting super nice, invites me in and gives me a five. Kid I recognized from a class came out of the back room.

He was a year younger than me, and would try to mess with me. I wasn't afraid of him so much as the consequences of beating him, but he would sit behind me and fuck with me on occasion. Throw stuff, pop me in the back with rubber bands.

When he comes out and sees me he looks away immediately. This was a tiny 2 bedroom trailer with at least 6 people living in it. As he walks up behind the older guy, guessing kid's step dad or something the like, to grab the pizzas, dude says "get the plates", and as kid turns guy grabs his head and shoves him forward knocking him into the kitchen table. Kid kinda laughs it off nervously. Older guy looks at me like, "can you believe this?"

Makes sense, I guess.
I will admit through everything even though I wasn't socially affable I was a class clown that did dumb shit but never warranted the shit end of bullying, I mean we're young and don't know shit and I have since apologized to the dudes I'd annoy.
ha funny replies. this isnt really a bully just a funny story of seeing someone who was popular and cool after hs;

i saw adrian lopez at a circa demo and took a photo.. i used the photo for a assignment and this girl took the photo and told me " i ripped it in half and kept the other dude and threw your photo away" and i was kinda bumed but not really cause i didnt like her or anything but she was one of the hotter/cool girls..

 a good 8 years later im working at a sporting good store during college and i see her pregnant with this fat dude - she recognized me what i was upto , filled each other in and she was like "yeah i just ended up getting knocked up" and seemed pretty sad over all
Yeah I seen a few girls I thought maybe I'd have a chance with but they ended up being miserable old wretches from kids to old man being a methhead and prison so you can see that kinda beauty they use to have but the stress has caused them to look like shit...... Pulled a Dr. Rockso Dayyyyyyyummmmmmm you gottttt old and fat............ a few times the woman looked bummed like yeah that happens.... Don't feel bad at all in the words of David Wood from Dazed and Confused I get older they stay the same age,
 21 to 30 no kids and no plans for them.......
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: iKobrakai on May 30, 2018, 09:40:16 AM
I'm sure they are in terrible shape and live shitty lives. Probably on their second wife or some shit.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: ChuckRamone on May 30, 2018, 10:32:51 AM
high school bullies are usually early bloomers who hit puberty in like elementary school and pick on all the smallest of the prepubescent runts. this also means they peak in high school which is why they almost all look like shit by the time they’re 25. and it’s also why they stop being bullies: people eventually catch up to and pass them in physicality. but on the Internet where anyone can be a bully is a different story.
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Post by: offkilter on May 30, 2018, 10:43:36 AM
Highschool football jocks generally turn out to become fat.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Baron Samedi on May 30, 2018, 10:56:25 AM
Where I'm from, surfers and skaters are the jocky assholes. I actually got bullied the most by other skaters when I was in high school.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Beeda Weeda on May 30, 2018, 12:58:19 PM
a group of 4 guys jumped me and beat the shit out of me in a bathroom of a boston pizzaq back in 2005, 1 died of a heroin overdose back in 2016, one is a pimp who is in and out of jail constantly on drug and human trafficking charges, one sees me in public and turns away immediately in shame, and one ran away to BC  to hide from his past.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: HyenaChaser on May 30, 2018, 02:17:32 PM
Where I'm from, surfers and skaters are the jocky assholes. I actually got bullied the most by other skaters when I was in high school.

San Diego?
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Baron Samedi on May 30, 2018, 02:18:44 PM
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Where I'm from, surfers and skaters are the jocky assholes. I actually got bullied the most by other skaters when I was in high school.
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San Diego?
Santa Cruz
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: fulltechnicalskizzy on May 30, 2018, 05:13:01 PM
I didn't realize until I was in my early 20's that I was kinda a bully growing up. I was never big or thought I was better than anyone, I just talked a lot of shit and sometimes to kids who didn't have it in them to talk shit back. I feel really bad about it and there is definitely one kid in particular that I really never want to see again because I am so ashamed and embarrassed about how I treated him. If I ever run into him I will probably try to laugh it off as just kid shit but if he were to be really direct and honest with me about how bad I made him feel I would probably call him a faggot and all my friends will laugh
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: fulfillthedream on May 30, 2018, 10:48:47 PM
I didn't realize until I was in my early 20's that I was kinda a bully growing up. I was never big or thought I was better than anyone, I just talked a lot of shit and sometimes to kids who didn't have it in them to talk shit back. I feel really bad about it and there is definitely one kid in particular that I really never want to see again because I am so ashamed and embarrassed about how I treated him. If I ever run into him I will probably try to laugh it off as just kid shit but if he were to be really direct and honest with me about how bad I made him feel I would probably call him a faggot and all my friends will laugh


