I agree - skateboarding doesn't need diluting and i've always thought the word 'gatekeeping' isn't necessarily a bad word when it comes to our community. WE collectively decided that beni's are wack, you don't carry your board by your truck, you point your wheel graphics inwards, etc etc. That doesn't need to change.
What needs to change is the delivery method of our marketing - Instagram is now something your dad does, skating curbs is too, reading mags seems prehistoric to a 12 year old. We don't have to make videos like the tik tok dance crowd but we have to recognise that we're missing a huge and important audience by turning our noses up at the whole platform.
I make a habit of talking to younger skaters when i meet them and i ask questions on this subject.
Last kid i spoke to, I think he was 13.
"Who's your favourite skater?" - "I don't have one"
"Do you know of any pro skaters?" - "Nope"
"Do you watch skate videos?" - "Yeah but not the proper ones, I only watch the ones with people talking"
"What board are you riding?" - "Polar, Herrington" (He didn't know that Aaron Herrington was a skater or that was his pro model)
Things are very different now.