This got strange, real fast.
Lastly, most people I meet who aren't into guns, who are in fact, anti-gun, shift their position once they've been able to shoot a few times and learn some fundamentals.
The gun debate is always interesting to me.
I grew up in a very pro gun state but I lean anti-gun. My closest friend takes his gun everywhere. I don't feel any safer or less safe with him. He is smart, practices shooting each weekend, and takes gun ownership very seriously. But, the average person carrying a gun near me makes me uncomfortable.
One thing that cemented this belief was a trip to the gun range with two responsible friends. Despite my friends being responsible and nothing going wrong two things made me uncomfortable:
1) Most of the other people at the range struck me as complete idiots and akin to the people who shop at Zumiez and call themselves "skaters." My
belief is that most people who own guns are like most people who own skateboards, complete dipshits who have no idea how use their property correctly.
2) It was scary to know I had the power to severely injure myself or my friends. This fear was compounded when my friend had me shoot his handgun... compared to the AR-15 or AK-47 the handgun felt difficult to control and I felt like I was going to drop that tiny piece of shit and accidentally kill us all. My friend invites me back all the time, I have no interest in going.
As for the threats of violence, robbery, etc., there are other ways to prevent/defend from these incidents. Guns are not the only option. There are lots of ways of defending our selves and I have no problem simply fleeing from a situation and I don't think I need to "stand up for myself and be a man" in these situations. Nor is someone stealing my wallet or PS2 a valid reason for me to kill them.
As for the belief many gun owners have that they are going to be the hero if something happens, I have little faith most gun owners would be able to react quickly and efficiently enough to handle a dangerous situation properly. It seems far more likely most would just make the situation more volatile.
Moreover, I do know less guns = less successful suicide attempts (no other method has the same success rate) and less domestic violence murders.
I don't think I'm for an all out ban, but I'm not for people being able to walk into Walmart on the way home and picking up a six pack of handguns.
Finally, one of dudes who skated my local park not only is super racist and far-right stupid, he recently accidentally shot himself... anecdotal for sure, but (anecdotal or not) his incident cemented my belief most people are too stupid to own a gun, especially the far right kooks who have fever dreams about the good ol' days and proclaim Obama was born in Kenya.