you should let him get one clean punch to your face
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: botefdunn on May 30, 2018, 11:30:55 PM
There was this dude who was part of my group of friends in high school, i thought he was wack but i was always decent to him. He tried to fight me a handful of times at parties i think because he knew i wouldn't fight back, i just didn't give a shit about him and im not a violent person, though i can't deny it was hard on the ego getting shoved around in front of people.
Anyway, years later i run into him and he wants to reminisce about old times and tell me what hes doing now, he gets all coked up and maudlin and has this little break down where he tells me how i always bullied him in high school but now he forgives me. Skateboarding is still so much better than most things.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: JB on May 31, 2018, 09:15:23 AM
Delivered a couple pizzas to a trailer a year or so out of high school. Middle age guy, acting super nice, invites me in and gives me a five. Kid I recognized from a class came out of the back room.

He was a year younger than me, and would try to mess with me. I wasn't afraid of him so much as the consequences of beating him, but he would sit behind me and fuck with me on occasion. Throw stuff, pop me in the back with rubber bands.

When he comes out and sees me he looks away immediately. This was a tiny 2 bedroom trailer with at least 6 people living in it. As he walks up behind the older guy, guessing kid's step dad or something the like, to grab the pizzas, dude says "get the plates", and as kid turns guy grabs his head and shoves him forward knocking him into the kitchen table. Kid kinda laughs it off nervously. Older guy looks at me like, "can you believe this?"

Makes sense, I guess.

That's pretty sad.

If you want to get an idea of how people in your community are living, deliver pizza. I did it for a while and enjoyed it for the most part, but there were some real characters I met.

I never had any real enemies growing up, but there are people that I still think are pieces of shit because of how they were back in the day. I've heard from some of my friends that they've ran into some of these guys and one or two have said they were real dicks back then and regret it. I don't keep tabs on anyone though.

There was one kid who I knew had a real abusive dad and every time I saw him he had a backpack full of clothes so he didn't have to go home. I never had an issue with him but my brother told me that him and a few other shit heads jumped him in the back seat of a car and smashed him over there head with a weed grinder over like 60 bucks. All the kids who did it were in jail for B&Es when my brother told me about it but I was fumed. I saw the backpack kid a few years later at the gas station and he wouldn't look my direction. I'm nothing in a fight but he is smaller than me but even knowing I had the odds I didn't do anything because I knew he grew up with a shitty situation and I honestly hoped he was doing the right thing for himself. Another beating wouldn't have taught him anything.
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Post by: QueeferMadness on May 31, 2018, 09:46:33 AM
Only nerds and dweebs get bullied.

Sort yourselves out.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: shark tits on May 31, 2018, 11:05:03 AM
Only nerds and dweebs get bullied.

Sort yourselves out.
mike tyson had a bully
and gershon
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: pugmaster on May 31, 2018, 06:32:54 PM
Life is pretty wild. The context of people's backgrounds really give perspective.  I have few experiences dealing with "bullies".  One was a woman who never gave me the light of day in high school. When I was 22 I went to an Applebee's and she was the waitress.  Felt good.

Another time was when I went to a "kick back" and the brother of a friend (of over 15 years) punched me for saying I didn't want his haircut because I would look like him. I learned later his older brother (my friend) got into it with him. After he punched me I didn't try to fight him but tried to rectify the situation as he did not knock me down and I was bigger than him.  I can be blunt at times and was inebriated but he did not accept my olive leaf.  His brother was even bigger than me, I felt bad after learning about the outcome for the interaction we had.  I think overall, weird interactions in childhood are best met with an adult perspective when we encounter them later.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: doublesteveburger on June 01, 2018, 02:25:56 AM
If I wasn't a fat kid in high school I would have never listened to punk rock.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on June 01, 2018, 06:38:19 AM
If I wasn't a fat kid in high school I would have never listened to punk rock.

