Whenever I say "Be critical, i don't care if you don't like TNC, or anything else but why do you have to stoop into abuse", SLAP Pals and friends tell me "that's just how people are on here". Yet if I say it, it's "that's not true, just another toxic positive person attacking slap for ever saying anything criticial about something they like". That's either cognitive dissonance or "hey, only people who like it can hate it". Which is it?