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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8970 on: November 29, 2019, 05:35:52 AM »
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i want to get my nose pierced - feels like some quarter life crisis shit but i dig it

tupac had his shit pierced, so does sweet lou

i dont fuckin know
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Do it, piercings can be removed much easier than tattoos
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Ahh shit, there's your answer right there.  Tupac?  Sweet "I name your daughters after the day of the week that I bang them on" Lou?  Come on man, fuck else you need to know, son?  That settles it.  You don't even HAVE a choice now. 

Besides, when the MID-life crisis hits and you're back here contemplating a "full body suspension", cause your newly acquired "Prince Albert" isn't quite "doing it" for ya, this will all seem like child's play anyway.
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And two years later you're filming quad amputee porn...
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still going on about that fucking amputee porn I see
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Got to do something on the train, bro...

What about full body cast porn?



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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8971 on: November 29, 2019, 08:43:44 AM »
What about full body cast porn?

Imagine that at the center of a 50 man gangbang?  ;)
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8972 on: November 29, 2019, 05:41:32 PM »
Porn bums me out way more than it makes me horny. In fact, I have to be horny in the first place to even want to look at porn and then the amount porn bums me out usually deters me from watching it all. Pretty sure that's why I have to watch extreme stuff.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8973 on: November 29, 2019, 09:02:05 PM »
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What about full body cast porn?
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Imagine that at the center of a 50 man gangbang?  ;)

How awkward would it be getting the cast removed or changed and the doctor or nurse finds massive amounts of cum lodged in?
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8974 on: December 01, 2019, 06:00:24 PM »
Porn bums me out way more than it makes me horny. In fact, I have to be horny in the first place to even want to look at porn and then the amount porn bums me out usually deters me from watching it all. Pretty sure that's why I have to watch extreme stuff.

Like mega ramp contests?
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8975 on: December 01, 2019, 07:59:10 PM »
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What about full body cast porn?
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Imagine that at the center of a 50 man gangbang?  ;)
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How awkward would it be getting the cast removed or changed and the doctor or nurse finds massive amounts of cum lodged in?

And the smell, oh lord.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8976 on: December 02, 2019, 04:51:03 PM »
Constantly selling and buying surfboards online & in person due to always being low on $$$. Only time got burned, from a girl . Felt the rails , all legit . Didn't check the middle, huge soft spot. Damn she ruthless & fooled me   

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8977 on: December 02, 2019, 11:17:25 PM »
Constantly selling and buying surfboards online & in person due to always being low on $$$. Only time got burned, from a girl . Felt the rails , all legit . Didn't check the middle, huge soft spot. Damn she ruthless & fooled me

Damn, that sucks. Leave some dog shit at her doorstep so it fucks up her day.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8978 on: December 04, 2019, 02:24:01 PM »
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Porn bums me out way more than it makes me horny. In fact, I have to be horny in the first place to even want to look at porn and then the amount porn bums me out usually deters me from watching it all. Pretty sure that's why I have to watch extreme stuff.
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Like mega ramp contests?

This helps in a pinch

https://youtu.be/rgWBm5ud20Y
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8979 on: December 06, 2019, 12:25:50 AM »
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Porn bums me out way more than it makes me horny. In fact, I have to be horny in the first place to even want to look at porn and then the amount porn bums me out usually deters me from watching it all. Pretty sure that's why I have to watch extreme stuff.
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Like mega ramp contests?
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This helps in a pinch

https://youtu.be/rgWBm5ud20Y
Thanks for helping me cum. It's been almost a week.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8980 on: December 06, 2019, 07:44:27 PM »
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Oh, and I hate dating apps. I don't know how any dude is successful on that shit unless they're white and have a six pack.
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eh im white and those apps still suck
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I had a good job, half-white, good traps, abs on my fucking dick, and all I got was a Russian gold digger. None of that shit worked.

