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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #750 on: July 05, 2024, 04:54:17 PM »
I don’t want this fucker to get away with it.  I was a friend of both of theirs, although I don’t talk to Chris anymore and I am still a friend of his ex.  I am sure eventually proof will happen, but I’m not here to post that, just to tell you what I know firsthand.

He recently had a lawyer, who also represented bill cosby and Chris brown and Harvey Weinstein send her a letter accusing her of being the one who is abusive, and threatening to sue her for everything she has which isn’t much by the way if she doesn’t immediately delete her Instagram post and issue a full retraction and apology where she makes him out to be the good guy and that she is a vengeful angry and jealous ex who is mad he has moved on and is still famous and she just has a 9-5 normal life.  Imagine threatening your ex wife who you abused because she might tell the truth about what you did to her, while she is the one both of your kids live with and she is the one who is responsible for their healthcare, education, and all that.  He sees them two weekends a month and is absent otherwise.

He cheated on her MANY times, and only found out when she was 6 months pregnant with her son, and she never left because she was trying to preserve a home for the kids, that’s also why she endured the abuse.   I think she is embarrassed by this, but he also gave her an STD when she was 16 and he was 20 from cheating on her. 

When they first got together, he used to keep a printed out copy of the PA code for the statutory laws handy, in case they got pulled over together or something. 

He once threatened to kill the kids to get back at her. 

I have seen pictures of bruises, to be clear, she doesn’t have any of her face being all beat up and bruised, but there are marks elsewhere on her body from him hitting, choking, and restraining her.

He threw her down the stairs.  Twice.

(Sexual assault alert)

They got a hotel room the night of another well-known skaters wedding.  (I won’t say the name because they weren’t involved and didn’t know). He wanted to have sex after the wedding, she refused.  She woke up the next morning, and I don’t want to be too graphic here, but he clearly waited until she drunkenly passed out and raped her.  There was fluid evidence.  He told her he didn’t want to wake her up. I’ve seen the proof of him admitting to this.  He also tried to make it about himself, saying that he can’t believe he is a rapist and he should just jump out of a window instead of owning what he did. 

(Dark unaliving alert)

She tried to commit suicide a few years ago.  He found her, pulled her down from hanging, and she said she wished he left her there to die.  He proceeded to choke her and slam her head into the ground asking “is this what you want?”  While she was blacking out, she scratched his face to try to in her own words, “get his DNA under my nails so he wouldn’t get away with it”.  Cops were called.  He told her to not say anything and he’d make them go away or else they might take the kids away.  In her shell shocked state, she agreed to try to not make it any worse on the kids.  The cops arrested her for assaulting him, since he had wounds on his face.  When they got down to the station, the cops could see clearly that she had injuries, and his were consistent with defensive wounds.  The DA dropped the charges and let her go immediately.  The doctor she saw before they let her leave told her that she needed to leave him, because he was going to kill her someday. I’ve seen the very clear and explicit evidence of him admitting this in an email he wrote her at the time. This is what he is using to try and keep her silent. Its really hard to listen to when she talks about it.

I’ve seen the photos of the way he kept his house while his kids were living there. Absolutely vile. There was dog piss, mold, and just awful conditions.
He pays her 600 a month in child support now that her son is 18.  Anyone out there who pays child support knows how little that is.  I think he lied about how much he makes to try to pay as little as possible.

Bottom line I’ve seen a lot of takes in this thread that are basically “well we just don’t know what happened so let’s not crucify the guy” and I can’t prove this stuff to you myself but it is very real and will probably eventually come out. There is proof and I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve worked very hard to keep my career and I don’t want risk any personal backlash so Im staying anonymous, but I am telling the truth.  I’m not saying to crucify the guy either I just think it’s ridiculous that people are defending him knowing from the inside all the stuff he’s done and I think people who support him should know what they’re backing. He tried to be a nice guy publicly, but his abuse speaks for itself.  It’s fucked up for everyone involved.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #751 on: July 05, 2024, 05:49:14 PM »
I don’t want this fucker to get away with it.  I was a friend of both of theirs, although I don’t talk to Chris anymore and I am still a friend of his ex.  I am sure eventually proof will happen, but I’m not here to post that, just to tell you what I know firsthand.

