knowing your partner's body count

[roba]

once i accepted that you dont marry the first (or second) partner

why did you have to write this you’re making me sad and insecure and crushing my dreams i love my girlfriend so much

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she has Chinese blood

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In China they just call it blood.

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it’s all good, I’m sure here family refer to my blood as “foreign Barbarian” blood

[close]

bào gùa (spelling is phonetic, my ex/best friend used to call me it all the time)

also a lot of you dudes in here stressing over women having sex?! shit is outta your control. if she got it in with 50 dudes but loves you then why trip?!

[close]

If you had to drink out of the same coffee cup for the rest of your life would you prefer if five dudes jizzed in it or fifty

[close]

idk cause i don’t think of my partner as a fuckhole and instead base our relationship on their behavior haha.

ain’t you the dude who talked about pissing his pants in public?

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this implies you think of a coffee cup as a fuckhole

[close]

you talk about pissing in your pants or the sink and there’s no implication necessary

genuinely, you would be judgmental if i told u i pissed in my sink, but if i hypothetically took the bus to philly and pee'd in your girls mouth the night before you met you'd be like "charge it to the game player", it's baffling

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she has Chinese blood

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In China they just call it blood.

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it’s all good, I’m sure here family refer to my blood as “foreign Barbarian” blood

[close]

bào gùa (spelling is phonetic, my ex/best friend used to call me it all the time)

also a lot of you dudes in here stressing over women having sex?! shit is outta your control. if she got it in with 50 dudes but loves you then why trip?!

[close]

If you had to drink out of the same coffee cup for the rest of your life would you prefer if five dudes jizzed in it or fifty

[close]

idk cause i don’t think of my partner as a fuckhole and instead base our relationship on their behavior haha.

ain’t you the dude who talked about pissing his pants in public?

[close]

this implies you think of a coffee cup as a fuckhole

[close]

you talk about pissing in your pants or the sink and there’s no implication necessary

You would genuinely be more grossed out finding out some stranger pissed in his sink than finding out some tinder stranger pissed in ur girls mouth, absolutely baffling

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she has Chinese blood

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In China they just call it blood.

[close]

it’s all good, I’m sure here family refer to my blood as “foreign Barbarian” blood

[close]

bào gùa (spelling is phonetic, my ex/best friend used to call me it all the time)

also a lot of you dudes in here stressing over women having sex?! shit is outta your control. if she got it in with 50 dudes but loves you then why trip?!

[close]

If you had to drink out of the same coffee cup for the rest of your life would you prefer if five dudes jizzed in it or fifty

[close]

idk cause i don’t think of my partner as a fuckhole and instead base our relationship on their behavior haha.

ain’t you the dude who talked about pissing his pants in public?

[close]

this implies you think of a coffee cup as a fuckhole

[close]

you talk about pissing in your pants or the sink and there’s no implication necessary

[close]

You would genuinely be more grossed out finding out some stranger pissed in his sink than finding out some tinder stranger pissed in ur girls mouth, absolutely baffling

i’m not grossed out- i’m saying every opinion you express is hilarious because you wear adult diapers

[therealnod]

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My limit would be 1 if it was you I think

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So you guys would not give a shit if you found out your partner had fucked a different dude every night of her life since she turned 18? You honestly just wouldn't care?

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At that point we're dealing with potential mental health issues which would be the actual issue, not the count itself.  And if your partner truly has an astronomical count, they likely do have issues that will present themselves naturally in the relationship without needing to even know the count in the first place. So again the count itself is not the key concern

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Why not just ask at the start and if they say something like 'oh i lost count after 400' you can quickly end the relationship without wasting time with someone who is probably deranged.

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So you guys would not give a shit if you found out your partner had fucked a different dude every night of her life since she turned 18? You honestly just wouldn't care?

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IT. DOES. NOT. MATTER.

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Is there any point where it starts to matter? Cmon son you gotta have a limit somewhere

[close]

The hypothetical scenario you’ve created won’t get me to agree with your bad take on this subject. As many others have stated, a clean bill of health is all that matters with any number of sexual partners.

It sounds like you’ve found a like minded partner. So why push your baggage about number of sexual partners onto the slap board?

There’s this underlying implication from you and the other naysayers that a female with a lot of sexual partners is gross or crazy. Also the implication that this wouldn’t apply to dudes the same way. This is misogyny and a double standard. It’s also bullshit.

Get over it or keep it to yourself.