What do you mean?
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: GOKU on June 02, 2018, 06:40:41 PM
Actually pretty damn relevant to this thread:

Anyone watched the new YouTube Red series, Cobra Kai? It's a continuation of The Karate Kid, set in present day. I binge watched it and was NOT expecting to enjoy it as much as I did, it's really damn good. They make you very sympathetic toward Johnny Lawrence's character, although he is still also a bit of a dickhead (in the most lovable way possible).

Fuck YouTube Red, obviously, but you can just get a free trial and cancel it after you watch the series. The first two episodes are also free to watch!
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Noble Experiment on June 02, 2018, 08:05:45 PM
There was this dude who used to fuck with me so bad in 10th grade gym class, constantly picking on me and trying his hardest to make me look like a chump at all times. The funny thing is he skated, and when he found out I skated too he started treating me a bit better but he was still a pretty big dick to me overall. Cut to two years or so after graduation, I get a random message from him asking me if I wanted to go skate with him one of these days. At first I was a bit reluctant but I eventually agreed. We ended up meeting up at one of my favorite red curb and manny pad spots and skated all day, we played like ten games of skate that day too, and he was super nice the whole time. Turns out he was actually a pretty rad dude underneath his bully facade. We ended up skating a lot together after that day and are still good friends to this day. He doesn't skate too often these days because of work but I still see him around here and there. It's funny because even to this day I've never brought up to him anything about how he used to be such a big bully to me, even after we started skating together and became friends, and he's never brought it up either, we kinda just pretend it never was a thing; I feel like he'd probably be pretty embarrassed if I brought it up. High school kids will be high school kids sometimes ya know? Some feel the need to have some sort of tough kid/bully front, but the good ones always shed that mentality as they get older and eventually realize just how lame they were.
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Post by: MadPanda on June 03, 2018, 12:02:28 AM
Luckily I never had to deal with bullies, especially in high school. My high school was rather peaceful and calm. Just graduated about 2 weeks ago in fact. Truth is everyone in my graduation class wanted to get the fuck out and be done with it.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: JB on June 03, 2018, 02:31:33 PM
There was this dude who used to fuck with me so bad in 10th grade gym class, constantly picking on me and trying his hardest to make me look like a chump at all times. The funny thing is he skated, and when he found out I skated too he started treating me a bit better but he was still a pretty big dick to me overall. Cut to two years or so after graduation, I get a random message from him asking me if I wanted to go skate with him one of these days. At first I was a bit reluctant but I eventually agreed. We ended up meeting up at one of my favorite red curb and manny pad spots and skated all day, we played like ten games of skate that day too, and he was super nice the whole time. Turns out he was actually a pretty rad dude underneath his bully facade. We ended up skating a lot together after that day and are still good friends to this day. He doesn't skate too often these days because of work but I still see him around here and there. It's funny because even to this day I've never brought up to him anything about how he used to be such a big bully to me, even after we started skating together and became friends, and he's never brought it up either, we kinda just pretend it never was a thing; I feel like he'd probably be pretty embarrassed if I brought it up. High school kids will be high school kids sometimes ya know? Some feel the need to have some sort of tough kid/bully front, but the good ones always shed that mentality as they get older and eventually realize just how lame they were.

I had a kid like that in one of my ninth grade classes. I wore nothing but lakai's all through high school and he would always tease me about my shoes for whatever reason. he was friends with the kid who was the best skater in the school and for some shitty reason, their crew were kinda dicks to me and my friends for a little while. He would just pick on me whatever way he could, then tell about these really sick spots that only him and his friends knew, but would never tell me where they were (probably didn't exist). Finally years later we all got along but it took me a while before I actually liked the kid.

