Women reminiscing about sex with men, using dirty talk, or touching them in a sexual manner (with or without permission) privately or publicly - accepted, rewarded, seen as a confidence booster for men.
Men reminiscing about sex with women, talking dirty, or touching them in a sexual manner (with permission) privately or publicly - seen as disrespectful, men are labeled as perverts or pigs, could be charged with a crime at any time if she decides to yell the four-letter word.
If you deny that this is true, you are not only completely full of shit, you should probably cut off your dick and balls and start calling yourself Caitlyn.