Things You Are Stoked On But Not Stoked On

[childhood]

Only read the first few sentences, but have you considered snorting an xxtra fat line of Blue Chew?

[givecigstosurfgroms]

Only read the first few sentences, but have you considered snorting an xxtra fat line of Blue Chew?

  Im gonna say no.

[SirPizzaSlayer]

My question is how would your ex feel if she found out if you shared this?

[givecigstosurfgroms]

My question is how would your ex feel if she found out if you shared this?

  Anomonously?  She wouldnt give a shit,-you dont know who we are.  I dont tell any of my buddies when i get with a girl, ive always been good that way.
 

[SirPizzaSlayer]

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My question is how would your ex feel if she found out if you shared this?

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  Anomonously?  She wouldnt give a shit,-you dont know who we are.  I dont tell any of my buddies when i get with a girl, ive always been good that way.
 

im just saying it’s kinda fucked in my opinion. I’d much rather be valued and not talked about like a sex object just saying.

[SirPizzaSlayer]

I love living in California but fuck it’s expensive.

[givecigstosurfgroms]

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My question is how would your ex feel if she found out if you shared this?

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  Anomonously?  She wouldnt give a shit,-you dont know who we are.  I dont tell any of my buddies when i get with a girl, ive always been good that way.
 

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im just saying it’s kinda fucked in my opinion. I’d much rather be valued and not talked about like a sex object just saying.

  I just removed it outta respect.

[Complements4U]

Not stoked on life, it's so sassy and condescending. It's too hard for a stuffed lad. Why's it always mocking my questions? Why's it so patronizing towards the topic of meaning?

Pretty stoked that it doesn't give a shit though, my pecs would be tiny otherwise. So I'll enjoy my worries, cause I may never have them again.

[givecigstosurfgroms]

  This girl Im dating now, (my ex) shes got me all peripheralized, so's that when we hang out, its just me and her.  She's doing all this social type stuff with her social group and I haven't been invited so far.  She'll have these nites or afternoons free and then its heated between us and thats one of the things about me she likes but then I'm just on the shelf.  On paper it sounds good but it mixes me up.  She just left a 10 year realationship and the company she keeps is slightly hoity toity so she doesn't wanna come out "yah I'm fucking ---- now"

[os89]

  This girl Im dating now, (my ex) shes got me all peripheralized, so's that when we hang out, its just me and her.  She's doing all this social type stuff with her social group and I haven't been invited so far.  She'll have these nites or afternoons free and then its heated between us and thats one of the things about me she likes but then I'm just on the shelf.  On paper it sounds good but it mixes me up.  She just left a 10 year realationship and the company she keeps is slightly hoity toity so she doesn't wanna come out "yah I'm fucking ---- now"

Man unless those people are actually super cool, (doubt it) then fuck it. Do you wanna fake it just because they are her friends? I mean if the free food and shit is THAT good then it may be worth it, otherwise let her do her thing and you guys just do your own.

[givecigstosurfgroms]

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  This girl Im dating now, (my ex) shes got me all peripheralized, so's that when we hang out, its just me and her.  She's doing all this social type stuff with her social group and I haven't been invited so far.  She'll have these nites or afternoons free and then its heated between us and thats one of the things about me she likes but then I'm just on the shelf.  On paper it sounds good but it mixes me up.  She just left a 10 year realationship and the company she keeps is slightly hoity toity so she doesn't wanna come out "yah I'm fucking ---- now"

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Man unless those people are actually super cool, (doubt it) then fuck it. Do you wanna fake it just because they are her friends? I mean if the free food and shit is THAT good then it may be worth it, otherwise let her do her thing and you guys just do your own.

  I need the outside perspective so thank you for that.  Shes nice to me i just gotta play it cool, like your saying.