He recently had a lawyer, who also represented bill cosby and Chris brown and Harvey Weinstein send her a letter accusing her of being the one who is abusive, and threatening to sue her for everything she has which isn’t much by the way if she doesn’t immediately delete her Instagram post and issue a full retraction and apology where she makes him out to be the good guy and that she is a vengeful angry and jealous ex who is mad he has moved on and is still famous and she just has a 9-5 normal life.  Imagine threatening your ex wife who you abused because she might tell the truth about what you did to her, while she is the one both of your kids live with and she is the one who is responsible for their healthcare, education, and all that.  He sees them two weekends a month and is absent otherwise.

He cheated on her MANY times, and only found out when she was 6 months pregnant with her son, and she never left because she was trying to preserve a home for the kids, that’s also why she endured the abuse.   I think she is embarrassed by this, but he also gave her an STD when she was 16 and he was 20 from cheating on her. 

When they first got together, he used to keep a printed out copy of the PA code for the statutory laws handy, in case they got pulled over together or something. 

He once threatened to kill the kids to get back at her. 

I have seen pictures of bruises, to be clear, she doesn’t have any of her face being all beat up and bruised, but there are marks elsewhere on her body from him hitting, choking, and restraining her.

He threw her down the stairs.  Twice.

(Sexual assault alert)

They got a hotel room the night of another well-known skaters wedding.  (I won’t say the name because they weren’t involved and didn’t know). He wanted to have sex after the wedding, she refused.  She woke up the next morning, and I don’t want to be too graphic here, but he clearly waited until she drunkenly passed out and raped her.  There was fluid evidence.  He told her he didn’t want to wake her up. I’ve seen the proof of him admitting to this.  He also tried to make it about himself, saying that he can’t believe he is a rapist and he should just jump out of a window instead of owning what he did. 

(Dark unaliving alert)

She tried to commit suicide a few years ago.  He found her, pulled her down from hanging, and she said she wished he left her there to die.  He proceeded to choke her and slam her head into the ground asking “is this what you want?”  While she was blacking out, she scratched his face to try to in her own words, “get his DNA under my nails so he wouldn’t get away with it”.  Cops were called.  He told her to not say anything and he’d make them go away or else they might take the kids away.  In her shell shocked state, she agreed to try to not make it any worse on the kids.  The cops arrested her for assaulting him, since he had wounds on his face.  When they got down to the station, the cops could see clearly that she had injuries, and his were consistent with defensive wounds.  The DA dropped the charges and let her go immediately.  The doctor she saw before they let her leave told her that she needed to leave him, because he was going to kill her someday. I’ve seen the very clear and explicit evidence of him admitting this in an email he wrote her at the time. This is what he is using to try and keep her silent. Its really hard to listen to when she talks about it.

I’ve seen the photos of the way he kept his house while his kids were living there. Absolutely vile. There was dog piss, mold, and just awful conditions.
He pays her 600 a month in child support now that her son is 18.  Anyone out there who pays child support knows how little that is.  I think he lied about how much he makes to try to pay as little as possible.

Bottom line I’ve seen a lot of takes in this thread that are basically “well we just don’t know what happened so let’s not crucify the guy” and I can’t prove this stuff to you myself but it is very real and will probably eventually come out. There is proof and I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve worked very hard to keep my career and I don’t want risk any personal backlash so Im staying anonymous, but I am telling the truth.  I’m not saying to crucify the guy either I just think it’s ridiculous that people are defending him knowing from the inside all the stuff he’s done and I think people who support him should know what they’re backing. He tried to be a nice guy publicly, but his abuse speaks for itself.  It’s fucked up for everyone involved.

Anyone defending this is waving a massive red flag for all to see.

Absolutely harrowing reading.

Thank you for being there for Christine.

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #752 on: July 05, 2024, 07:57:20 PM »
I don’t want this fucker to get away with it.  I was a friend of both of theirs, although I don’t talk to Chris anymore and I am still a friend of his ex.  I am sure eventually proof will happen, but I’m not here to post that, just to tell you what I know firsthand.

He recently had a lawyer, who also represented bill cosby and Chris brown and Harvey Weinstein send her a letter accusing her of being the one who is abusive, and threatening to sue her for everything she has which isn’t much by the way if she doesn’t immediately delete her Instagram post and issue a full retraction and apology where she makes him out to be the good guy and that she is a vengeful angry and jealous ex who is mad he has moved on and is still famous and she just has a 9-5 normal life.  Imagine threatening your ex wife who you abused because she might tell the truth about what you did to her, while she is the one both of your kids live with and she is the one who is responsible for their healthcare, education, and all that.  He sees them two weekends a month and is absent otherwise.