Fast forward a few years later, I run into him at the bar the night before St. Patricks day and he comes up to me all excited to talk about skating. Shows me some photos of a mini him and his buddies built in someones garage and says I should come skate it with him sometime. We had a good time over some beers and he told me how stoked he was for St. Patricks day. He was going to shave his head into a mohawk and dye his hair green and get wasted. Next night I'm back at the same bar and someone asks me "Do you know So-and-so? He died today in a car crash." It was him. I guess he got really drunk early on and hit a car in midday traffic and a cop saw him do it. Instead of pulling over he sped off and drove off the road into a tree a few miles down the road. People said that he did have the green mohawk. I was so bummed and couldn't believe it when I heard it. I had just seen him the day before and it was the first time I was genuinely happy to be around him.
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Post by: Frosty178 on June 03, 2018, 03:01:51 PM
The kid that was a dick to me in secondary school was still exactly the same years later when I saw him in a bar. What a tool. Bus fodder.
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Post by: MOE SYZLAK on June 03, 2018, 03:27:18 PM
I was bullied a bunch in school by a particular group of the cooler jock type of guys. I was a pretty nerdy kid into skating, punk music and comic book shit so I can say I was a pretty easy target.
One of the dudes knocked up some bimbo and is stuck hating life.
Other dude was an alcoholic and died of a heart attack a year or so back.
And I saw the other one working at Taco Bell not too long ago.
These dudes made my life a living hell for a real long time.
It does suck for the family of the dude that died.
But I believe eventually you get what’s coming to you
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Post by: bawtawdinfinity on June 03, 2018, 03:57:33 PM
I was kind of a bully with pranks, but I was never bullied. but every group of skaters at every school since elementary were not down with me at all. They had the latest skater gear and those fuckin haircuts and shit and I didn't fuck with that, I just had skate shoes. Every skater group in school was just bitchmade prettyboi cool guys. When I did skate around them they would get visibly pissed cause I was better than them, lol, but I didn't even care I was just trying to skate but hey were all about showing off and outdoing people. I fell in with the bad kids, outcasts and nerds and I'm super greatfull for that. Skaters were lame.     

Hahaha actually this kid use to bully me on the bus in like 9th grade but I didn't view him as a threat so I didn't care. One day I was at his house and he went in his room and came out completely naked just lookin at me. I was like wtf and kinda froze. Went back in and came bavk out and said, "soooo, your not gay". Lol I wish I blazed his asshole though, that little faggot wanted some daddy dick. He was a smooth twink.
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Post by: ChuckRamone on June 03, 2018, 05:37:04 PM
^closeted gay guy airing out his fantasies through a troll account confirmed.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: bawtawdinfinity on June 03, 2018, 06:01:51 PM
Not even in closet, I want to fuck tranny and twink bois, Ive always said that, I am a powertop.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: ChuckRamone on June 03, 2018, 06:18:30 PM
but don’t you talk about women too? are you bi?
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: bawtawdinfinity on June 03, 2018, 06:26:36 PM
Yeah, a orgy with both would be ideal. But I'm only attracted to feminine features.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: JB on June 03, 2018, 06:59:31 PM
Yeah, a orgy with both would be ideal. But I'm only attracted to feminine features and dicks.

This is what you meant to say
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Zurg on June 04, 2018, 06:36:42 AM
when i was 7th grade this fucking ginger kid who was a couple years older than me tried to take my board, but i wouldnt leave him alone till he gave it back. he kept threatening he was going to fuck me up if i didnt let him have the board, but he never did anything. it went on for like half an hour, i was so pissed. not sure what happened to him

in 9th grade, this idiot who was a year older fought me for having pink wheels. i lost, but didnt take much of a beating. according to facebook hes really into his dodge charger these days.
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Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on June 04, 2018, 07:03:32 AM
As I stated initially in this original post I did get a few of the boards back that people stole from me however they weren't the nicest ways. I use to live in a seasonal beach community in CT for a bit Point O' Woods to be specific an if I ripped off your house during that time well Oh well sucks for you......... Anyways I had scoped out where this one douchebag had lived and I waited till his family left to retrieve my Rob Roscopp 4 so I am camped out across the street during the night I bolted across went around back and shimmied a screwdriver and got in through the back grabbed my board and stole a bunch of liquor. On one hand yeah I felt bad for stealing booze on another had someone not stolen my board at St. Marys Catholic church well I wouldn't be in your house. So I was caught for my shenanigans during the early 90s but I do not feel bad when someone steals my shit and I do a rescue mission to get my gear back.
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Post by: Mark Renton on June 05, 2018, 04:24:31 PM
They all generally live a shitty life now. So do I. I like to think mine is a better kind of shitty.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: jomeara1 on June 06, 2018, 10:58:09 AM
I can only think of one kid that gave me a rough time back then and he was hard to avoid because we had mutual friends, so he was around me quite often. He would just say a lot of shit that was uncalled for and put you on the spot just to make you feel bad.  At the end of the day I would just shrug it off and not let it ruin my day because I knew I was the better person.

