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That’s his opinion. He isn’t saying anything negative or bashing anyone. My gay brother is getting married this fall. Showed him the photo, he laughed and agreed. So many soft cookies here, so quick to act tough and shit talk behind their screen about someone stating their opinion. But would never say anything face to face lol
I wish your gay brother a very happy & long marriage to his wife.
I have occupied my time in this thread being sarcastic but let me give up the ghost.
Maybe you would say nothing face to face, but that's not something you know about others.
Speaking for myself: when the world sees me as 'male' but I have small breasts that lead the world to read me as 'freak' at the same time, it's either I speak up or I get assaulted. So I would not only say something face to face, but I would additionally fight my way through any ambush. Shriveled dick and all. I'm a fucking powderkeg. What you see as opinions we see as symtoms of the same disease. We're not crazy for seeing hatred for what it is, so don't try to manipulate us.
P.S. just because your brother is gay does not mean he can't be a homophobe. I hope his husband is safe and isn't subject to the same bullshit that you & him deem manly. God forbid his husband comes out as femme or wants to dress effeminately on a date. God forbid your husband has to defend him against a public attacker.
“Just because your brother is gay does not mean he cant be a homphobe”
I get the dave chappelle black white supremacist bit was hilarious, but i wouldnt take the premise of it and use it as a sincere discussion point. It would just make you look a little silly.
I fit right into the lgbwatever crowd. But i have no issue stating the really outspoken advocates can be insuffereable and sometimes completely unreasonable people driven purely by emotion. But i sure dont dislike them because of who they are.
This daan character sure does seem like a kook who will fall hook line and sinker for a catchy video sharing ‘facts’ about your freedoms. But his post alone doesnt imply anything beyond him being a bit simple and probably no fun to talk too.
this is the best explanation. it simply comes off as hes naive and yeah simple minded. calling this homophobia is a little much, but he is a dumbass for publicly putting this on his story
as a trans skater, it's easy to get emotional when I constantly have to justify my existence to dipshits. I don't want to have to be an advocate for my identity, but bigotry kinda makes it a necessity. Fuck daan and anyone defending him
I’m right there with you too.
Recently a local skater organisation did an online survey and some of the highlights were shared with some hateful comments towards skaters like me and you.
Usually I’m thick enough skinned but knowing that other members of it dislike your very existence enough to voice that opinion and say you don’t belong in something you’ve been involved with for however long. Yeah that can sting, to put it lightly.
And when a fucking professional in the sport is sharing something like this it’s the same.
It makes me not want to bother with the fucking community in the slightest.
I’ve been “out” as transfemme for over two years now and its mostly been received well by those close to me. But the bullshit comments, open hatred + bigotry, slurs, insulting remarks or questions and overt negativity are prevalent in my experience.
Even a fucking FRIEND of mine that I came out to about transitioning said something he thought was funny but amounted to “I don’t want to film a trans person if they transition physically”.
I’m not even THERE yet , and yet the very idea looking at my body being changed in a way I want makes you uncomfortable?
Alright.
Cry me a river, right?
No one cares now it’s 2021, right?
You’re sick hearing about it and don’t want it in your face anymore, right?
Stuff can be accidentally hateful, statements can be full of ignorance and often they can tell you a lot about a persons thought process. Not fucking divining anything overly insightful here, I’m just sick of having to feel like my existence needs fought for in a community and culture that I’ve been part of for too long to not feel strongly about.
I’m a skater and just because some of us are more open about this doesn’t mean “the gays can do whatever they want these days”.
Fuck you Daan VanDerLinden and anyone else that is sick of LGBTQ people wanting equality inside and outside of skateboarding.
Trans rights are human rights.