He cheated on her MANY times, and only found out when she was 6 months pregnant with her son, and she never left because she was trying to preserve a home for the kids, that’s also why she endured the abuse.   I think she is embarrassed by this, but he also gave her an STD when she was 16 and he was 20 from cheating on her. 

When they first got together, he used to keep a printed out copy of the PA code for the statutory laws handy, in case they got pulled over together or something. 

He once threatened to kill the kids to get back at her. 

I have seen pictures of bruises, to be clear, she doesn’t have any of her face being all beat up and bruised, but there are marks elsewhere on her body from him hitting, choking, and restraining her.

He threw her down the stairs.  Twice.

(Sexual assault alert)

They got a hotel room the night of another well-known skaters wedding.  (I won’t say the name because they weren’t involved and didn’t know). He wanted to have sex after the wedding, she refused.  She woke up the next morning, and I don’t want to be too graphic here, but he clearly waited until she drunkenly passed out and raped her.  There was fluid evidence.  He told her he didn’t want to wake her up. I’ve seen the proof of him admitting to this.  He also tried to make it about himself, saying that he can’t believe he is a rapist and he should just jump out of a window instead of owning what he did. 

(Dark unaliving alert)

She tried to commit suicide a few years ago.  He found her, pulled her down from hanging, and she said she wished he left her there to die.  He proceeded to choke her and slam her head into the ground asking “is this what you want?”  While she was blacking out, she scratched his face to try to in her own words, “get his DNA under my nails so he wouldn’t get away with it”.  Cops were called.  He told her to not say anything and he’d make them go away or else they might take the kids away.  In her shell shocked state, she agreed to try to not make it any worse on the kids.  The cops arrested her for assaulting him, since he had wounds on his face.  When they got down to the station, the cops could see clearly that she had injuries, and his were consistent with defensive wounds.  The DA dropped the charges and let her go immediately.  The doctor she saw before they let her leave told her that she needed to leave him, because he was going to kill her someday. I’ve seen the very clear and explicit evidence of him admitting this in an email he wrote her at the time. This is what he is using to try and keep her silent. Its really hard to listen to when she talks about it.

I’ve seen the photos of the way he kept his house while his kids were living there. Absolutely vile. There was dog piss, mold, and just awful conditions.
He pays her 600 a month in child support now that her son is 18.  Anyone out there who pays child support knows how little that is.  I think he lied about how much he makes to try to pay as little as possible.

Bottom line I’ve seen a lot of takes in this thread that are basically “well we just don’t know what happened so let’s not crucify the guy” and I can’t prove this stuff to you myself but it is very real and will probably eventually come out. There is proof and I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve worked very hard to keep my career and I don’t want risk any personal backlash so Im staying anonymous, but I am telling the truth.  I’m not saying to crucify the guy either I just think it’s ridiculous that people are defending him knowing from the inside all the stuff he’s done and I think people who support him should know what they’re backing. He tried to be a nice guy publicly, but his abuse speaks for itself.  It’s fucked up for everyone involved.

Jfc. I hope Christine is getting the help and support that she needs right now.

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #753 on: July 05, 2024, 09:12:22 PM »
I don’t want this fucker to get away with it.  I was a friend of both of theirs, although I don’t talk to Chris anymore and I am still a friend of his ex.  I am sure eventually proof will happen, but I’m not here to post that, just to tell you what I know firsthand.

He recently had a lawyer, who also represented bill cosby and Chris brown and Harvey Weinstein send her a letter accusing her of being the one who is abusive, and threatening to sue her for everything she has which isn’t much by the way if she doesn’t immediately delete her Instagram post and issue a full retraction and apology where she makes him out to be the good guy and that she is a vengeful angry and jealous ex who is mad he has moved on and is still famous and she just has a 9-5 normal life.  Imagine threatening your ex wife who you abused because she might tell the truth about what you did to her, while she is the one both of your kids live with and she is the one who is responsible for their healthcare, education, and all that.  He sees them two weekends a month and is absent otherwise.

He cheated on her MANY times, and only found out when she was 6 months pregnant with her son, and she never left because she was trying to preserve a home for the kids, that’s also why she endured the abuse.   I think she is embarrassed by this, but he also gave her an STD when she was 16 and he was 20 from cheating on her. 

When they first got together, he used to keep a printed out copy of the PA code for the statutory laws handy, in case they got pulled over together or something. 

