You guys realize that herpes is still VERY contagious even with the use of a condom, right?
"Be aware that not all herpes sores occur in areas that are covered by a latex condom. Also, herpes virus can be released (shed) from areas of the skin that do not have a visible herpes sore. For these reasons, condoms may not fully protect you from getting herpes."
Also, most people don't even know they have the disease. That's why 1 out of every 6 people in the US have the disease.
"Most people who have genital herpes have no symptoms, or have very mild symptoms. You may not notice mild symptoms or you may mistake them for another skin condition, such as a pimple or ingrown hair. Because of this, most people who have herpes do not know it."
Quotes from:
https://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htmThe only thing this guy did that crosses a line - in my view - is pushing the woman's head down.