I don't vote because
-all politicians are selfish and never care about anyone
-they don't deliver anything
-the build-a-bear group is running things behind a curtain so it doesn't matter who we vote for.
-things would be better if did it differently (not going to say how) and stopped trying to change things through democracy
The idea all politicians are selfish and don't care is absurd. Some are certainly crooks who just want power and attention (Trump and co is the easiest example as the Trump family is going to sell off America to anyone who puts money in their pocket), but there are better and more profitable routes for many of these people. Jared Polis, is a super nepo-baby and was born worth hundreds of millions, he has done a lot of good and I generally like him, but being gov of Colorado is possibly a step down from what he could have done with wealth/power he was born into. The rotating door for the powerful between gov and private business is a problem, but Americans love to think "business people can run the country better" and being a CEO of a Fortune 1000 company probably pays better and offers more power than being gov of most states.
And, yea there are kooks like Mikey Taylor, but a lot of local politicians just want what is best for their community. Few people are getting rich wasting their evenings at city council meetings voting on which pothole to fix.
Yes, democracies that are cynical individualist societies deliver much more slowly than authoritarian communities (China) or strong communal communities that trust the gov to do the right thing (Scandinavia). We have all sorts of individual rights that we exercise to slow down the building of high speed rail and we have regulations that protect individuals that can slow things down as well. A lot to fix here, but your cynicism is part of the problem. And, it takes time for some of the stuff to come online. For example, Biden's admin is investing a ton into America and the money/building is just getting out the door.
The build-a-bear group or illuminutty is not conspiring against you. You live in a capitalist society. We have two votes, one with our actual vote and one with our money. Some people have more votes than you, a lot more. Either start fighting for election finance reform or try to increase your speech through community/group action. special interest groups have power, for example Mothers Against Drunk driving made a huge impact on the country. Individuals with 1 vote and no money aren't super powerful in a democratic capitlst society. BUT that being said, it isn't like we have no power. I've had meetings with the city multiple times to discuss local skateparks. All it took was an email or showing up to a city council meeting. Local influence isn't impossible.
Also, businesses shape a great deal of the world. They have power and will as long as they own the means of production. This is a huge bargaining chip, so of course politicians will listen to the CEOs. In 2011, if we compared Walmart's revenue to the GDP of countries, it would have been in the top 30.
The democratic capitalist system has lots of flaws. They are all well known and have been said much better elsewhere. But there are things that can be done to alleviate these issues and I'd prefer this system over living under a King/Queen, a dictator, or a full free market where the most powerful business completely runs the show. It can be better and it is better in other places, but I think the problem isn't necessarily that the system isn't responsive, it is that most of us don't do shit. We complain but don't go to city council meetings. We complain but don't do shit to improve things around us. We complain but don't take advantages of our system to get it to do what we want. We complain don't even do the bare minimum to vote.
Opting out and saying, "It's all corrupt" is a bad idea. This will lead to learning what real corruption looks like. I've spent plenty of time in the former-Soviet Union, the corruption in these capitalist dictator states is something most Americans can't imagine. Criticize the government, get beaten and thrown in prison. Get into a car accident with someone powerful, automatically your fault, no matter what. Study hard? Why bother when admission, grades, and degrees can be bought. Shit is hard in America, but we take a lot of power and freedoms for granted. And, being overly cynical will ensure that we lose more and more.