Fast forward a few years later and he joined the military and got his arm and leg blown off from an IED.  Super fucking gnarly. I would never wish that upon my worst enemy.  When I saw him after that he was super nice and friendly and seemed very positive despite the situation. Now we’re actually better friends than we ever were. You never know how things turn out sometimes.
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Post by: SodaJerk on June 06, 2018, 11:31:24 AM
I can only think of one kid that gave me a rough time back then and he was hard to avoid because we had mutual friends, so he was around me quite often. He would just say a lot of shit that was uncalled for and put you on the spot just to make you feel bad.  At the end of the day I would just shrug it off and not let it ruin my day because I knew I was the better person.

Fast forward a few years later and he joined the military and got his arm and leg blown off from an IED.  Super fucking gnarly. I would never wish that upon my worst enemy.  When I saw him after that he was super nice and friendly and seemed very positive despite the situation. Now we’re actually better friends than we ever were. You never know how things turn out sometimes.
He gave an arm and a leg to be a less shitty person.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on June 06, 2018, 12:10:07 PM
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I can only think of one kid that gave me a rough time back then and he was hard to avoid because we had mutual friends, so he was around me quite often. He would just say a lot of shit that was uncalled for and put you on the spot just to make you feel bad.  At the end of the day I would just shrug it off and not let it ruin my day because I knew I was the better person.

Fast forward a few years later and he joined the military and got his arm and leg blown off from an IED.  Super fucking gnarly. I would never wish that upon my worst enemy.  When I saw him after that he was super nice and friendly and seemed very positive despite the situation. Now we’re actually better friends than we ever were. You never know how things turn out sometimes.
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He gave an arm and a leg to be a less shitty person.

WOW! talk about giving a brother a hand........... and a leg to boot lol
It's funny when going through class albums or whatnot I remember a really talented skater ended up being a shitstick Oinker Cop at the local mall in Chattanooga. I was filming a video somewhere near and we ended up going to the mall and filming portions in stores this was when VX1000 was hot 98' or 99'. We ended up getting confronted by that same talented skater/Oinker about filming and plenty of MILF upskirt shots and boobs shit was raw as fuck. I called the dude out like wtf happened and had it on tape.  however my shit got stolen and that video was part of it. fuck wish I had that now I'd put it up online in a sec....
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Ghost Face Nigga on June 06, 2018, 01:09:13 PM
when i was 7th grade this fucking ginger kid who was a couple years older than me tried to take my board, but i wouldnt leave him alone till he gave it back. he kept threatening he was going to fuck me up if i didnt let him have the board, but he never did anything. it went on for like half an hour, i was so pissed. not sure what happened to him

in 9th grade, this idiot who was a year older fought me for having pink wheels. i lost, but didnt take much of a beating. according to facebook hes really into his dodge charger these days.

i read that way to quick and thought it said nigger and not ginger. i imminently thought "damn this dude went full jason jesse on his bully!" but then i read it over and realized im a fucking moron that cant read.


Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Hevonen on June 07, 2018, 09:31:33 AM
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when i was 7th grade this fucking ginger kid who was a couple years older than me tried to take my board, but i wouldnt leave him alone till he gave it back. he kept threatening he was going to fuck me up if i didnt let him have the board, but he never did anything. it went on for like half an hour, i was so pissed. not sure what happened to him

in 9th grade, this idiot who was a year older fought me for having pink wheels. i lost, but didnt take much of a beating. according to facebook hes really into his dodge charger these days.
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i read that way to quick and thought it said nigger and not ginger. i imminently thought "damn this dude went full jason jesse on his bully!" but then i read it over and realized im a fucking moron that cant read.

Hahaha did exactly the same thing
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Omars_Dad on June 25, 2018, 10:14:18 AM
i wouldn't say bully really, but he was just kind of a dick in general. he's a super successful and owns several restaurants in the DC area, has a sweet looking porsche, super ripped, and is friendly with several members of the washington caps. you can tell he's still a bit obnoxious but that has honestly probably helped him in these ventures. he seems happy which is chill, doesn't bother me any, i've made a pretty chill life for myself...obviously more of a modest life but i'm happy
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: shark tits on June 25, 2018, 10:20:29 AM
i wouldn't say bully really, but he was just kind of a dick in general. he's a super successful and owns several restaurants in the DC area, has a sweet looking porsche, super ripped, and is friendly with several members of the washington caps. you can tell he's still a bit obnoxious but that has honestly probably helped him in these ventures. he seems happy which is chill, doesn't bother me any, i've made a pretty chill life for myself...obviously more of a modest life but i'm happy
beat his high score in donkey kong and watch his life unravel
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Omars_Dad on June 25, 2018, 11:20:10 AM
aight, jimmy pesto haha
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: tortfeasor on June 25, 2018, 02:26:58 PM
you guys are so black and white.  i was both the bullied and bullier.  thankfully my bully phase lasted less than year. but im glad i got bullied.  it led me off the football field and into the skate park.  it made me friends with the drama kids who had cool music, interesting books and tons of different things to smoke. being bullied gave me a nice inferiority complex and chip on my shoulder that's really helped me in my professional and academic career.  in my drive to be nothing like them they made me a nicer person.

