Threads don't ruin careers, people do that to themselves. Discussing facts is harmless, being a shitty person isn't.
Also
@Telly to be clear: YOU have made this out to be a Men V. Women issue - which is a projection of whatever way this topic triggers you. Only you have used or implied that term. Not only is it a red herring, but it's a very telling note that this gets you heated. Talk about that with your therapist, not with survivors.
This is a Rapists & Abusers V. Their Own Terrible Decisions issue, and it will ALWAYS be that until everybody who chimes in to try and write a new entry into the Encyclopedia Of How Survivors Should Handle Their Trauma finally decides
hmm, maybe this is NOT my place...Second, your argument about consent is horse-shit, and here's why. In your argument: you've concluded that if you make a decision that involves someone lying to you, then the consequence of that lie is your fault.
So let's use that argument for a different scenario: you get a prescription for your (grandma / grandfather / mother / father) at the pharmacy - deciding that it is a pharmacy you can trust - only to get home and realize that they lied and gave you the wrong pills. Let's say your (insert elder here) dies because of that false prescription. Oh well! It's your fault. YOU chose to get those pills!
Fucking loser. Consent is MEANINGLESS without trust. And if someone's a liar, well, they can't be trusted. So the fault is on THEM. And you know that. You should be ashamed of yourself. And I mean that.
It's just too convenient to blame a woman. It always is.
No matter how many times this shit gets squashed on here some other fucker pops up and is even worse than the last. And then the rest of you who were kooks last time around have some witty shit to say about "man, fuck dudes like this we should have them all licked". Shut the fuck up, your whole ass is showing out your mouth.
Thank you
@inkandimages for coming here and speaking factually and not giving a fuck. You have given me much life and much joy.
Okay I'm gonna go pet my cat and listen to some angry death shit music and be a bitch in peace. I'm not wise I'm just sad. Slut army forever.