[close]

I'm not pushing anything, but when almost everyone in the thread is saying stuff to the tune of 'i don't care and if you do care you are an incel' I'm inclined to defend my views.

And just like I did, you chose to participate in the thread and put your views out there for discussion, if you want me to 'keep it to myself ' then maybe you should never have posted in the thread to begin with.

I know you don't see it, but you are pushing your shitty view.  A post about your arbitrary formula for number of sexual partners, some lame second-hand anecdote about your co worker that dumped on his wife for lying or something- I really didn't get the point, then something about sex being very sacred, and then your crown jewel comment about men being inherently attracted to virgins.  It's obvious you have a low opinion of women, and I seriously urge to do some personal work to find out why- hence my get over it comment.

There has been a refreshing amount of open minded responses in here.  And those pals and me calling out your shitty views about women is necessary.  It sounds like you don't get that push back very often.  They're all saying "I don't care and if you do, you're closed minded about it."  But you brought up incel, so maybe that fits for you?

Anyway, putting you on ignore now. Bye.

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she has Chinese blood

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In China they just call it blood.

[close]

it’s all good, I’m sure here family refer to my blood as “foreign Barbarian” blood

[close]

bào gùa (spelling is phonetic, my ex/best friend used to call me it all the time)

also a lot of you dudes in here stressing over women having sex?! shit is outta your control. if she got it in with 50 dudes but loves you then why trip?!

[close]

If you had to drink out of the same coffee cup for the rest of your life would you prefer if five dudes jizzed in it or fifty

[close]

idk cause i don’t think of my partner as a fuckhole and instead base our relationship on their behavior haha.

ain’t you the dude who talked about pissing his pants in public?

[close]

this implies you think of a coffee cup as a fuckhole

[close]

you talk about pissing in your pants or the sink and there’s no implication necessary

[close]

You would genuinely be more grossed out finding out some stranger pissed in his sink than finding out some tinder stranger pissed in ur girls mouth, absolutely baffling

[close]

i’m not grossed out- i’m saying every opinion you express is hilarious because you wear adult diapers

Awfully judgmental for a thirtysomething year old man working a dead end job to survive in bucks county, would unironically rather piss myself in public once a month for the rest of my life than be you for a year, enjoy your annoying white philly artheaux gf

[hotstudios_on_youtube]

god why did i come here on this day of all days

[modern life is war]

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So you guys would not give a shit if you found out your partner had fucked a different dude every night of her life since she turned 18? You honestly just wouldn't care?

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At that point we're dealing with potential mental health issues which would be the actual issue, not the count itself.  And if your partner truly has an astronomical count, they likely do have issues that will present themselves naturally in the relationship without needing to even know the count in the first place. So again the count itself is not the key concern

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Why not just ask at the start and if they say something like 'oh i lost count after 400' you can quickly end the relationship without wasting time with someone who is probably deranged.

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So you guys would not give a shit if you found out your partner had fucked a different dude every night of her life since she turned 18? You honestly just wouldn't care?

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IT. DOES. NOT. MATTER.

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Is there any point where it starts to matter? Cmon son you gotta have a limit somewhere

[close]

The hypothetical scenario you’ve created won’t get me to agree with your bad take on this subject. As many others have stated, a clean bill of health is all that matters with any number of sexual partners.

It sounds like you’ve found a like minded partner. So why push your baggage about number of sexual partners onto the slap board?

There’s this underlying implication from you and the other naysayers that a female with a lot of sexual partners is gross or crazy. Also the implication that this wouldn’t apply to dudes the same way. This is misogyny and a double standard. It’s also bullshit.

Get over it or keep it to yourself.

[close]

I'm not pushing anything, but when almost everyone in the thread is saying stuff to the tune of 'i don't care and if you do care you are an incel' I'm inclined to defend my views.

And just like I did, you chose to participate in the thread and put your views out there for discussion, if you want me to 'keep it to myself ' then maybe you should never have posted in the thread to begin with.

[close]

I know you don't see it, but you are pushing your shitty view.  A post about your arbitrary formula for number of sexual partners, some lame second-hand anecdote about your co worker that dumped on his wife for lying or something- I really didn't get the point, then something about sex being very sacred, and then your crown jewel comment about men being inherently attracted to virgins.  It's obvious you have a low opinion of women, and I seriously urge to do some personal work to find out why- hence my get over it comment.

There has been a refreshing amount of open minded responses in here.  And those pals and me calling out your shitty views about women is necessary.  It sounds like you don't get that push back very often.  They're all saying "I don't care and if you do, you're closed minded about it."  But you brought up incel, so maybe that fits for you?

