I’m not one to post personal things..but I feel like I hit a breaking point and need to talk to someone, or just people in general.
I’m 33 years old. I live alone and have a full time job. I have a few friends that I’ve known for a long time, but I don’t see them nearly as much as I used to. I haven’t had a relationship in a long time, and not for a lack of trying either. I have a hard time making new friends. I have zero motivation to do anything anymore, and yes that includes skateboarding..something I once loved and had a passion for. I don’t sleep well anymore. I’ve been drinking and smoking weed a lot. I see a lot of my peers hitting these very meaningful life milestones, such as weddings, having kids etc..and I can’t even get a date. Even when I try to work on improving my life, nothing ever seems to change or go my way. I don’t look forward to the future nearly as much as I once did, and I constantly wish I was someone else instead of me. I’m sorry for this rant, I know it sounds super pathetic but I’ve been holding this in for a long time. I’ve been to therapy before and I’m on medication, but I just don’t think any of that stuff is working well for me. When I was younger I never thought I would ever experience depression, or start having suicidal thoughts, but man was I wrong. I just feel super alone in all of this.