camp(not always gay) late 20 year old men are always the best hairdressers! Usually i cut my own hair but when i fuck it up i always go to the same dude.. its not as fun as having the occasional boob graze your shoulder as a middle aged cougar evens out your mop but at least you dont leave the shop looking like a lesbian jailbird, wich in my experience is every female hairdressers speciality when it comes to my head.
I feel you, and as un-PC as it may be, I'm gonna say it: gay men are the best at cutting men's hair. They know how a man wants to look, and they know what makes a man look fuckable.
I swear by my barber in the Castro. I live in Oakland now and drive over the bridge just to have him make my hair look good.