I had better luck just grinding fucking retail employees. Going up to a girl IRL is so unheard of these days that they become stunned and respect the fearless approach. But getting "get-away-from-me-creep"-reponse is kind of gnarly IRL, too. High risk - high reward.
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You’re in Sweden right? I’ve heard the street game thing is simply not something one does there. Like it’s culturally not accepted. But maybe my sources are bullshit.
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Been living here for 20 years and never heard that. Then again, I'm a not native, so what do I know... It is for sure accepted as soon as alcohol gets involved. Being ex-addict, I don't hang around clubs/bars so maybe I can get a pass for snatching girls sober.
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I mean cruising up to girls on the street and laying down some game like mid day. Talked to a couple girls who were like “Walk up to strangers on the street? You buggin.” But who knows. Maybe going to retail stores is the move

Working in a retail store is how you really meet women. Leet go work seasonally for the holidays at an old navy

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8981 on: December 06, 2019, 07:52:59 PM »
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Oh, and I hate dating apps. I don't know how any dude is successful on that shit unless they're white and have a six pack.
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eh im white and those apps still suck
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I had a good job, half-white, good traps, abs on my fucking dick, and all I got was a Russian gold digger. None of that shit worked.

I had better luck just grinding fucking retail employees. Going up to a girl IRL is so unheard of these days that they become stunned and respect the fearless approach. But getting "get-away-from-me-creep"-reponse is kind of gnarly IRL, too. High risk - high reward.
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You’re in Sweden right? I’ve heard the street game thing is simply not something one does there. Like it’s culturally not accepted. But maybe my sources are bullshit.
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Been living here for 20 years and never heard that. Then again, I'm a not native, so what do I know... It is for sure accepted as soon as alcohol gets involved. Being ex-addict, I don't hang around clubs/bars so maybe I can get a pass for snatching girls sober.
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I mean cruising up to girls on the street and laying down some game like mid day. Talked to a couple girls who were like “Walk up to strangers on the street? You buggin.” But who knows. Maybe going to retail stores is the move
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Working in a retail store is how you really meet women. Leet go work seasonally for the holidays at an old navy
I actually love Old Navy. I can't work nada right now as I just had surgery  on my feets.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8982 on: December 08, 2019, 09:13:16 AM »
I know it sounds lame but find some random skank to wear out.

I’m sure you’re familiar with hoes?

I know it’s not pc but sometimes finding some random clears things up.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8983 on: December 08, 2019, 10:10:32 AM »
I know it sounds lame but find some random skank to wear out.

I’m sure you’re familiar with hoes?

I know it’s not pc but sometimes finding some random clears things up.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8984 on: December 23, 2019, 11:28:26 AM »
I know it sounds lame but find some random skank to wear out.

I’m sure you’re familiar with hoes?

I know it’s not pc but sometimes finding some random clears things up.

you’re not gonn get any pussy if u have that mindset. just go on tinder and match with a girl and be super up front and nice and you’ll probably get a couple girls that are down for the night (assuming you’re not incel level ugly, but if you’re a little ugly it would probably help you even more)

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8985 on: December 23, 2019, 03:06:06 PM »
I'm not ugly.

I got a prostitute in Tijuana when I was 26. It sucked. I'm 31 now.

I don't know any promiscuous women, if that's what FappleDapple is getting at.

I'm on virtually every dating app/site (a paying customer on some) and i get very little matches. I've met 3 women total off them and I've never seen them again.

I'm deeply infatuated with someone who feels nothing for me and it hurts all the fucking time every fucking day.

I'm almost positive I'll die alone. It would be nice to at least get a kiss before then, but that's unlikely because I already have my suicide rig put together and ready to go.

Yes, I can go back to Tijuana any time, but again, that time before was sort of traumatizing in and of itself.

Let me be clear. My depression is not about lack of sex. That is one component of many. I feel incapable of intimacy with another person. For whatever reason it's easier to type this shit out and let strangers read it than say it to anyone in my life. There is a whole litany of things that I'm a total fuck up about and/or generally dislike about life. It's just the whole sex thing is a juicier topic than most and I don't feel any particular shame in my experience of it. It's fun to talk about and I know others will respond. Also it's an ever present insatiable drive that regularly inserts itself in my mind. All and all, it's whatever. I just like you guys more than people irl.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8986 on: December 23, 2019, 03:20:05 PM »
I'm not ugly.

