Would you leave the poor woman alone and stop with this garbage thread.
How on earth does dragging her past abuse on a slap thread help her at all? I get the raising awareness part at the beginning... But do you think she wants her private matters discussed back and forth between posters. And for the most part this thread is just being used to give digs to each other. It's already toxic as fuck. Troll central.
Im sure she would wince reading this. I can't see how this could possibly help her but maybe I'm wrong.
This right here,
I'm always skeptical about domestic abuse I'm not siding one way or the other. I disagree with the abuse part alone no matter the aggressor or victim, certainly seems like there's a lot pointing towards CC being a douchebag, however, I know I'll get kooked to oblivion and back just try to hear me out
. Having some experience with my partner's in the past there's also a two way street (provocation, instigator systematic micro aggressive, passive dismissal, emotional abuse, gaslighting) in any case there's his side her side and the truth. I managed to get out of various situations barely without going to jail or getting killed. Eg... Driving in the passenger seat of ex's car she's fuming and I can see it I said something meek about hey this isn't going to workout she ended up smashing her car in to I95 freeway saying beforehand if I can't have you no one else will, we ended up doing a 900 and survived but she had a cut on her head and I had a concussion, several people stopped helped us out, I grabbed my gear and went in a separate ambulance, bailed no checking on her as I was OUT.... Second incident was 20+ years later right before the pandemic was in full swing, I was with a single mother and her kid on again off again tween kid. Well my homies warned me but she was hot but there's an old saying that if you date a stripper she's probably a HUGGGGGE RED FLAG, anyways I'm working on myself and learning how to embrace my past and heal myself with trauma and stuff, part of which also is setting some boundaries, let's just say this she didn't like that one. Long story short I had to bail on that one because she said if I didn't do things her way she'd make some shit up about her kid and have me charged... Mind you this kid would hold weights like 10lbs disk's over my head while I was sleeping, I'd wake up and hear the clattering of those things. Idk what that families deal was but let's just this I wasn't the first person to have that shit said to. Now mind you I'm no saint at all, I've had to restrain and smacked someone around who came at me with a knife or a bat, I don't think it's right but I'm not trying to die or go to ICU.
As @RichardBarclay pointed out it's mad embarrassing to have everything aired out in a thread as such.