Just a note about the Ryan Lay/Jordan Maxham situation..
It's not clear that Jordan is underhandedly saying what he said because he couldn't skate the park because of the girl/trans night in the first place but... Briana King does those events at El Sereno park mostly, and I've been there during one of the sessions.
The girls/transgender people that were skating were not even skating the park. It looked like Briana was helping most of them learn how to ride a skateboard and just kicking it in the corner of the tennis court next to the park.
I understand that he is saying that he is technically being excluded because he "can't" attend the even, and that is segregation, but he is also a reason why the girls trying to learn to skate are scared to actually skate by themselves at a park like that. He's flying all over trying crazy shit, and they can barely ride a board. That's intimidating for someone not quite as skilled.
TL;DR: They're both wrong for being dicks.