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« on: January 26, 2023, 07:59:30 AM »
FIgured out of all the shit on SLAP i should start a thread about this


I just got into a relationship in October - before that the last 2-3 years i was casually dating where each month id been with a new partner twice on average.

I just got into my first fully committed relationship in a few years and we're sexually active. Only thing is in the last month I've been having problems staying hard and finishing too fast.

I googled ED but soo much shit for medication came up that it was hard to find stuff but Reddit had some different experiences.

The first thing is that I've dealt with anxiety so that a major cause. I smoke a lot of weed with tobacco and I want to cut out tobacco.

 It's been a few days and I've noticed a major difference as I smoke less weed and no tobacco. 

Other things I'm trying are kegel exercises, yoga, zinc, etc - Does anyone else have any tips on getting their mojo back successfully?

Thanks PALS
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #1 on: January 26, 2023, 09:03:46 AM »
FIgured out of all the shit on SLAP i should start a thread about this


I just got into a relationship in October - before that the last 2-3 ive been casually dating. in the last few years, each month id been with a new partner twice on average.

I just got into my first fully committed relationship in a few years and we're sexually active. Only thing is in the last month I've been having problems staying hard and finishing too fast.

I googled ED but soo much shit for medication came up that it was hard to find stuff but Reddit had some different experiences.

The first thing is that I've dealt with anxiety so that a major cause. I smoke a lot of weed with tobacco and I want to cut out tobacco.

 It's been a few days and I've noticed a major difference as I smoke less weed and no tobacco. 

Other things I'm trying are kegel exercises, yoga, zinc, etc - Does anyone else have any tips on getting their mojo back successfully?

Thanks PALS

When I am regularly doing cardio, like running or cycling, I have a way easier time getting a full erection.

Do you think your issue is health related or anxiety related?

At one time I had 'performance anxiety' so bad that I got a prescription for Viagra. The first time I took it I was painfully hard for 8 hours straight. That was literally the first night I slept with my now wife though so it worked out fine
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #2 on: January 26, 2023, 09:12:39 AM »
I am in my first committed relationship too and instead of having sex once a month with a random hook up it’s now more steady which would be awesome but my body and mind got used to random hookups with new women who I would never meet again. I smoke a lot of weed and have tons of anxiety so there’s been times when I can’t get hard. I love my gf but getting to know someone that well takes away some mystery and not every time she’s in the mood am I as well. One thing I’ve done is take breaks from masturbating and trying not to be super high when we’re about to do it. Idk if you use shrooms but a little microdose before the deed helps me. It’s like natural viagra. I want to just bone a ton on it. It helped me have sex after a few weeks of having trouble. It’s also mental too. Men have this unspoken pressure to alway be ready. Sometimes I don’t want sex because I’m tired from skating and I’m a little sad because of general depression. My sexual experiences before my gf were almost like drug benders. I went looking for a nut and that was my only goal. I wanted to increase my numbers and have more partners than my age. It led to a bad association with sex where I’d do it to feel that high during and that low that came after. Being in a healthy relationship has made sex into something different and my body and mind are still working on that transition. Many days I just want to go on tinder and boost and boost til a random girl is down. But I know that isn’t healthy for me.

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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #3 on: January 26, 2023, 09:15:57 AM »
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FIgured out of all the shit on SLAP i should start a thread about this


I just got into a relationship in October - before that the last 2-3 ive been casually dating. in the last few years, each month id been with a new partner twice on average.

I just got into my first fully committed relationship in a few years and we're sexually active. Only thing is in the last month I've been having problems staying hard and finishing too fast.

I googled ED but soo much shit for medication came up that it was hard to find stuff but Reddit had some different experiences.

The first thing is that I've dealt with anxiety so that a major cause. I smoke a lot of weed with tobacco and I want to cut out tobacco.

 It's been a few days and I've noticed a major difference as I smoke less weed and no tobacco. 

Other things I'm trying are kegel exercises, yoga, zinc, etc - Does anyone else have any tips on getting their mojo back successfully?

Thanks PALS
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When I am regularly doing cardio, like running or cycling, I have a way easier time getting a full erection.

Do you think your issue is health related or anxiety related?

At one time I had 'performance anxiety' so bad that I got a prescription for Viagra. The first time I took it I was painfully hard for 8 hours straight. That was literally the first night I slept with my now wife though so it worked out fine


THanks for the reply!

man im not sure. i just got my insurance stuff figured out and will be seeing a doc  (therapist and urologist) i did get some cialis online to help too.

