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Skateboarding works great until you get hurt. Then things get real dark real quick.
this.
and don't listen to the stigma about medication that everyone is throwing around. its very necessary for a lot of us.
^this^
I've seen medications destroy people I knew (my mom on zoloft) and watched those same medications radically improve the lives of others.
My girlfriend saw a therapist for years but wouldn't ever start meds because of this absurd notion of it zombifying or changing who she is. Starting Wellbutrin, and later adding Zoloft to that mix, based on giving the drugs their proper adjustment period and continuing to work with her therapist as well as report the efficacy/effects of the medicines has radically improved her everyday life.
Moral of the story? For the vast majority of people, mental health issues don't solve themselves. Period. Taking your mind of off it can help in the moment, but if you care at all about the long term, find a mental health professional (not a general practitioner) you trust (no matter how many you have try). Work with them, explain your worry with drugs if they even suggest them (which they may not), but be willing to try what they suggest when you've built appropriate trust. If you start them, let people in your life know that you're starting them so they can keep an out for changes in your behavior (be it positive or negative). If some don't work, don't be afraid to try others.
So many people don't understand drugs and have seen too many movie depictions. I dealt with serious depression for like 15 years (with fairly serious suicidal tendencies, especially towards the end), and eventually came out of it. But that's 15 years of my life I basically lost because I was too tired, scared, and frozen to get help. And I have no solid answer for why the sky cleared, and would never suggest anyone wait it out and hope it gets better.
You know why so many anti depressants list suicidal behavior as a side effect? It's because they can restore energy, and many people who are suicidal don't act on it because their depression keeps the too tired and down to make the effort. Now imagine not being actively suicidal and being reminded what energy and motivation are like.
I'm not trying to push drugs on anyone, but the idea that all doctors (mental health professionals especially) are out to just feed you drugs and make a buck or that all pharmaceuticals are just for profit is stupid and dangerous. The pharmaceutical industry sucks, and there are tons of shitty doctors, but it isn't difficult to find good ones who literally just want to help and do right by their patients. You don't even know if a therapist will actually want to try and put you on something if you don't seek help from one.