Erica Yary and her weekend buzz departure

[sleepypancakes]

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Are all of you saying that you would have absolutely no problem if your wife and the mother of your children had slept with say 30 guys before you met? Or husband/partner etc.. Its not really fair to judge people based on their decisions that don't effect anyone but them but thats how it is.

To drop some more science. Men have spermicide in there semen because when a primitive women was ovulating presumably more than one man was able to "make a delivery" and the man with the best "package" would be the father. So at least in an evolutionary perspective men weren't the only ones "slutting" it up.
 

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What that person has done in their life before you met them you have no control over and you're shallow if you let their mistakes (or decisions, they're not all mistakes) effect the good qualities that they have.

Also, I'm gonna need you to cite your sources on this one because men having something that kills sperm in what delivers sperm is actually regular and would potentially lead to the extinction of the species. Especially considering the seminal fluid in humans is made up of many fluids that actually act to support and grow spermatozoa, especially rich in amines and fructose which help protect the sperm from the acidity of the birth canal. So no, semen does not contain anything that is spermicidal. If you can find me a reputable scientist with backing research for your claim (you won't) then I will concede (it's not looking that way).

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Not necessarily.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sperm_competition#Offensive_adaptations
"In Drosophila, males release seminal fluids that contain additional toxins like pheromones and modified enzymes that are secreted by their accessory glands intended to destroy the sperm that have already made their way into the female's reproductive tract from a recent copulation."

Tangential, since we are talking about humans and all, but just an interesting genetic adaptation.

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http://www.academia.edu/2470528/Sperm_Competition_in_Humans_Implications_for_Male_Sexual_Psychology_Physiology_Anatomy_and_Behavior
I came across an article years ago while reading a science magazine I believe. I specifically remember an line like "Acting like a natural spermicide of sorts" type of statement. This was the best link I could get on short notice. To say that human beings would die out because our semen has the ability to recognize and compete with someone else's seems off. We have other physiological responses that make it seem at least possible. Kind of like if you receive the wrong blood type in a transfusion your immune system reacts. If having human blood in your veins could kill you we'd all be dead!

To say that a persons previous actions have no impact on the person they came to be doesn't make sense. Everyone is the person they are because of a mix of genes, and the experiences they've had. I thought I was agreeing for the most part that it's not fair to put women on a pedestal and use bull shit pseudo science to justify the common. Men have to spread their seed for the grater good but women are whores if they do the same. Type of thinking. That obviously got some of you mad.

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anticuckoldry

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is a great word!  Thanks for the link.

You stated explicitly above that "Men have spermicide in their semen". Which is false. Even in both things that you both posted. Unless my assumption that we're talking about human males is wrong, and that male fruit flies are fair game, there's no evidence for that statement. Of course there's competition. But that has nothing at all to do with the supposed composition of seminal fluid containing some spermicidal agent.

[chuck d]

I know that you're not talking to me, but I just want to point out that you stated explicitly above "having something that kills sperm in what delivers sperm is actually regular and would potentially lead to the extinction of the species."  Which is false.

[ROCKxADIO420]

personally i think sperms kind of gay

[Iceman]

the key/lock analogy is actually a very good one -- if used to describe the general viewpoint of the masses. but it is a very shitty one to follow. women and men alike should be able to do whatever the fuck they want in their own private lives without being judged or shamed.

and i find that the numbers thing is a conversation that is usually best to be avoided, along with discussing past sexual experiences. focus on the now and the soon to be. the past is gone. don't dwell on it.

[chuck d]

[SodaJerk]

And i find that the numbers thing is a conversation that is usually best to be avoided, along with discussing past sexual experiences. focus on the now and the soon to be. the past is gone. don't dwell on it.

I don't get the facination with counting. Are you supposed to be stoked if your number is higher than hers and how are ou gonna feel if its higher? Why can't you just be happy she's chosen you even if its just for now?

[layzieyez]

[Iceman]

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And i find that the numbers thing is a conversation that is usually best to be avoided, along with discussing past sexual experiences. focus on the now and the soon to be. the past is gone. don't dwell on it.

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I don't get the facination with counting. Are you supposed to be stoked if your number is higher than hers and how are ou gonna feel if its higher? Why can't you just be happy she's chosen you even if its just for now?

fully agree. and there's no prize if you get the high score. you actually lose. you end up cock blocking yourself.

[Nosesalad]

I heard skatetalk bob say that they stopped getting paid and that's why the show took such a long break. Maybe she just said fuck it.

[coyote2425]

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And i find that the numbers thing is a conversation that is usually best to be avoided, along with discussing past sexual experiences. focus on the now and the soon to be. the past is gone. don't dwell on it.

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I don't get the facination with counting. Are you supposed to be stoked if your number is higher than hers and how are ou gonna feel if its higher? Why can't you just be happy she's chosen you even if its just for now?

Quality > Quantity

Also, is this the most chivalrous and scientific thread on the forum?

[art hellman]

[SHAWN COMBOVER]

THIS! yes fugazi.

[steenz]

no one likes blown out pussy

[Jackie Joyner Kersee]

no one likes blown out pussy

beside ya daddy

[Sleazy]

my wife wanted to discuss numbers when we started dating and i told her that i never liked discussing that because the girls always lie about it. i wasn't trying to be funny or cocky or anything. it's just how i really felt about it. it kind of pissed her off and it kept coming up for a while but eventually it faded away after i continued to show no interest.

i never really felt that all guys lie. guys who aren't interested in playing the field don't lie and guys who play it well don't lie. it's the guys who want to play the field but suck at it that lie.

the key/lock analogy is actually a very good one -- if used to describe the general viewpoint of the masses. but it is a very shitty one to follow. women and men alike should be able to do whatever the fuck they want in their own private lives without being judged or shamed.

as a dad of a daughter and two sons, i feel differently about this. the way fathers feel about this stuff could be something that has contributed heavily to this over the years, as dads and moms probably put way more pressure on daughters than sons. but i do know that if one of my kids was slutting it up when they get older, i'd definitely prefer it be one of my sons. pretty sure my wife would feel the same way about it. i want my daughter to have a normal, healthy love life but definitely don't want her out bar slutting it up.

[formeitscrazylike]

I think it was Louis CK that said "If you have a son, you worry about one penis. If you have a daughter, you worry about all the penises."

I think that about sums it up

[NickDagger]

What's her sister's instagram?


I'm sure she got tired of every idiot skater hitting on her every episode. Bert Wooten is her boyfriend and I'm sure that was annoying as fuck for him as well.

[Mark Renton]

What's her sister's instagram?


I'm sure she got tired of every idiot skater hitting on her every episode. Bert Wooten is her boyfriend and I'm sure that was annoying as fuck for him as well.

I lost it when drunk skatetalk Bob talked about this..

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thread full of useless blocks of text.

can somebody post pics of the chicks ass finally or what?

[SHARPSHOOTER]

I'd alpha male jizz in every single member of the Yary clan.

[brycickle]

Try not to suck any dicks on the way out to the parking lot!

[Fenzadill]

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Try not to suck any dicks on the way out to the parking lot!

HEY WHERE YOU GOIN'??