I got a prostitute in Tijuana when I was 26. It sucked. I'm 31 now.

I don't know any promiscuous women, if that's what FappleDapple is getting at.

I'm on virtually every dating app/site (a paying customer on some) and i get very little matches. I've met 3 women total off them and I've never seen them again.

I'm deeply infatuated with someone who feels nothing for me and it hurts all the fucking time every fucking day.

I'm almost positive I'll die alone. It would be nice to at least get a kiss before then, but that's unlikely because I already have my suicide rig put together and ready to go.

Yes, I can go back to Tijuana any time, but again, that time before was sort of traumatizing in and of itself.

Let me be clear. My depression is not about lack of sex. That is one component of many. I feel incapable of intimacy with another person. For whatever reason it's easier to type this shit out and let strangers read it than say it to anyone in my life. There is a whole litany of things that I'm a total fuck up about and/or generally dislike about life. It's just the whole sex thing is a juicier topic than most and I don't feel any particular shame in my experience of it. It's fun to talk about and I know others will respond. Also it's an ever present insatiable drive that regularly inserts itself in my mind. All and all, it's whatever. I just like you guys more than people irl.
if you think you're traumatized, what about the poor whore?  :)
keep at it, if you think positive you'll net positive results. if you are convinced you will die alone then you can fulfill your prophecy but it ain't preordained. don't kill yourself, you don't want to make a permanent decision at your lowest point. i understand the comfort of having it as an option but it should be way down on the list of things to try.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8987 on: December 23, 2019, 04:48:07 PM »
Hang in there l33t. My sex life pretty much disappeared for 10 years and came back to life when I was damn near 30. Don’t worry about matches. Matches are the worst dating things. Find an app like Plenty Of Fish and just message any girl you are interested in. I was waiting for matches and got like nothing. I’m not ugly and not an idiot either. I started just using POF because you could send a message without matching first. That’s how I met my girlfriend. Sending a message to a chick I thought wouldn’t give me the time of day. You gotta persist.

I would get like 1 or 2 messages a day on that app. My girlfriend was maxed out at like 99+ or 999+ it said. Nobody who ever messaged me was someone I was interested in. I’m horrible at talking to women when I actually am interested. I’ve never walked up and hit on a girl. But using an app that let me send a message made that easier. Don’t be a douche either. Actually read their profile and refer to their interests. My girlfriend and I actually had a ton in common on our profiles and that’s where the discussion started. We started talking about podcasts and from there things happened.

EDIT: Late to add but my point about my girlfriends messages being maxed out is that there is so many fucking guys on there clogging that shit up with lameness. My girl said she would get so many messages just saying "wyd".
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8988 on: December 23, 2019, 08:37:00 PM »
yo leet that sounds pretty normal reaction to unrequited love/breakup.  this is fucked but i read somewhere it takes around half the length of the relationship to get to a stage you're ready for another one.  easier on the party leaving cause they probably checked out a while ago. it happens. im not trying to fuck with you here. if tinder makes you uncomfortable don't force it you will make shit worse for yourself

but you should put yourself out there cause wallowing in sadness is no good man.  are you friends with your friends' girlfriends?  go out with them one night get them to wingman for you.  chick friends love helping with this sort of shit and you probably need a hand. you need to restore your self esteem man. its big and scary and hard and you might feel foolish getting rejected but fuck man you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

if that is too hectic at this point just practice small talk with strangers.  say good morning to cunts in elevators.  smile at people.  the more you isolate yourself from people the worse you will feel. and the more you practice talking to strangers the easier it will become. your whole vibe right now is fucked and its takes time and commitment to yourself to change this cycle but you can and you will.

i don't really know your story but i probably do maybe, i got out of a ten year relationship about three years ago, got super into fucking flight attendants on drugs then switched to fucking prostitutes on drugs and then i just took drugs and beat off.  and then i couldn't get a hard on anymore.  got fat and my mind got all weird and dark and my friends could not help.  they tried real hard though. it's just depression man you gotta see it for what it is and actively fight it.

write down all the stuff you dont like about yourself and stick it on your fucking wall so you see it when you wake up.  work on yourself this coming year man.  running is kinda fun. 

i get pretty bad anxiety and shit like that.  in my experience dread is the worst emotion.  its easy for me to spend a lot of time in my head running through the worst case scenarios and that shit is textbook crazy man.  nothing in real life has been anywhere near as bad as my mind wants me to believe.

you tripping on your age is just dread man

just set some goals cunt you'll get through this
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8989 on: December 24, 2019, 05:33:23 AM »
I'm not ugly.