He once threatened to kill the kids to get back at her. 

I have seen pictures of bruises, to be clear, she doesn’t have any of her face being all beat up and bruised, but there are marks elsewhere on her body from him hitting, choking, and restraining her.

He threw her down the stairs.  Twice.

(Sexual assault alert)

They got a hotel room the night of another well-known skaters wedding.  (I won’t say the name because they weren’t involved and didn’t know). He wanted to have sex after the wedding, she refused.  She woke up the next morning, and I don’t want to be too graphic here, but he clearly waited until she drunkenly passed out and raped her.  There was fluid evidence.  He told her he didn’t want to wake her up. I’ve seen the proof of him admitting to this.  He also tried to make it about himself, saying that he can’t believe he is a rapist and he should just jump out of a window instead of owning what he did. 

(Dark unaliving alert)

She tried to commit suicide a few years ago.  He found her, pulled her down from hanging, and she said she wished he left her there to die.  He proceeded to choke her and slam her head into the ground asking “is this what you want?”  While she was blacking out, she scratched his face to try to in her own words, “get his DNA under my nails so he wouldn’t get away with it”.  Cops were called.  He told her to not say anything and he’d make them go away or else they might take the kids away.  In her shell shocked state, she agreed to try to not make it any worse on the kids.  The cops arrested her for assaulting him, since he had wounds on his face.  When they got down to the station, the cops could see clearly that she had injuries, and his were consistent with defensive wounds.  The DA dropped the charges and let her go immediately.  The doctor she saw before they let her leave told her that she needed to leave him, because he was going to kill her someday. I’ve seen the very clear and explicit evidence of him admitting this in an email he wrote her at the time. This is what he is using to try and keep her silent. Its really hard to listen to when she talks about it.

I’ve seen the photos of the way he kept his house while his kids were living there. Absolutely vile. There was dog piss, mold, and just awful conditions.
He pays her 600 a month in child support now that her son is 18.  Anyone out there who pays child support knows how little that is.  I think he lied about how much he makes to try to pay as little as possible.

Bottom line I’ve seen a lot of takes in this thread that are basically “well we just don’t know what happened so let’s not crucify the guy” and I can’t prove this stuff to you myself but it is very real and will probably eventually come out. There is proof and I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve worked very hard to keep my career and I don’t want risk any personal backlash so Im staying anonymous, but I am telling the truth.  I’m not saying to crucify the guy either I just think it’s ridiculous that people are defending him knowing from the inside all the stuff he’s done and I think people who support him should know what they’re backing. He tried to be a nice guy publicly, but his abuse speaks for itself.  It’s fucked up for everyone involved.

This is terrifying and heartbreaking.

Men that abuse women are lower than low.

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #754 on: July 05, 2024, 10:06:40 PM »
I can back StuffedRoadKill and Oroborus up 100%. This isn't going to well for Jimmy Cole. Just wait.

Chris if you are reading this, the best thing you could do right now is apologize and quit doubling down and playing offense. Apologize and just go away and come back in 5 years like Kevin spacey or some shit. Putting Christine's entire testimony aside. The lawyers you supposedly chose alone speak fucking volumes. Cosby and Weinstein? You are now in their company and yuo were ok with that? That's vile. Like someone else said, you're now the abusive guy who got lawyers to silence his ex wife from speaking her truth about you.

Chief and anyone else still backing Chris, you have brands and future brands and families and reputations to worry about.
People still respect you. Get on the right side of history very quickly, before it's too late.

There's a Kat Williams/Diddy type scenario coming. And it wont matter if the lawyers strong arm it away because by then it'll be out and saved and re-shared. Everyone knows to save anything regarding this situation due to the censorship we are seeing. Don't say you weren't warned.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #755 on: July 06, 2024, 12:13:54 AM »
Kenny Anderson remains sponsored.   The skate industry has no problem brushing things aside that aren’t a matter of actual criminal record

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #756 on: July 06, 2024, 01:01:49 AM »
if this shit ever actually goes to court maybe we could start a gofundme for lawyer expenses for christine. publicize this shit on instagram, start a chris cole abuse hashtag or something. he can’t get away with this, there’s no way

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #757 on: July 06, 2024, 01:49:20 AM »
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if this shit ever actually goes to court maybe we could start a gofundme for lawyer expenses for christine. publicize this shit on instagram, start a chris cole abuse hashtag or something. he can’t get away with this, there’s no way
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That was suggested 10 pages ago by someones name I wont say and you talked shit. these thoughts and prayer-like posts and ideas from you are probably helping her a ton. how much will you donate?