[silhouette]

Maybe she just needs time. I know I ended an almost decade-long relationship last year and here I am one year later still 'recovering' and relearning to find my personal space and pace again (which surprisingly was a struggle at first). During such periods of time one may need a certain tranquility of the mind in order to feel solid ground, recognize where they are and stand on their feet again, if that makes sense. Which of course doesn't negate that during said periods of time, the person still wants to socialize all the while remaining confused as to the direction they feel like reconnecting with, which might cause them to make the occasional odd life choice and frequent a variety of people they normally (?) wouldn't. I'm not trying to analyze you guys' situation here but I know I'm usually a focused and determined person with default respect for people, yet just last year I probably interfered with and confused two or three innocent girls' lives by being too distracted to know how to deal with their attention, or by developing unrealistic feelings that to me felt like they made sense. In general I think it's pretty fascinating the width of the array of possibilities in life, relationships bear witness to how every new human encounter will by definition add another dimension to one's existence - in general we try to look so solid when in reality we're so frail.

But I digress, and I'm only sharing my experience in case it would resonate with yours somehow and help you understand what may be your girl's mindset these days based on the couple of elements you brought up, but of course I'm disconnected from you guys' reality so you know the details and everything a lot better than I do.

[givecigstosurfgroms]

Maybe she just needs time. I know I ended an almost decade-long relationship last year and here I am one year later still 'recovering' and relearning to find my personal space and pace again (which surprisingly was a struggle at first). During such periods of time one may need a certain tranquility of the mind in order to feel solid ground, recognize where they are and stand on their feet again, if that makes sense. Which of course doesn't negate that during said periods of time, the person still wants to socialize all the while remaining confused as to the direction they feel like reconnecting with, which might cause them to make the occasional odd life choice and frequent a variety of people they normally (?) wouldn't. I'm not trying to analyze you guys' situation here but I know I'm usually a focused and determined person with default respect for people, yet just last year I probably interfered with and confused two or three innocent girls' lives by being too distracted to know how to deal with their attention, or by developing unrealistic feelings that to me felt like they made sense. In general I think it's pretty fascinating the width of the array of possibilities in life, relationships bear witness to how every new human encounter will by definition add another dimension to one's existence - in general we try to look so solid when in reality we're so frail.

But I digress, and I'm only sharing my experience in case it would resonate with yours somehow and help you understand what may be your girl's mindset these days based on the couple of elements you brought up, but of course I'm disconnected from you guys' reality so you know the details and everything a lot better than I do.

  No thats relevent to me actually thank you, if im left to my own devices, i can loose the plot  a bit so again the outside guidance is appretiated.  She texted me last nite and said she wished i was beside her and it made me feel better.

[SirPizzaSlayer]

Work. Assistant managers are dick heads.
Another thing. For some reason I’ve been thinking about my ex girlfriend but I’m not sure why? It’s been a year since we were together. I’m not hurt by our break up, I hope she’s happy doing whatever. The only problem is, that I wish I got to tell her how I feel. When we were still together she was starting to get very distant to me and I was wondering if she was ok. I think she was seeing someone else because when we broke up she had someone to replace me. Had a dream about her a few months ago. In my dream her dad (who I really liked) was telling me “don’t worry about her, she doesn’t deserve you anyways”. 

[hangontoyourego]

Work. Assistant managers are dick heads.
Another thing. For some reason I’ve been thinking about my ex girlfriend but I’m not sure why? It’s been a year since we were together. I’m not hurt by our break up, I hope she’s happy doing whatever. The only problem is, that I wish I got to tell her how I feel. When we were still together she was starting to get very distant to me and I was wondering if she was ok. I think she was seeing someone else because when we broke up she had someone to replace me. Had a dream about her a few months ago. In my dream her dad (who I really liked) was telling me “don’t worry about her, she doesn’t deserve you anyways”.

i mean are managers there for any other reason but to make our day shittier ? here’s a nice emo song for you . There’s always things you think about after and are all damn if only . Would telling here made a difference? if she was being distant she wouldn’t have cared or even acknowledged your feelings which i know would bum me out even more .