i should probably thank my bullies. they sacrificed their best years to make me a better adult.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Yu Dum on June 26, 2018, 10:02:50 AM
My freshman year of high school, this group of dumb rednecks (all of them seniors) used to call me a faggot and tell me to get a haircut at lunch almost everyday. I never said anything and always kept to myself bc they did not and will never matter.

Fast forward a few years to find out that the one main culprit had been crushed to death in a four-wheeler accident. Some people told me that I should at least feel some remorse, but all I could say at the time is “good riddance.”

Now, looking back, I feel like a huge asshole for having that mentality about it. He may have been an asshole, but he didn’t deserve to die.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on June 26, 2018, 12:11:22 PM
My freshman year of high school, this group of dumb rednecks (all of them seniors) used to call me a faggot and tell me to get a haircut at lunch almost everyday. I never said anything and always kept to myself bc they did not and will never matter.

Fast forward a few years to find out that the one main culprit had been crushed to death in a four-wheeler accident. Some people told me that I should at least feel some remorse, but all I could say at the time is “good riddance.”

Now, looking back, I feel like a huge asshole for having that mentality about it. He may have been an asshole, but he didn’t deserve to die.
Wow, I had heard one of mine was severely crippled yeah I was kinda a dick well better him then me like that but now looking back at least he wasn't killed by someone.  The many bullies I had either went on to be miserable or end up in prison, or knocking up that high school sweetheart that squeezed out a bunch of puppies and use to be quite attractive but lost it after the 2nd unplanned kid.
Do I feel bad for them? Some as they turned out to be okay at best, but the rest naww still bitter and glad I have moved on physically and mentally without seeing any of them again.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Enfant Terrible on June 27, 2018, 02:11:23 AM
There was a fat kid who used to bully me and my friends because we were skaters when i was in high school ,one time he made my friend cry by making fun of his dying father ( he had cancer and died a year later )

I hope this fat kid died in a slow painful death and i don't feel bad at all.





Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on June 27, 2018, 04:34:37 AM
There was a fat kid who used to bully me and my friends because we were skaters when i was in high school ,one time he made my friend cry by making fun of his dying father ( he had cancer and died a year later )

I hope this fat kid died in a slow painful death and i don't feel bad at all.
yeah that fat kid gets no sympathy for being a cocksucker anyone who does that shit deserves a kick in the throat....
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: DISTANT RUMOURS on June 27, 2018, 04:53:51 AM
I was the fat kid in school and got bullied because I had eye cancer and have one fucked up eye (it's better now)

When I got better after treatments  I started skating more and  started training martial arts.
I got buff in my college years and went full bodybuilding mode a few years after that,
and it was then when our high-school had a reunion.

When I saw my bully he was intimidated and didn't even dare to look at me,
and his wife was acting over the top frisky around me when I went to get drinks.

Didn't do anything with her (but I could if I wanted to), but that was a great feeling, insulting my bully deeply.
It was also my cue to exit and leave those toxic people with who I had nothing in common with anyway...

Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: JB on June 27, 2018, 04:57:52 AM
My freshman year of high school, this group of dumb rednecks (all of them seniors) used to call me a faggot and tell me to get a haircut at lunch almost everyday. I never said anything and always kept to myself bc they did not and will never matter.

Fast forward a few years to find out that the one main culprit had been crushed to death in a four-wheeler accident. Some people told me that I should at least feel some remorse, but all I could say at the time is “good riddance.”