Anyway, putting you on ignore now. Bye.

Is not having any personal standards a weird way to make getting a gf easier or something? What no pussy does to a mf?

[EXTRA SPICY]

god why did i come here on this day of all days

Ride it out, we're only a page or so away until we get adult diaper reviews. The Sizzler is about discuss the best way to nut in Huggies.

[PatrickSkateman]

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god why did i come here on this day of all days

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Ride it out, we're only a page or so away until we get adult diaper reviews. The Sizzler is about discuss the best way to nut in Huggies.

It’d be funnier if Sizzla did it.

[borats cat]

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god why did i come here on this day of all days

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Ride it out, we're only a page or so away until we get adult diaper reviews. The Sizzler is about discuss the best way to nut in Huggies.

[close]

It’d be funnier if Sizzla did it.

rastamon cyan't wear de babylon diapa bumbaclot

[L33Tg33k]

I hate what the term incel has become. It became what it is very quickly but it obviously has an origin that doesn’t mean hating women. It’s just a portmanteau of involuntary celibacy. I am by definition an incel. People who can’t get laid or have relationships are not bastards to be shit on. If anything they deserve your compassion. People’s loneliness probably isn’t something that most people would feel comfortable making fun of, but once the populace got ahold of this little kernel of a term it blamed all of societies evils on it (See Bill Maher constantly throwing shade and how he always seems to believe mass shootings are by incels). Think about how insulting it is. You don’t have sex? Then you’re a vile women hater that deserves nothing but derision. It’s like everybody forgot that there’s a middle way here; that maybe not everyone is a piece of shit that thinks they’re owed something. There is no longer any vocabulary to describe a regular person who lacks social skills, but only people that should be demonized. I know I’m fighting an uphill battle and meanings are entrenched, but goddamn it, I don’t need to feel like I’m being attacked all the damn time. A similar situation is with the dumbass phrases big and small dick energy. That should not be associated with prowess and confidence. While it probably is true that a person with a large dick has a leg up in the confidence department, that insinuation should be diminished for the betterment of of all male’s psyches. Just the fact that I need to say that my dick is average sized after that says a lot about our maturity as a species. In closing, life is hard enough, choose to be thoughtful and kind. End rant.

[modern life is war]

I hate what the term incel has become. It became what it is very quickly but it obviously has an origin that doesn’t mean hating women. It’s just a portmanteau of involuntary celibacy. I am by definition an incel. People who can’t get laid or have relationships are not bastards to be shit on. If anything they deserve your compassion. People’s loneliness probably isn’t something that most people would feel comfortable making fun of, but once the populace got ahold of this little kernel of a term it blamed all of societies evils on it (See Bill Maher constantly throwing shade and how he always seems to believe mass shootings are by incels). Think about how insulting it is. You don’t have sex? Then you’re a vile women hater that deserves nothing but derision. It’s like everybody forgot that there’s a middle way here; that maybe not everyone is a piece of shit that thinks they’re owed something. There is no longer any vocabulary to describe a regular person who lacks social skills, but only people that should be demonized. I know I’m fighting an uphill battle and meanings are entrenched, but goddamn it, I don’t need to feel like I’m being attacked all the damn time. A similar situation is with the dumbass phrases big and small dick energy. That should not be associated with prowess and confidence. While it probably is true that a person with a large dick has a leg up in the confidence department, that insinuation should be diminished for the betterment of of all male’s psyches. Just the fact that I need to say that my dick is average sized after that says a lot about our maturity as a species. In closing, life is hard enough, choose to be thoughtful and kind. End rant.

At least you don't have to worry about your gf's bodycount

[Mean salto]

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I hate what the term incel has become. It became what it is very quickly but it obviously has an origin that doesn’t mean hating women. It’s just a portmanteau of involuntary celibacy. I am by definition an incel. People who can’t get laid or have relationships are not bastards to be shit on. If anything they deserve your compassion. People’s loneliness probably isn’t something that most people would feel comfortable making fun of, but once the populace got ahold of this little kernel of a term it blamed all of societies evils on it (See Bill Maher constantly throwing shade and how he always seems to believe mass shootings are by incels). Think about how insulting it is. You don’t have sex? Then you’re a vile women hater that deserves nothing but derision. It’s like everybody forgot that there’s a middle way here; that maybe not everyone is a piece of shit that thinks they’re owed something. There is no longer any vocabulary to describe a regular person who lacks social skills, but only people that should be demonized. I know I’m fighting an uphill battle and meanings are entrenched, but goddamn it, I don’t need to feel like I’m being attacked all the damn time. A similar situation is with the dumbass phrases big and small dick energy. That should not be associated with prowess and confidence. While it probably is true that a person with a large dick has a leg up in the confidence department, that insinuation should be diminished for the betterment of of all male’s psyches. Just the fact that I need to say that my dick is average sized after that says a lot about our maturity as a species. In closing, life is hard enough, choose to be thoughtful and kind. End rant.