I got a prostitute in Tijuana when I was 26. It sucked. I'm 31 now.

I don't know any promiscuous women, if that's what FappleDapple is getting at.

I'm on virtually every dating app/site (a paying customer on some) and i get very little matches. I've met 3 women total off them and I've never seen them again.

I'm deeply infatuated with someone who feels nothing for me and it hurts all the fucking time every fucking day.

I'm almost positive I'll die alone. It would be nice to at least get a kiss before then, but that's unlikely because I already have my suicide rig put together and ready to go.

Yes, I can go back to Tijuana any time, but again, that time before was sort of traumatizing in and of itself.

Let me be clear. My depression is not about lack of sex. That is one component of many. I feel incapable of intimacy with another person. For whatever reason it's easier to type this shit out and let strangers read it than say it to anyone in my life. There is a whole litany of things that I'm a total fuck up about and/or generally dislike about life. It's just the whole sex thing is a juicier topic than most and I don't feel any particular shame in my experience of it. It's fun to talk about and I know others will respond. Also it's an ever present insatiable drive that regularly inserts itself in my mind. All and all, it's whatever. I just like you guys more than people irl.

This may be small consolation to read, but I am really glad to read this part. It means that you haven't given up. And with all of the mental health struggles you deal with every day, all of the daily pain you feel knowing that someone you're infatuated with doesn't feel the same about you, you still haven't given up hope that you will someday find a partner. Even if you are 99.99% positive that you will die alone, you still are 0.01% hopeful. And with everything that you go through daily, it really says a lot about how strong you actually are. You are a strong person, L33t.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8990 on: December 25, 2019, 06:20:53 PM »
l33t, you ever think about religious/philosophical engagement? Hate to join the chorus of advice peddlers (there's no response you haven't already heard, I'm sure) but maybe try ego death before death death. Being an "individual" can be a quite a hang-up if you've got too many bad, entangled ideas/feelings about it.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8991 on: December 28, 2019, 08:32:52 AM »
i like watching local parades on local tv
What kind of mikey taylor logic is this?

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8992 on: December 29, 2019, 07:11:45 AM »
Thanks everyone. I'm not feeling too strong or cool, but I'm learning to take compliments. I'm in a crisis house right now. It's pretty lame, but it stops me from using my exit bag.

Religion is off limits for me because I find it to be total garbage. I mean no disrespect, but as far as philosophy is concerned, I've dabbled, but it's not really for me. I'd rather write my own manifesto than read a bunch of other people saying the same things in different ways and arguing past one another.

I sound like a real prick in this post. Sorry in advance.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8993 on: December 30, 2019, 01:59:19 AM »
Thanks everyone. I'm not feeling too strong or cool, but I'm learning to take compliments. I'm in a crisis house right now. It's pretty lame, but it stops me from using my exit bag.

Religion is off limits for me because I find it to be total garbage. I mean no disrespect, but as far as philosophy is concerned, I've dabbled, but it's not really for me. I'd rather write my own manifesto than read a bunch of other people saying the same things in different ways and arguing past one another.

I sound like a real prick in this post. Sorry in advance.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8994 on: December 30, 2019, 08:49:44 AM »
Thanks everyone. I'm not feeling too strong or cool, but I'm learning to take compliments. I'm in a crisis house right now. It's pretty lame, but it stops me from using my exit bag.

Religion is off limits for me because I find it to be total garbage. I mean no disrespect, but as far as philosophy is concerned, I've dabbled, but it's not really for me. I'd rather write my own manifesto than read a bunch of other people saying the same things in different ways and arguing past one another.

