Girls are so damn confusing, been seeing this girl for a while, recently she said she kind of wanted to pump the breaks and take some pressure off but still wants to do everything weve been doing, not be with anyone else, go out, hang out etc yet we arent "together", makes no sense to me, some days shes super affectionate and normal, other days cold and distant, think its time to pull the plug on it, gets exhausting some days and i aint stoked on it