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Being an incel and identifying as one seem two different things. You can't deny an awful lot of misogynistic ideas coming from those who identify as/ wear it as a badge of honour/ valour (online).

Your right about small/big dick energy though but at the same time I dont think it was ever more applicable then in this thread talking about "body-count"

Maybe whoever's in charge of making up the names needs to divide up categories of what incel means. Like how there's geek, dork, nerd, dweeb, wimp or like dickheads and assholes are two different things. (Soz for only having pretty negative terms as examples)

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she has Chinese blood

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In China they just call it blood.

[close]

it’s all good, I’m sure here family refer to my blood as “foreign Barbarian” blood

[close]

bào gùa (spelling is phonetic, my ex/best friend used to call me it all the time)

also a lot of you dudes in here stressing over women having sex?! shit is outta your control. if she got it in with 50 dudes but loves you then why trip?!

[close]

If you had to drink out of the same coffee cup for the rest of your life would you prefer if five dudes jizzed in it or fifty

[close]

idk cause i don’t think of my partner as a fuckhole and instead base our relationship on their behavior haha.

ain’t you the dude who talked about pissing his pants in public?

[close]

this implies you think of a coffee cup as a fuckhole

[close]

you talk about pissing in your pants or the sink and there’s no implication necessary

[close]

You would genuinely be more grossed out finding out some stranger pissed in his sink than finding out some tinder stranger pissed in ur girls mouth, absolutely baffling

[close]

i’m not grossed out- i’m saying every opinion you express is hilarious because you wear adult diapers

[close]

Awfully judgmental for a thirtysomething year old man working a dead end job to survive in bucks county, would unironically rather piss myself in public once a month for the rest of my life than be you for a year, enjoy your annoying white philly artheaux gf

i’m from delco, my wife isn’t white and i live in the south brother. enjoy your diaper rash

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At that point we're dealing with potential mental health issues which would be the actual issue, not the count itself.  And if your partner truly has an astronomical count, they likely do have issues that will present themselves naturally in the relationship without needing to even know the count in the first place. So again the count itself is not the key concern

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Why not just ask at the start and if they say something like 'oh i lost count after 400' you can quickly end the relationship without wasting time with someone who is probably deranged.

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So you guys would not give a shit if you found out your partner had fucked a different dude every night of her life since she turned 18? You honestly just wouldn't care?

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IT. DOES. NOT. MATTER.

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Is there any point where it starts to matter? Cmon son you gotta have a limit somewhere

[close]

The hypothetical scenario you’ve created won’t get me to agree with your bad take on this subject. As many others have stated, a clean bill of health is all that matters with any number of sexual partners.

It sounds like you’ve found a like minded partner. So why push your baggage about number of sexual partners onto the slap board?

There’s this underlying implication from you and the other naysayers that a female with a lot of sexual partners is gross or crazy. Also the implication that this wouldn’t apply to dudes the same way. This is misogyny and a double standard. It’s also bullshit.

Get over it or keep it to yourself.

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I'm not pushing anything, but when almost everyone in the thread is saying stuff to the tune of 'i don't care and if you do care you are an incel' I'm inclined to defend my views.

And just like I did, you chose to participate in the thread and put your views out there for discussion, if you want me to 'keep it to myself ' then maybe you should never have posted in the thread to begin with.

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who called you an incel?
how would you feel if a woman asked you how many women you have been with?

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I'd feel awkward because it's an inappropriate question to ask a married man but otherwise I wouldn't feel anything, why do you ask?

you clearly are not interested in having a conversation.

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At that point we're dealing with potential mental health issues which would be the actual issue, not the count itself.  And if your partner truly has an astronomical count, they likely do have issues that will present themselves naturally in the relationship without needing to even know the count in the first place. So again the count itself is not the key concern

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Why not just ask at the start and if they say something like 'oh i lost count after 400' you can quickly end the relationship without wasting time with someone who is probably deranged.

