So, does who hits on who matter in terms of top and bottom? Like if I come on to you, is there the assumption I'm a top? What about who pays for dinner? Does the top do that, or the bottom?
As one of the very few straight men who know the joy of prostate stimulation, I almost feel like it should be the other way around.
Does it ever happen where two guys are all set to hook up, they get back to the place, and an argument ensues over who is what? Does it just devolve into blow jobs and a feeling of disappointment, or even worse, everybody just goes home and jerks off?
From my outsider understanding, I assume this:
AVE- top- more aggressive and has a louder personality- the kind who puts it out there
Kirchart- bottom- quieter, not as willing to accept anybody, takes whatever you give him and enjoys it.'