Makes sense! In the last few years I've definitely paid attention to your comments & tips about sizing, among other posters on XYZ shoes and making them work. Rad!
I never did the shoe stretcher trick, I just wore my shoes in and believed they were supposed to be that snug until they were broken in. Now, I know that's not how it should be and they should fit comfortably from the jump. I can always tie my shoes tighter or put a thicker insole in to improve snugness as the shoes stretch. Can't do the same if the shoe is too small from the beginning.
Es, emerica, etnies are the three brands I wear & skate the most currently. Some Dunks & Japan Pros a little bit now, but that's mostly it. It's wild! 7-10 years ago I was skating in 10.5 One Star Pros/Chuck Taylor Pros/NB 213's. Then 11s for my various Vans Pro vulcs/wafflecups & Blazer Mids. Anything else I dabbled wearing or skating (State, Fallen, Adidas, NB#, etc) were usually an 11 or an 11.5.
I'm 20-ish pounds heavier now so that likely also affected how my feet fit in shoes as the years passed. Now it's quite clear that 12 is my ideal size for most shoes and 13 for the narrower last ones. I don't wanna fuck up my feet any more than I may already have unintentionally.
Let it be known: having slightly more room in your shoe is definitely better long term for foot health, Pals!!!
Feet do get bigger, wider and or longer as people age too, some more than others.
I think going from earlier years (teen years through 20s) it seemed like all size 11s were really good and no issues, then when older (30 to 40s) things started to have a tighter than comfortable feeling, so I guess like my eyes going for reading in my 40s, my feet got bigger then too.
People would often say for skate shoes, get the size down or the just right size, as they would stretch and most shoes did, along with needing tighter shoes for flip tricks, as those older vulc shoes got really floppy in the ends after a bit, so from that I guess it could go either way really - sometimes if a shoe is too tight it is going to cancel out all the benefits of the snug shoe feel.
I also skated a lot of Es, Etnies and some others in the "in between" eras mid 90s, as they were more accessible and skated really well, Accels in particular, which always worked really well. I do recall early 2000s I got a pair of solid leather Vans Fairlane shoes, cupsole type and wore them on a skate trip we went on. They never stretched out and were so tight they ended up pushing off both big toe nails, which grew back fine after a while, but I think that might have been the first time a size 11 shoe was just completely too tight, whereas the vulc shoes like Old Skools in 11 were still good back then.
On the topic of getting bigger shoes to fit better, yes adding a thin "extra" flat insole did help, usually the simple department store versions, or changing out insoles for a thicker version of something else, along with more often than not reusing some old tongues I would rip out of old shoes, but having very flat feet, I think this is maybe more a me thing than a regular foot type of thing. At least this gave me just a little more insulation on both the top and the bottom, which did help.
@swongolianbbq I always do my shoes up nice and tight for anything, really only having a couple of pairs as "slip ons" for doing quick things round the house, but I notice if my toe keeps hitting the front inside of the shoes, I am going to end up with more issues with my big toe nails.