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eh, its whatever...be a whore get a sore 
Listen up, fives. A ten is speaking:
I'm tired of the speculation and I'm tired of keeping my mouth shut. I'm also tired of the slut shaming misogynist bullshit some of you dudes are on, trying so damn hard to look so fucking cool.
Guess what?
That women is not lying.
Guess what else?
She's not a whore and this is not a joke.
I'm not lying either. You want some more facts posted up in here, sure, why not? We're all watching anyway, so here it goes.
Ask me how many pros I've fucked. Do you really think that hurts me?
Do you ask Yonnie how many women he's infected?
Do you ask your boys how many times they've fucked women?
I can fuck who I want, when I want, as long as it is consensual and INFORMED. That little turd LIED TO MY FACE when I asked him point blank if he had any STDs. Then he had the nerve to gaslight me and make me feel crazy. The tired, old, "crazy woman" trope is thrown around so much it hurts. What the hell do I have to gain by posting here and on IG? Nothing. I am angry. I am angry for myself, I am angry for the woman who has to defend herself because well, you never know, she could be lying. I am angry for my mother and all the mothers and victims...and on...and on...For centuries.
You know what? It's about RESPECT. It's about ACCOUNTABILITY. And it's about having some MORAL FORTITUDE. I don't want money; I don't care what a bunch of strangers on the internet think of me, and if Yonnie and I compared bank accounts, I damn well know I'd be the one giving him $$$, not the other way around.
Oh, and one more time for the scumbags in the back who still don't get it:
Women, yes, women, can fuck whoever we want and that doesn't make us sluts or whores.
**AS LONG AS WE ARE GIVEN THE WHOLE STORY IN ORDER TO MAKE CONSENSUAL AND INFORMED DECISION**
Maybe if dude had shown remorse and not repeated this pattern of behavior over and over and OVER AGAIN for YEARS, things would be very different. He's just one of millions, though.
Y'all can debate on here all night until the cows come home what shoulda coulda woulda and what should happen to him, but at the end of the day you're all just bystanders. It's up to this ball-less industry to take a stand or the people to not support it. And this is true for every aspect of society, because skaters are not the only scumbags out there. So, instead of wondering if Yonnie is in his hotel room freaking out about being canceled (I am sure he is) why not ask yourselves, what can I do to be part of the solution, and not the problem here? Financially supporting a company or industry you know is full of shit is being part of the problem. It's what you're morally comfortable with, and that is what angers me the most. Society on the whole is complacent, but nothing is going to change unless individuals change.
Yonnie, if you see this - fortitude means "strength" - please get some goddamn help and Valtrex and learn to say you're sorry. Also, fuck you.
I’m sorry, why are we 5’s and you a 10?
This guy sounds like a moron and possibly a little psychopathic, but who has unprotected sex?
It’s not shaming women, I have a buddy who preferred not to use a condom, and he got a nasty lil case of herpes. He had lots of issues with it and his nickname became “sore.” When he complained about us calling him that we offered to change it to “person,” but he wasn’t down with that either. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
So as far as accountability is concerned, where is yours? You made a decision to have unprotected sex with someone you couldn’t verify(through testing and monogamy) was free of std’s. You made that decision. How is the any different from taking steps to prevent coronavirus infection?
This doesn’t have to be a men vs women thing. Any person who knowingly has an sti and doesn’t do anything to to stop it’s transmission is a piece of shit. Any person who knows the risks of unprotected sex and proceeds anyway is playing Russian roulette
That is almost the stupidest response to anything I’ve read on Slap, and that’s saying a lot. This is compounded by the fact that your username is “Telly”.
It’s not saying much at all. It’s called logic, and I know it’s in short supply here on slap, but you can find it.
I have been told that about my username before and honestly I don’t know what that means. The only reference I know to “Telly” would be British slang for tele vision, which I’m guessing doesn’t offend you. It’s been my nickname going on since I was 7, about 35 years now, the origins of which have been lost to time
Hey there,
Telly. Let's all pause for a moment to relish in the irony of your username.
I wasn't going to post here again, but you are pretty smug and judgmental for someone who just called himself a 2-chump pump, so let me give you a woman's perspective, since we seem to need to unpack this even further.
Please try to check your self righteousness at the door and actually reflect. I'm sure you get laid all the time and clearly are an expert on all of this, but your argument and perspective are flawed.
1. Not that this is ANYONE's goddamn business, but we did use a condom, bonehead. Are you interested in how many times we fucked too? And where? What positions?
2. As you yourself stated, condoms are not 100% effective. Neither is the COVID vaccine. I am fully vaccinated, so are you going to smugly judge me if I still somehow wind up with COVID? Come on now.
Please just STFU because the condom argument is irrelevant and taking away from the true issues here. We all know the value of condoms, but thank you for educating us even more. And how dare you judge anyone, really.
3.
It seems like you are mansplaining. A lot. A lot a lot. You don't know me, you don't know any of the other women and I damn well know you don't know Yonnie, so really, please, shut the fuck up and sit down unless you have something constructive and positive to add to this conversation, which is about RESPECT, ACCOUNTABILITY and MORAL FORTITUDE. No one really cares if you bone with a condom or not, because you're not relevant here.
4.
Stop blaming the victims. Just stop. Getting on your Trojan horse (pun intended) is taking away from the real issues. This is about what Yonnie did before and after we fucked, and way more importantly,
how he has treated many other women over a period of years, resulting in a lot of trauma. This is also about an industry that is notorious for supporting and shielding this type of irresponsible, selfish and destructive behavior that is so prevalent among the man-children it elevates in order to make a buck. But let's also ask ourselves why an entire industry, and society, continues to think this is all acceptable okay to stay silent in 2021. THIS is why I spoke up. Why is this okay? Why does it continue to be okay? Why are women repeated abused, paid less, blamed, ridiculed, etc. in a way that never happens to men, when often times we shoulder much of the burdens in the home and elsewhere? Just look at the statistics on how women have disproportionately been affected by the pandemic. It's not only about sex. Women are not heard, and often times when we do speak up we are called "crazy" and brushed off.
5.
Let's also normalize what it is like to have an STI. STD is actually an outdated shitty term, and I shouldn't have used it but I'm a stickler for consistency. IF Yonnie had been honest I'm sure things could have been worked out between me and him. IF he had shown some remorse to the other women and actually sincerely tried to change then maybe things would be very different. Having HSV is not a life or death thing, and something like 20%-25% of the population has it. The way you keep going on and on and on and comparing it to things like seat belts and COVID is further stigmatizing it and making the situation regress. It's not helpful.
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