Mostly i do wanna change my relationship with weed so this is a good excuse to cut out tobacco, i wanna start to just eat weed in the next coming weeks
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #4 on: January 26, 2023, 09:21:24 AM »
I am in my first committed relationship too and instead of having sex once a month with a random hook up it’s now more steady which would be awesome but my body and mind got used to random hookups with new women who I would never meet again. I smoke a lot of weed and have tons of anxiety so there’s been times when I can’t get hard. I love my gf but getting to know someone that well takes away some mystery and not every time she’s in the mood am I as well. One thing I’ve done is take breaks from masturbating and trying not to be super high when we’re about to do it. Idk if you use shrooms but a little microdose before the deed helps me. It’s like natural viagra. I want to just bone a ton on it. It helped me have sex after a few weeks of having trouble. It’s also mental too. Men have this unspoken pressure to alway be ready. Sometimes I don’t want sex because I’m tired from skating and I’m a little sad because of general depression. My sexual experiences before my gf were almost like drug benders. I went looking for a nut and that was my only goal. I wanted to increase my numbers and have more partners than my age. It led to a bad association with sex where I’d do it to feel that high during and that low that came after. Being in a healthy relationship has made sex into something different and my body and mind are still working on that transition. Many days I just want to go on tinder and boost and boost til a random girl is down. But I know that isn’t healthy for me.

man i can relate to somethings you wrote. my gf and I do wanna microdose so i wanna try that with her soon. overall i wanna make some lifestyle changes that'll help with anxiety and sex. thanks!
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #5 on: January 26, 2023, 09:54:14 AM »
Weed in small-medium doses can get you in the mood or lower inhibitions, but if you're smoking heavy all day every day then try cutting back a little. I know that if I go past a certain point my libido basically dies and I become pretty asexual. There's also strains that make me horny as fuck.. PPD, Blueberry muffin, and golden goat have all been known to turn me into a monster until I unclog the pipes but it's most pronounced with blueberry muffin.

You didn't mention how old you are but if you're in your late 30s or 40s then maybe look into TRT or some other type of hormone regulation. If that's the case it's totally normal and something I've considered myself just for the energy and recovery boost.


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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #6 on: January 26, 2023, 10:04:15 AM »
Sound like straight up anxiety. I used to finish faster when I wasn't in the mood or not all there mentally. My other problem was that I was not actually acknowledging my sexual needs as I was developing strong feelings towards kinks and fetishes so regular sex wasn't my thing for a while. The best thing in general would to just work on things that settle your nervous system and obviously have good communication with your partner about your concerns.

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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #7 on: January 26, 2023, 10:33:17 AM »
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #8 on: January 26, 2023, 11:11:38 AM »
Abstaining from masturbation was a huge help for me. Growing up in a time where you can access porn with 0 effort has definitely spoiled a lot of us to the point of real life sex just being kinda meh.

Also recommend changing up your diet if you’re not eating great. Eat ya seafood, grains, and greens. Oats and Salmon aren’t magic boner foods but I think they’ve  helped me stay hard during sex when my anxiety started to creep in. Blood flow is key. Could be placebo but it works for me.

And you just gotta find your strains I think, do you smoke sativa when you get anxious
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #9 on: January 26, 2023, 01:09:34 PM »
Abstaining from masturbation was a huge help for me. Growing up in a time where you can access porn with 0 effort has definitely spoiled a lot of us to the point of real life sex just being kinda meh.

Also recommend changing up your diet if you’re not eating great. Eat ya seafood, grains, and greens. Oats and Salmon aren’t magic boner foods but I think they’ve  helped me stay hard during sex when my anxiety started to creep in. Blood flow is key. Could be placebo but it works for me.

And you just gotta find your strains I think, do you smoke sativa when you get anxious

yeah man I've tried to have more zinc and things like that. i skate 2-3x a week and hit the gym 3-4x a week so as far as being active i think im good. I dont have the best diet but i do have smoothies daily, lots of nuts and dried berries on the go. I do a lot of granola bars.

thanks for all the posts fellas. shit is super embarrassing to discuss.
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #10 on: January 26, 2023, 01:18:51 PM »
exercise will help. boner problems are circulation problems so being inert is bad but also, lifting will increase testosterone which raises libido. like others have said, don't spill seed unnecessarily or you might not have any when you need it. accessory exercises like bench press or curls won't do much to boost your man chemicals, you want to deadlift heavy weights. or if that's too dangerous, squatting 1.5 your weight will give you a boner.
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #11 on: January 26, 2023, 01:30:07 PM »
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #12 on: January 26, 2023, 01:35:49 PM »
Sound like straight up anxiety. I used to finish faster when I wasn't in the mood or not all there mentally. My other problem was that I was not actually acknowledging my sexual needs as I was developing strong feelings towards kinks and fetishes so regular sex wasn't my thing for a while. The best thing in general would to just work on things that settle your nervous system and obviously have good communication with your partner about your concerns.

yes, man. think it is anxiety - why i wanna try to avoid weed for a bit and see how it goes

ive also has issues with gaining weight so i deleted tobacco out the weed intake for now.
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #13 on: January 26, 2023, 01:39:37 PM »
seriously thanks for everyone's reply and input - even the PM! thanks PALS haha
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #14 on: January 26, 2023, 01:40:04 PM »
Man it's not embarrassing at all, everyone has these kinda issues here and there. If you go to a doctor to talk about it they won't even bat an eyelid, even if you're a young guy.

