I’d just stick where you are at, equipment wise. You’ve got decent stuff, it’s approximately the ‘right’ size: it’s not your setup. Debating the subtle nuances of different equipment combinations is far from a hard science, there aren’t any established parameters with sizes, ratios, body measurements....it’s just a bunch of us throwing out ideas, and neurotic sounding ramblings.
14” wb is less stable than 14.25”, but you’ll adjust. Indys are less stable than ventures, but again, you’ll adjust. If you’ve had a big layoff from skating, just skate, skate for distance, fun, just get out there. Buying new shit ain’t it.
-sincerely, a person who has tons of equipment and isn’t any closer to finding the right combo.