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best way to get over someone is to bang as many hoes but be honest.... eventually you'll find someone there's plenty of fish in the sea for everyone.
I was crushed after my first serious relationship dissolved and my situation got worse, all you need to do is go out there and crush some pussy and you'll be good.
Uh, you may not be familiar with me. I have no ability to bang hoes and/or crush pussy. I've never even kissed a girl. This is literally like saying, "Dude, I know you've never been with a woman, but if you go get with a bunch of women, you'll get over that first woman".
Trust me when I say that I am mass messaging a lot of women on PoF, Bumble, and Hinge. I haven't gotten very many takers, and the ones that do are unattractive and that's fine. Even with them they tend not to last more than one interchange of messages. So far nothing has worked out.
Look Chief I am in no way condoning bro type of crushing pussy. What I am saying is maybe you have unrealistic standards?
I don't know you and I have met many characters very similar if you haven't mentioned not kissing a girl then I assume you might have wonky standards. Or women in your area are stuck up bitches?, either way sometimes being the asshole does give ladies the feel goods. Validates their need for attention if not for that night, am I wrong? maybe...... however most of our first gals we liked when we were kids was taken by some asshole.
L33Tg33k, don't take this the wrong way... Do you have friends? I don't remember your whole story, sorry.
If you do, forget all that dating app stuff. Go out with some friends, have fun, and eventually girls will want to talk to you. Until you try to meet girls in person, I think it's very difficult to go in cold into dating apps. All the best girls I've met was when I was out acting foolishly with pals and girls wanted to know what kind of stupid shit we were up to and wanted to join. Seriously, try it.
If you don't have a crew of friends (doesn't need to be a lot, but if you go out in a group of 3 it's optimum) you should try to make friends first. We're lucky. We all have skateboarding. So anywhere you go on earth, you automatically have "friends" in a way. If there's nobody you want to be friends with in your hometown, try the next town over, or however far you need to travel. I really think it's a crucial first step when meeting girls.
Don't give up!