Also someone mentioned masturbation and porn a few replies up and I just wanted to say that regularly watching porn while trying to have a serious relationship is a recipe for disaster. Your brain gets used to seeing all these different girls doing crazy shit in porn and then when it comes to your gf who probably isn't as sexy as a pornstar your dick is like underwhelmed. And I don't mean to say 'not as sexy as a pornstar'to be disrespectful in any way, it's just not how sex actually is in real life. It's hard to keep sex in a long term relationship interesting even without your brain getting jacked up on porn.
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #15 on: January 26, 2023, 05:03:44 PM »
definitely been there. sometimes nerves, sometimes anxiety from previously mentioned nerves that began spiraling, sometimes alcohol, sometimes drugs.

when it was just nerves, a few drinks always did the trick. when it became full on anxiety from having it happen too much, i took blue chew or hims. when it was alcohol or drugs, i also took the blue chew or hims.

its easy to say "dont get in your head" so i wont do that. if you can still get hard jacking off, then its in your head. try a couple drinks, or try the mail order stuff. i honestly think using the mail order stuff got my anxiety/confidence out of the way after one or two uses (you will understand why when you try it). id usually end up having a stash and beating off at 3am with those things because i didnt necessarily need them anymore with the ladies.

good luck! ive definitely been there, and most of us have as well. time to go see if my account is still active on bluechew and Hims. lol. been a while since ive seen my dick impress me like that.

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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #16 on: January 26, 2023, 05:52:08 PM »
Pretty much everything I was going to post has been mentioned at least briefly, but I'll go through everything.

It basically comes down anxiety, poor health/low T, Porn induced ED.

Eat healthy and get good sleep.  Lots of greens, good protein, fiber, i take a small zinc supplement before bed.
Lift weights and exercise, increases testosterone and helps with heart health.  Be mindful that alcohol is likely wrecking your sleep and energy levels if you are drinking alot.  Also, SSRI antidepressants are a nightmare for ED as well.

And lastly, it sucks this gets associated with kooky shit like no fap, but porn can really do a number on your brain.  Stop watching, and stop wanking just because you are bored.  Wait until you are truly horny to let your seed out.

I would suggest trying this stuff before instantly going to medication.  It sucks being dependent on medication and it enables your shitty habits.  A pet peeve of mine is people who drink caffeine all day and stare at their phone for an hour in bed, saying they need Ambien to sleep.  It also really helps to have an understanding partner for issues like this, it's pretty common for women to blame their appearance as the cause of this issue when it is almost certainly something else/a combination of things.

edit: I'm glad someone made a thread on this though.  I gave up porn like two and a half weeks ago and it's not really something I can go around talking about. 

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« Reply #17 on: January 26, 2023, 08:40:56 PM »
I agree with prior posts.

Definitely get your hormones checked and if necessary, see an endocrinologist is all I have to add.
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« Reply #18 on: January 26, 2023, 08:45:17 PM »
I gave up porn like two and a half weeks ago and it's not really something I can go around talking about.

Good luck dude. Most people don't realize they are addicted to porn until they try to jerk off without it.

I haven't watched hardcore porn in probably about 5 years, but I still struggle with keeping myself away from various solo porn and other soft stuff. I'll go like a month without it, then do the old 'one little look won't hurt' and before i know it I'll be down in the hole again. I got some website blocker apps installed on my phone and laptop now which help a lot.

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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #19 on: January 26, 2023, 08:49:03 PM »
Pretty much everything I was going to post has been mentioned at least briefly, but I'll go through everything.

It basically comes down anxiety, poor health/low T, Porn induced ED.

Eat healthy and get good sleep.  Lots of greens, good protein, fiber, i take a small zinc supplement before bed.
Lift weights and exercise, increases testosterone and helps with heart health.  Be mindful that alcohol is likely wrecking your sleep and energy levels if you are drinking alot.  Also, SSRI antidepressants are a nightmare for ED as well.

And lastly, it sucks this gets associated with kooky shit like no fap, but porn can really do a number on your brain.  Stop watching, and stop wanking just because you are bored.  Wait until you are truly horny to let your seed out.