[SirPizzaSlayer]

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Work. Assistant managers are dick heads.
Another thing. For some reason I’ve been thinking about my ex girlfriend but I’m not sure why? It’s been a year since we were together. I’m not hurt by our break up, I hope she’s happy doing whatever. The only problem is, that I wish I got to tell her how I feel. When we were still together she was starting to get very distant to me and I was wondering if she was ok. I think she was seeing someone else because when we broke up she had someone to replace me. Had a dream about her a few months ago. In my dream her dad (who I really liked) was telling me “don’t worry about her, she doesn’t deserve you anyways”.

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i mean are managers there for any other reason but to make our day shittier ? here’s a nice emo song for you . There’s always things you think about after and are all damn if only . Would telling here made a difference? if she was being distant she wouldn’t have cared or even acknowledged your feelings which i know would bum me out even more .

probably  I’ve been thinking about quitting my job just so I can finally enjoy myself.

[Dog the Bounty Hunter]

New position and shift at work. Extra 10k a year, less work. The shift is Wednesday through Saturday, 8pm to 6am. Coming from Monday through Friday, 8-5.

[Bagelskate]

New position and shift at work. Extra 10k a year, less work. The shift is Wednesday through Saturday, 8pm to 6am. Coming from Monday through Friday, 8-5.

Congrats on the raise. Ever do third shifts?

[Dog the Bounty Hunter]

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New position and shift at work. Extra 10k a year, less work. The shift is Wednesday through Saturday, 8pm to 6am. Coming from Monday through Friday, 8-5.

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Congrats on the raise. Ever do third shifts?

No, kind of worried about the lack of sleep.

[TurdyBird]

Made out with a big titty girl but didn't get laid. She also told me I should quit my job. Mostly worth it but also kinda wack. Love my shredders tho

[Bagelskate]

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New position and shift at work. Extra 10k a year, less work. The shift is Wednesday through Saturday, 8pm to 6am. Coming from Monday through Friday, 8-5.

[close]

Congrats on the raise. Ever do third shifts?

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No, kind of worried about the lack of sleep.

You’ll find a time when you can get your sleep. Invest in dark blinds or sleep mask to make it easier to sleep during the day.

[Mark Renton]

I was looking for a job and then I found a job.

[hangontoyourego]

I was looking for a job and then I found a job.

And slap pals know i’m miserable now .

[childhood]

I managed to keep a relationship going the past two months, but it just ended a couple days ago, and so last night I made an insta, solely so I could use their messaging system to stay up all night drunkenly sexting with this girl I used to hook up with, but no longer have her actual phone number.

Anyway, it's almost 5:30 a.m. here, I've drank a crazy amount of gin these last 12 hours, and I am absolutely not going into work today.

[A.A]

Got these 3 pairs costing a total of $90. Hyped. But I don't need any more shoes!

[childhood]

You get them online?
I want that middle pair

[A.A]

You get them online?
I want that middle pair

Nah the local outlet.

If your a size 12 you can have em. I'm in Australia though.

[childhood]

Oh too bad, thanks for the offer though.
I'll try to hit an outlet or something, when I'm in NJ this weekend.

[20matar]

Just got to Berlin yesterday.  Going to see Beirut tomorrow. Went to the ticket office to pick my ticket up today and the show was cancelled.
7:30 pm was too early for a concert anyways. More time to skate.

I’ve been trying to see them for awhile but my schedule never lines up.

I had to read this post outloud, since I thought you were heading over to Lebanon. Is the band really that good? I met a chick who really loved them, but I couldn't make myself sit down and listen to their albums. She's gone now.

[DanTheDoucher]

I've got a trip to Ocean City, MD planned for the 15th-19th. Yesterday morning the weather app said it was supposed to rain all 5 days of my trip, but yesterday evening it said sunny and high 80's for all 5 days. Stoked on that.

Not stoked on the 7.5 hour drive with 2 young children.....