I finally relearned them, posted one in the Post You Skating thread.
Here's a recap of what helped and didn't help (for me):
What didn't help:
- I relearned them on a curb, didn't have to try them on a higher curb/ledge
- I didn't have to get my back 50s down, or learn back 5-0s either. That's just me
- I didn't have to adjust the angle I approached them at too much
What did help:
- Warming up with fast b/s 180s on flat
- Warming up with b/s slappies
- I kept my arms out and worked on keeping them in the standard position for back tails
- Consciously remembered to go totally blind before I ollie onto the curb, turning my head
- The key (for me): I took Ben Degros' advice and approached a barely waxed curb slowly, and practiced ollieing into a back tail stall first. This really helped. I was able to figure out the angle, going blind, and I took my time in getting comfortable ollieing and stalling first. Highly recommend taking this baby step
- After doing stalls for a few days, I waxed up the curb and slowly started to approach it a bit faster. Took my time, got comfortable with sliding backwards a centimetre at a time
- EDIT - one more thing, like
@silhouette was saying in another thread, I had to want it 100%. And I did - I eventually fully accepted the fact that I could possibly slam and prepared myself mentally. And
@layzieyez sharing insight into the art of Bushido helped me situate myself in the right mindset to focus on success and not dwell on failure
Hope this helped a bit for anyone learning them.