i'm posting one thing, and then never checking this fucking thread again. i guarantee it'll turn into a horrible, embarrassing dumpster fire, just like every slap thread about sexual assault.
i've had traumatic sexual experiences happen to me. it took me months to figure out that i wasn't okay with what happened, and it wasn't with anyone famous. celebrity adds another layer of complications around sexual experiences.
sexual trauma is a really rough fucking thing to navigate. "why didn't she call the police?" is an absolute dogshit response to this. because fuck the police, because of the 1000s of rape cases in their backlog, because of their propensity to discount survivors (especially when alcohol is involved) and 100's of other reasons. i'm saying this with first hand experience; the vast majority of cops don't give a shit about sexual assault.
i'm not bragging when i say i've had sex with a lot of people. not a single one has ever accused me of sexual assault. i understand consent, it's not that hard. if your partner doesn't consent, it's sexual assault. it's that simple.