So to recap
OP was being a bit of a gullible rube and lost 600 bucks to a scam probably not orchestrated by Joey but was spread via his ig, and we now know it was definitely him and he wasn't hacked.
It's hard to say for certain but it seems Joey and OP were possibly both scammed/used in the situation. Joey's vid promoting said scam did nothing to absolve him though and frankly to me was goofy enough to bring his general intelligence into question (as well as the OP's, sorry mate).
Ladies on dating sites may or may not be actual ladies but either way they're probably trying to screw you and not in the good way.