$100 and your life

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« Reply #758 on: July 06, 2024, 02:03:23 AM »
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if this shit ever actually goes to court maybe we could start a gofundme for lawyer expenses for christine. publicize this shit on instagram, start a chris cole abuse hashtag or something. he can’t get away with this, there’s no way
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That was suggested 10 pages ago by someones name I wont say and you talked shit. these thoughts and prayer-like posts and ideas from you are probably helping her a ton. how much will you donate?
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$100 and your life
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Oh that sounds threatening. Violent. My life? Hmmm. If you say so.
Wild that all you have is $100 to donate to an abuse victim after running your mouth all over these boards.

i make very little money, i live in eastern europe and that’s about 15-20 percent of what i make in a month and i have bills to pay on top of that, great look for you to make jokes about other people’s financial situation

i would happily inflict violence towards you, let’s meet up at some euro skate event, please, i’d love to fuck up a 40 year old virgin that runs their mouth on skateboard forums, especially in front of an audience that already doesn’t respect you in the slightest bit

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #759 on: July 06, 2024, 02:34:14 AM »
I cannot imagine knowing about the kind of thing she went through and not being an ally of any kind. Siding with the abuser (allegedly of course although I believe her) seems nearly as bad as actually harming her. Covering for this is insane and disgusting if that’s what is happening.
For someone w.no signature ur awfully hostile, & that is why I do this

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« Reply #760 on: July 06, 2024, 02:57:28 AM »
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if this shit ever actually goes to court maybe we could start a gofundme for lawyer expenses for christine. publicize this shit on instagram, start a chris cole abuse hashtag or something. he can’t get away with this, there’s no way
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That was suggested 10 pages ago by someones name I wont say and you talked shit. these thoughts and prayer-like posts and ideas from you are probably helping her a ton. how much will you donate?
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$100 and your life
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Oh that sounds threatening. Violent. My life? Hmmm. If you say so.
Wild that all you have is $100 to donate to an abuse victim after running your mouth all over these boards.
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i make very little money, i live in eastern europe and that’s about 15-20 percent of what i make in a month and i have bills to pay on top of that, great look for you to make jokes about other people’s financial situation

i would happily inflict violence towards you, let’s meet up at some euro skate event, please, i’d love to fuck up a 40 year old virgin that runs their mouth on skateboard forums, especially in front of an audience that already doesn’t respect you in the slightest bit
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You must know a lot of what's going on in the American skate industry all the way from Poland.

How would you "happily inflict violence" on me if you don't even know who i am?

Hey mods you catching this? 2 posts of violent threats towards me. Time to do your jobs I think.

i wasn’t threatening you you dumb fuck, i was literally asking you out

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #761 on: July 06, 2024, 05:09:10 AM »
@Stuffedroadkill while I commend you helping get the truth out there, a lot of that stuff is very detailed and personal. As a friend of hers are you sure that she wants all parts of that post public? Genuine question, you know better than us I'm sure but just something to think about

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #762 on: July 06, 2024, 05:55:30 AM »
@Stuffedroadkill while I commend you helping get the truth out there, a lot of that stuff is very detailed and personal. As a friend of hers are you sure that she wants all parts of that post public? Genuine question, you know better than us I'm sure but just something to think about
yeah, my thoughts exactly! absolutely fucking unforgivable behavior from CC, no question, but that’s a lot of personal details out there into the webs…

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if this shit ever actually goes to court maybe we could start a gofundme for lawyer expenses for christine. publicize this shit on instagram, start a chris cole abuse hashtag or something. he can’t get away with this, there’s no way
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That was suggested 10 pages ago by someones name I wont say and you talked shit. these thoughts and prayer-like posts and ideas from you are probably helping her a ton. how much will you donate?
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$100 and your life
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Oh that sounds threatening. Violent. My life? Hmmm. If you say so.
Wild that all you have is $100 to donate to an abuse victim after running your mouth all over these boards.
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i make very little money, i live in eastern europe and that’s about 15-20 percent of what i make in a month and i have bills to pay on top of that, great look for you to make jokes about other people’s financial situation

i would happily inflict violence towards you, let’s meet up at some euro skate event, please, i’d love to fuck up a 40 year old virgin that runs their mouth on skateboard forums, especially in front of an audience that already doesn’t respect you in the slightest bit
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You must know a lot of what's going on in the American skate industry all the way from Poland.