I would suggest trying this stuff before instantly going to medication.  It sucks being dependent on medication and it enables your shitty habits.  A pet peeve of mine is people who drink caffeine all day and stare at their phone for an hour in bed, saying they need Ambien to sleep.  It also really helps to have an understanding partner for issues like this, it's pretty common for women to blame their appearance as the cause of this issue when it is almost certainly something else/a combination of things.

edit: I'm glad someone made a thread on this though.  I gave up porn like two and a half weeks ago and it's not really something I can go around talking about.

hey thanks ! its soo true about habits - thats why im giving up tobacco and cutting way down on herb.


thankfully communication is really open between my partner and i  - so its really amazing knowing that i have her on my side

my health insurance fully kicks in on the 1st of next month and the first thing after a general check up will be therapy for my anxiety.

thanks so much everyone
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #20 on: January 26, 2023, 08:51:27 PM »
Weed in small-medium doses can get you in the mood or lower inhibitions, but if you're smoking heavy all day every day then try cutting back a little. I know that if I go past a certain point my libido basically dies and I become pretty asexual. There's also strains that make me horny as fuck.. PPD, Blueberry muffin, and golden goat have all been known to turn me into a monster until I unclog the pipes but it's most pronounced with blueberry muffin.

You didn't mention how old you are but if you're in your late 30s or 40s then maybe look into TRT or some other type of hormone regulation. If that's the case it's totally normal and something I've considered myself just for the energy and recovery boost.

hey man! i should mention im 36 years old and will be 37 in september.

seriously thanks for all the suggestions
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #21 on: January 26, 2023, 10:47:44 PM »
I was around that age when I first ran into issues during a long term relationship. It was all anxiety issues. Once you figure it all out it will get better. If you live in the US pills are ridiculously overpriced. This website works for cheap but you have to send a money order through the mail and wait. Seems kinda sketch but I can tell you from experience it works.

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« Reply #22 on: January 27, 2023, 07:12:06 AM »
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« Reply #23 on: January 27, 2023, 07:35:53 AM »
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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #24 on: January 27, 2023, 07:40:00 AM »
Sorry for a psychological analysis you guys didn‘t ask for: I think most of you guy‘s problem is that your ego is all tangled up in this. you‘re OK fucking for the ego fix, but get freaked out when it is about pleasure or connection. I am guessing it is an emotional rather than a physical thing. Maybe talk to your partner a work through it with them? Women sometimes have it too so it‘s not like they won’t be able to relate to you.

For me, weirdly enough, I feel uneasy and have had problems performing with random hookups, but have had no problems in relationships. I have been in long term relationships with short breaks for more than ten years, though. If I suddenly had to date again that would make me very nervous for shure.

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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #25 on: January 27, 2023, 03:53:08 PM »
I remember seeing this on JRE once. Apparently it works very well, and you don't even have to have boner issues to to do it. You can just do it for upkeeping. It's like shockwave therapy that breaks up plaque in your veins and allows for more blood flow.

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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #26 on: January 28, 2023, 01:31:25 AM »
alright for the people who went the pill route -  what dosage did you start with?

That website I posted sells Tadalafil at the maximum dosage of 20mg. DO NOT take more than 20mg, that is the maximum dose. Taking more only causes the negative side effects. I recommend biting 20mg pills in half. People don’t generally need more than 10mg. Even 5mg is effective.



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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #27 on: January 28, 2023, 05:14:10 AM »
I was reading this thread before bed last night and ended up having a dream where I was picking up little diamond shaped Viagra pills.


That is your answer. Take Viagra.

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Re: Boner problems
« Reply #28 on: January 28, 2023, 06:49:52 AM »
Sorry for a psychological analysis you guys didn‘t ask for: I think most of you guy‘s problem is that your ego is all tangled up in this. you‘re OK fucking for the ego fix, but get freaked out when it is about pleasure or connection. I am guessing it is an emotional rather than a physical thing. Maybe talk to your partner a work through it with them? Women sometimes have it too so it‘s not like they won’t be able to relate to you.

For me, weirdly enough, I feel uneasy and have had problems performing with random hookups, but have had no problems in relationships. I have been in long term relationships with short breaks for more than ten years, though. If I suddenly had to date again that would make me very nervous for shure.

Couldn't agree more to this. Doesn't Sound like a boner problem but more so like a mental barrier. Talking about your pleasures with a partner can be weird at first but is super relieving and helps keeping a hard-on for sure. Good luck mate

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« Reply #29 on: January 28, 2023, 06:53:27 AM »
in raging bull, jake lamotta said he couldn't get it up w/ high end girls. like he'd run through a bunch of local sluts, his boner was functioning. then he got some fame and fancier blond girls or whatever showed an interest but he couldn't deal w/ it.
i'm not sure what is to be learned from that but apparently boxing won't help you.