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So you guys would not give a shit if you found out your partner had fucked a different dude every night of her life since she turned 18? You honestly just wouldn't care?

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IT. DOES. NOT. MATTER.

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Is there any point where it starts to matter? Cmon son you gotta have a limit somewhere

[close]

The hypothetical scenario you’ve created won’t get me to agree with your bad take on this subject. As many others have stated, a clean bill of health is all that matters with any number of sexual partners.

It sounds like you’ve found a like minded partner. So why push your baggage about number of sexual partners onto the slap board?

There’s this underlying implication from you and the other naysayers that a female with a lot of sexual partners is gross or crazy. Also the implication that this wouldn’t apply to dudes the same way. This is misogyny and a double standard. It’s also bullshit.

Get over it or keep it to yourself.

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I'm not pushing anything, but when almost everyone in the thread is saying stuff to the tune of 'i don't care and if you do care you are an incel' I'm inclined to defend my views.

And just like I did, you chose to participate in the thread and put your views out there for discussion, if you want me to 'keep it to myself ' then maybe you should never have posted in the thread to begin with.

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who called you an incel?
how would you feel if a woman asked you how many women you have been with?

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I'd feel awkward because it's an inappropriate question to ask a married man but otherwise I wouldn't feel anything, why do you ask?

[close]

you clearly are not interested in having a conversation.

I genuinely do not understand what you were implying, don't beat around the bush and just say what you mean

[Beeda Weeda]

i said how would you feel if a woman was to ask you about your body count, you said it would be inappropriate because you are a married man, taking my initial question out of context.
also, who called you an incel?

[modern life is war]

i said how would you feel if a woman was to ask you about your body count, you said it would be inappropriate because you are a married man, taking my initial question out of context.
also, who called you an incel?

I don't remember saying that anyone directly called me an incel.

What's the initial context of the question then? If I wasn't in a relationship and someone asked me what my bodycount is I'd just be honest with them, what kind of answer do you want to hear to prove whatever point you're trying to make?

[Beeda Weeda]

ok, let me re phrase this
if you weren't in a  relationship, and you were in the initial stage of a relationship ie, dating or talking, and you perspective partner asked you your "body count" and this number was  a factor in if they were going to date you or not, how would you feel?
you implied people in this thread were calling you an incel a few pages back, I wanted to know who said that, nobody brought up incel at that point until you.


i'm not trying to make a point, I am "just asking questions" , a little "dialog", maybe a "good faith argument"

[modern life is war]

ok, let me re phrase this
if you weren't in a  relationship, and you were in the initial stage of a relationship ie, dating or talking, and you perspective partner asked you your "body count" and this number was  a factor in if they were going to date you or not, how would you feel?
you implied people in this thread were calling you an incel a few pages back, I wanted to know who said that, nobody brought up incel at that point until you.


i'm not trying to make a point, I am "just asking questions" , a little "dialog", maybe a "good faith argument"

How i feel is really irrelevant in that situation because I'm not entitled to be in a relationship with anyone. If someone had an issue with my bodycount and they didn't want to date me because of it, what am I meant to do? Demand they accept it and date me anyway? It's their life.

That's pretty much why I said earlier that you should find out early on in a relationship so you don't get years in and then realize your gf sucked 37 dicks and you're uncomfortable with that, and then shit starts getting confusing

[DaleSr]

This is the only body count you dorks should be discussing with a woman

[brycickle]

i think (and maybe i'm wrong) that he was making a point that exclusivity is better than a lot of cum, be it on coffee or pussy.

That's also not how ejaculate works either.

Maybe whoever's in charge of making up the names needs to divide up categories of what incel means. Like how there's geek, dork, nerd, dweeb, wimp or like dickheads and assholes are two different things. (Soz for only having pretty negative terms as examples)

[animalflesh]

Y’all are the type to start a stopwatch when u fuck



BODY COUNTS IN THE HOUSE

[cky enthusiast]

u gotta say B C like blood crip

[Eric Dolphy]