How would you "happily inflict violence" on me if you don't even know who i am?

Hey mods you catching this? 2 posts of violent threats towards me. Time to do your jobs I think.
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i wasn’t threatening you you dumb fuck, i was literally asking you out
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Too late. The ban is coming. Poor baby.
Jesus christ dude shut the fuck up

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #764 on: July 06, 2024, 06:48:48 AM »
I don’t want this fucker to get away with it.  I was a friend of both of theirs, although I don’t talk to Chris anymore and I am still a friend of his ex.  I am sure eventually proof will happen, but I’m not here to post that, just to tell you what I know firsthand.

He recently had a lawyer, who also represented bill cosby and Chris brown and Harvey Weinstein send her a letter accusing her of being the one who is abusive, and threatening to sue her for everything she has which isn’t much by the way if she doesn’t immediately delete her Instagram post and issue a full retraction and apology where she makes him out to be the good guy and that she is a vengeful angry and jealous ex who is mad he has moved on and is still famous and she just has a 9-5 normal life.  Imagine threatening your ex wife who you abused because she might tell the truth about what you did to her, while she is the one both of your kids live with and she is the one who is responsible for their healthcare, education, and all that.  He sees them two weekends a month and is absent otherwise.

He cheated on her MANY times, and only found out when she was 6 months pregnant with her son, and she never left because she was trying to preserve a home for the kids, that’s also why she endured the abuse.   I think she is embarrassed by this, but he also gave her an STD when she was 16 and he was 20 from cheating on her. 

When they first got together, he used to keep a printed out copy of the PA code for the statutory laws handy, in case they got pulled over together or something. 

He once threatened to kill the kids to get back at her. 

I have seen pictures of bruises, to be clear, she doesn’t have any of her face being all beat up and bruised, but there are marks elsewhere on her body from him hitting, choking, and restraining her.

He threw her down the stairs.  Twice.

(Sexual assault alert)

They got a hotel room the night of another well-known skaters wedding.  (I won’t say the name because they weren’t involved and didn’t know). He wanted to have sex after the wedding, she refused.  She woke up the next morning, and I don’t want to be too graphic here, but he clearly waited until she drunkenly passed out and raped her.  There was fluid evidence.  He told her he didn’t want to wake her up. I’ve seen the proof of him admitting to this.  He also tried to make it about himself, saying that he can’t believe he is a rapist and he should just jump out of a window instead of owning what he did. 

(Dark unaliving alert)

She tried to commit suicide a few years ago.  He found her, pulled her down from hanging, and she said she wished he left her there to die.  He proceeded to choke her and slam her head into the ground asking “is this what you want?”  While she was blacking out, she scratched his face to try to in her own words, “get his DNA under my nails so he wouldn’t get away with it”.  Cops were called.  He told her to not say anything and he’d make them go away or else they might take the kids away.  In her shell shocked state, she agreed to try to not make it any worse on the kids.  The cops arrested her for assaulting him, since he had wounds on his face.  When they got down to the station, the cops could see clearly that she had injuries, and his were consistent with defensive wounds.  The DA dropped the charges and let her go immediately.  The doctor she saw before they let her leave told her that she needed to leave him, because he was going to kill her someday. I’ve seen the very clear and explicit evidence of him admitting this in an email he wrote her at the time. This is what he is using to try and keep her silent. Its really hard to listen to when she talks about it.

I’ve seen the photos of the way he kept his house while his kids were living there. Absolutely vile. There was dog piss, mold, and just awful conditions.
He pays her 600 a month in child support now that her son is 18.  Anyone out there who pays child support knows how little that is.  I think he lied about how much he makes to try to pay as little as possible.

Bottom line I’ve seen a lot of takes in this thread that are basically “well we just don’t know what happened so let’s not crucify the guy” and I can’t prove this stuff to you myself but it is very real and will probably eventually come out. There is proof and I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve worked very hard to keep my career and I don’t want risk any personal backlash so Im staying anonymous, but I am telling the truth.  I’m not saying to crucify the guy either I just think it’s ridiculous that people are defending him knowing from the inside all the stuff he’s done and I think people who support him should know what they’re backing. He tried to be a nice guy publicly, but his abuse speaks for itself.  It’s fucked up for everyone involved.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #765 on: July 06, 2024, 07:17:09 AM »
I don't take pleasure from whatever impact I end up having on something so tragic and sad like what happened to Christine and their children. But I do let myself enjoy every single time some pathetic little man registers on here to ride a personal attack against me or any other poster. Knowing it gets you all worked up that people like Cole can't just get away with it and people like me have some say in that matter, gets me through the day every time.