I sound like a real prick in this post. Sorry in advance.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8995 on: December 31, 2019, 10:43:50 AM »
ugh dating apps
rather have a dating nap

doing things you enjoy you may just bump into someone who sparks it for you

library, coffeeshop, gallery, show. whatever brings you joy go do it.

you dont go looking for that shit it usually finds you.

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just came here to say that i dont trust people who like bad music


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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8996 on: January 01, 2020, 02:22:57 PM »
Apps can be more frustrating than helpful. While it can be easy to meet people and re-learn to talk to someone they can take a toll. It's okay to focus your account or take a break.
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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8997 on: January 02, 2020, 02:33:54 AM »

just came here to say that i dont trust people who like bad music


I had a coworker tell me recently that they don't like live music. To me, that's nuts. I get upset if I don't see live music every once in a while(going regularly is better, but not in the cards for me at the moment) even if I don't particularly love the band, as long as it's a genre or "scene" that I'm into.

People who don't like music at all are weirder than people who like bad music from my experience.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8998 on: January 02, 2020, 09:24:03 AM »
Thanks everyone. I'm not feeling too strong or cool, but I'm learning to take compliments. I'm in a crisis house right now. It's pretty lame, but it stops me from using my exit bag.

Religion is off limits for me because I find it to be total garbage. I mean no disrespect, but as far as philosophy is concerned, I've dabbled, but it's not really for me. I'd rather write my own manifesto than read a bunch of other people saying the same things in different ways and arguing past one another.

I sound like a real prick in this post. Sorry in advance.

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Re: real confessions
« Reply #8999 on: January 02, 2020, 07:50:01 PM »
Hang in there l33t. My sex life pretty much disappeared for 10 years and came back to life when I was damn near 30. Don’t worry about matches. Matches are the worst dating things. Find an app like Plenty Of Fish and just message any girl you are interested in. I was waiting for matches and got like nothing. I’m not ugly and not an idiot either. I started just using POF because you could send a message without matching first. That’s how I met my girlfriend. Sending a message to a chick I thought wouldn’t give me the time of day. You gotta persist.

I would get like 1 or 2 messages a day on that app. My girlfriend was maxed out at like 99+ or 999+ it said. Nobody who ever messaged me was someone I was interested in. I’m horrible at talking to women when I actually am interested. I’ve never walked up and hit on a girl. But using an app that let me send a message made that easier. Don’t be a douche either. Actually read their profile and refer to their interests. My girlfriend and I actually had a ton in common on our profiles and that’s where the discussion started. We started talking about podcasts and from there things happened.

EDIT: Late to add but my point about my girlfriends messages being maxed out is that there is so many fucking guys on there clogging that shit up with lameness. My girl said she would get so many messages just saying "wyd".

Same here man, it really is a numbers game with these dating apps and every app fills a specific niche in the market. I went with Ok Cupid because I found the quiz to be really helpful in finding a compatible match with women. It's really unlike Tinder where you swipe and send a flirty text; hoping it will lead to something. I feel that folks on Ok Cupid (mostly) try to make an effort to find a good match, so they both to do up their profiles and answer the quiz questions so you match well with a potential partner. It shows that both parties are committed to finding a partner, though hook ups are possible.

Men are lucky to get a couple of texts a day, but women are flooded with texts on a daily basis. My female friend tried it out and within 5 minutes of creating a profile she had 10 messages, all of them low effort "wyd" or "hi". Probably even more so one of her photos was her in a bikini or sexually suggestive.

@L33T - I hope you're doing OK, would hate to lose someone especially on Slap. I would classify myself as a mentally healthy adult but even I have these thoughts that life would be much easier if it just stopped. It futility of life can really get to me. On an intellectual level I understand how it can be incredibly selfish and logically the wrong thing to do, especially to my wife, friends and family, but those reason are not good enough for me.

I really have to remind myself to enjoy the little things in life; it can be a good tune, a solid skate part, good meal, a session at the park or seeing your friends. "It gets easier. Every day it gets a little easier. But you gotta do it every day —that’s the hard part. But it does get easier"

https://youtu.be/R2_Mn-qRKjA

I'm sure a couple of Pals would be happy to meet up for a session if you're open to that idea.
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