I hate what the term incel has become. It became what it is very quickly but it obviously has an origin that doesn’t mean hating women. It’s just a portmanteau of involuntary celibacy. I am by definition an incel. People who can’t get laid or have relationships are not bastards to be shit on. If anything they deserve your compassion. People’s loneliness probably isn’t something that most people would feel comfortable making fun of, but once the populace got ahold of this little kernel of a term it blamed all of societies evils on it (See Bill Maher constantly throwing shade and how he always seems to believe mass shootings are by incels). Think about how insulting it is. You don’t have sex? Then you’re a vile women hater that deserves nothing but derision. It’s like everybody forgot that there’s a middle way here; that maybe not everyone is a piece of shit that thinks they’re owed something. There is no longer any vocabulary to describe a regular person who lacks social skills, but only people that should be demonized. I know I’m fighting an uphill battle and meanings are entrenched, but goddamn it, I don’t need to feel like I’m being attacked all the damn time. A similar situation is with the dumbass phrases big and small dick energy. That should not be associated with prowess and confidence. While it probably is true that a person with a large dick has a leg up in the confidence department, that insinuation should be diminished for the betterment of of all male’s psyches. Just the fact that I need to say that my dick is average sized after that says a lot about our maturity as a species. In closing, life is hard enough, choose to be thoughtful and kind. End rant.

[BurgerCop]

I hate what the term incel has become. It became what it is very quickly but it obviously has an origin that doesn’t mean hating women. It’s just a portmanteau of involuntary celibacy. I am by definition an incel. People who can’t get laid or have relationships are not bastards to be shit on. If anything they deserve your compassion. People’s loneliness probably isn’t something that most people would feel comfortable making fun of, but once the populace got ahold of this little kernel of a term it blamed all of societies evils on it (See Bill Maher constantly throwing shade and how he always seems to believe mass shootings are by incels). Think about how insulting it is. You don’t have sex? Then you’re a vile women hater that deserves nothing but derision. It’s like everybody forgot that there’s a middle way here; that maybe not everyone is a piece of shit that thinks they’re owed something. There is no longer any vocabulary to describe a regular person who lacks social skills, but only people that should be demonized. I know I’m fighting an uphill battle and meanings are entrenched, but goddamn it, I don’t need to feel like I’m being attacked all the damn time. A similar situation is with the dumbass phrases big and small dick energy. That should not be associated with prowess and confidence. While it probably is true that a person with a large dick has a leg up in the confidence department, that insinuation should be diminished for the betterment of of all male’s psyches. Just the fact that I need to say that my dick is average sized after that says a lot about our maturity as a species. In closing, life is hard enough, choose to be thoughtful and kind. End rant.

Why "hate what that term has become"?
Like, do you want to be able to tell people "I'm an incel" without the negative connotations?
Most people don't want to hear about your sex life whether it's good or bad.
Don't brand yourself with a stupid, made up internet word.
You can be a kind, respectful, normal guy struggling to find a partner without being an "incel".
Nobody is ever going to call you an incel unless you start publicly whining about not being able to find a partner or how unfair it is that nobody will fuck you.

Back on topic, I don't give a fuck how many people my girlfriend has been with. It could be 500 for all I care as long as she's open and honest with me and doesn't have an STD.
Anyone who thinks a woman's vagina get's blown out and loose from sex is dumb as fuck.
Fuck 100 guys once? Blown out "roastie"
Fuck 1 guy 100 times? Proper airtight tradwife
...Yeah right

[borats cat]

i just got off the horn w/ tracey (ice-t) and apparently he broke up w/ darlene when he found out her bodycount. the song 'there goes the neighborhood' describes her antics before ice cooled her down.

[os89]

I hate what the term incel has become. It became what it is very quickly but it obviously has an origin that doesn’t mean hating women. It’s just a portmanteau of involuntary celibacy. I am by definition an incel. People who can’t get laid or have relationships are not bastards to be shit on. If anything they deserve your compassion. People’s loneliness probably isn’t something that most people would feel comfortable making fun of, but once the populace got ahold of this little kernel of a term it blamed all of societies evils on it (See Bill Maher constantly throwing shade and how he always seems to believe mass shootings are by incels). Think about how insulting it is. You don’t have sex? Then you’re a vile women hater that deserves nothing but derision. It’s like everybody forgot that there’s a middle way here; that maybe not everyone is a piece of shit that thinks they’re owed something. There is no longer any vocabulary to describe a regular person who lacks social skills, but only people that should be demonized. I know I’m fighting an uphill battle and meanings are entrenched, but goddamn it, I don’t need to feel like I’m being attacked all the damn time. A similar situation is with the dumbass phrases big and small dick energy. That should not be associated with prowess and confidence. While it probably is true that a person with a large dick has a leg up in the confidence department, that insinuation should be diminished for the betterment of of all male’s psyches. Just the fact that I need to say that my dick is average sized after that says a lot about our maturity as a species. In closing, life is hard enough, choose to be thoughtful and kind. End rant.

Bruh