Now, looking back, I feel like a huge asshole for having that mentality about it. He may have been an asshole, but he didn’t deserve to die.

i wouldn't feel bad. i grew up with these two brothers who were huge cry babies when they were younger and grew up to be total dickheads. the younger one died a few years ago in a motorcycle accident. my parents went to the funeral but i skipped it. i dont like either one of them and even though this guy didn't deserve to die, i still don't respect him or his asshole brother. now having lost my younger brother, i do have more sympathy for their family but it doesn't change my opinion of any of them. they suck.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Ghost Face Nigga on June 27, 2018, 07:34:54 AM
There was a fat kid who used to bully me and my friends because we were skaters when i was in high school ,one time he made my friend cry by making fun of his dying father ( he had cancer and died a year later )

I hope this fat kid died in a slow painful death and i don't feel bad at all.

Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Skate_lurker_Rob on June 27, 2018, 08:12:04 AM
I was the fat kid in school and got bullied because I had eye cancer and have one fucked up eye (it's better now)

When I got better after treatments  I started skating more and  started training martial arts.
I got buff in my college years and went full bodybuilding mode a few years after that,
and it was then when our high-school had a reunion.

When I saw my bully he was intimidated and didn't even dare to look at me,
and his wife was acting over the top frisky around me when I went to get drinks.

Didn't do anything with her (but I could if I wanted to), but that was a great feeling, insulting my bully deeply.
It was also my cue to exit and leave those toxic people with who I had nothing in common with anyway...
That's great love hearing stories of just knowing you can size up the competition and laugh it off. I'd have violated his gal just to spite him but good on you though,

 I had a friend years ago in a small redneck town he was kinda mentally slow and was always down to film, so in some videos you'd hear his yeahs and were kinda funny, I feel bad for laughing as he is still friends with him to this day, anyways a news team followed around some dipshit teens as they were harassing him meowing and saying stupid shit as this kid would repeat what was being said, at one point he knew he was being picked on and would slap himself really hard permanently damaged his eye and eventually his bike got stolen. we'd see him around and be like wtf ? you need anything from us we got your back etc....  He never took us up on it however we saw the segment on the news and we were like these idiots, (side note he got a brand new bike which later was given a nice bmx by a friend I believe a Cult bmx) ..... Oh shit our buddies did some bully hunting slashed his tires and would berate the rednecks and make fun of them every chance we saw them, the persons that were with them would be like oh he's sorry for what happened leave him alone! Harassing a bully to instigate a fight isn't hard however using psychological tics and jabs make them freak out is totally worth it. one thing I abhor and won't tolerate is abuse towards children elderly or mentally challenged. Just like a nazi a wife beater or pedophile you should be ousted and named for your actions and held accountable for what you create in this world.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Pigeon on June 27, 2018, 11:08:20 AM
One of mine became a cop, another ended up getting sexual assault charges from hazing someone, and the rest ended up working in business or finance.

I’ve randomly seen some of them in Manhattan and Chicago, during trips, but don’t want to waste my time interacting with shitty people from my past.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: shark tits on June 27, 2018, 11:38:01 AM
One of mine became a cop, another ended up getting sexual assault charges from hazing someone, and the rest ended up working in business or finance.

I’ve randomly seen some of them in Manhattan and Chicago, during trips, but don’t want to waste my time interacting with shitty people from my past.
were you bullied in every city in america?
one of mine became a cop too but according to neighborhood friends, he looks out. maybe that's why i never get kicked outta my strip mall plaza?
know what's funny? when we were wicked little, 4th grade, i fought him and put him in the camel clutch and his cousin ran to get his dad and so his dad sees me mounting him in the camel clutch and i socked him a few X for the road and ran from the family.
so like, i halfassed wonder if that's not why he bullied me later and became a cop?
full circle.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: companguero on September 09, 2023, 12:48:03 AM
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I see my guy all around west LA where I doordash.
He never bullied me he was just more of a rascal that would give me shit every once in a while.
The thing that irked me about him was how he excelled at everything.
The memory that always pops up is our computer science teacher praising him for his skills in PASCAL programming while I was still barely grasping BASIC.

More importantly, these bus bench ads would be a great outlet for a company like WKND. Imagine Tom K’s headshot alongside a parody of real estate jargon.
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: fuck_that_guy on September 09, 2023, 01:09:03 AM
fuck that guy
Title: Re: Meeting your high school bully as an adult?
Post by: Sativa Lung on September 09, 2023, 06:18:08 AM
fuck that guy

I tried but hes still denying that it was all based in sexual tension