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #766 on: July 06, 2024, 08:22:03 AM »
there's no way you can be a serious person and write something like that my man. im now convinced you're a really really good gimmick.


also calling chris cole one of the greatest skaters ever just lets me know you skate the tiny ledge in drainpipe pants and only attempt tricks based on how long the name of the trick is. egregious behavior all around.


does this woman have any kind of actual support system set up that we can be directed to? this thread is useless.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #767 on: July 06, 2024, 08:36:21 AM »
there's no way you can be a serious person and write something like that my man. im now convinced you're a really really good gimmick.


also calling chris cole one of the greatest skaters ever just lets me know you skate the tiny ledge in drainpipe pants and only attempt tricks based on how long the name of the trick is. egregious behavior all around.


does this woman have any kind of actual support system set up that we can be directed to? this thread is useless.

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #768 on: July 06, 2024, 08:52:32 AM »
I miss when Tracer was the worst dude on here.

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #769 on: July 06, 2024, 04:54:36 PM »
I hope Christine heals and moves on and gets everything and anything she need for peace and resolution.

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #770 on: July 06, 2024, 10:38:22 PM »
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I don’t want this fucker to get away with it.  I was a friend of both of theirs, although I don’t talk to Chris anymore and I am still a friend of his ex.  I am sure eventually proof will happen, but I’m not here to post that, just to tell you what I know firsthand.

He recently had a lawyer, who also represented bill cosby and Chris brown and Harvey Weinstein send her a letter accusing her of being the one who is abusive, and threatening to sue her for everything she has which isn’t much by the way if she doesn’t immediately delete her Instagram post and issue a full retraction and apology where she makes him out to be the good guy and that she is a vengeful angry and jealous ex who is mad he has moved on and is still famous and she just has a 9-5 normal life.  Imagine threatening your ex wife who you abused because she might tell the truth about what you did to her, while she is the one both of your kids live with and she is the one who is responsible for their healthcare, education, and all that.  He sees them two weekends a month and is absent otherwise.

He cheated on her MANY times, and only found out when she was 6 months pregnant with her son, and she never left because she was trying to preserve a home for the kids, that’s also why she endured the abuse.   I think she is embarrassed by this, but he also gave her an STD when she was 16 and he was 20 from cheating on her. 

When they first got together, he used to keep a printed out copy of the PA code for the statutory laws handy, in case they got pulled over together or something. 

He once threatened to kill the kids to get back at her. 

I have seen pictures of bruises, to be clear, she doesn’t have any of her face being all beat up and bruised, but there are marks elsewhere on her body from him hitting, choking, and restraining her.

He threw her down the stairs.  Twice.

(Sexual assault alert)

They got a hotel room the night of another well-known skaters wedding.  (I won’t say the name because they weren’t involved and didn’t know). He wanted to have sex after the wedding, she refused.  She woke up the next morning, and I don’t want to be too graphic here, but he clearly waited until she drunkenly passed out and raped her.  There was fluid evidence.  He told her he didn’t want to wake her up. I’ve seen the proof of him admitting to this.  He also tried to make it about himself, saying that he can’t believe he is a rapist and he should just jump out of a window instead of owning what he did. 

(Dark unaliving alert)

She tried to commit suicide a few years ago.  He found her, pulled her down from hanging, and she said she wished he left her there to die.  He proceeded to choke her and slam her head into the ground asking “is this what you want?”  While she was blacking out, she scratched his face to try to in her own words, “get his DNA under my nails so he wouldn’t get away with it”.  Cops were called.  He told her to not say anything and he’d make them go away or else they might take the kids away.  In her shell shocked state, she agreed to try to not make it any worse on the kids.  The cops arrested her for assaulting him, since he had wounds on his face.  When they got down to the station, the cops could see clearly that she had injuries, and his were consistent with defensive wounds.  The DA dropped the charges and let her go immediately.  The doctor she saw before they let her leave told her that she needed to leave him, because he was going to kill her someday. I’ve seen the very clear and explicit evidence of him admitting this in an email he wrote her at the time. This is what he is using to try and keep her silent. Its really hard to listen to when she talks about it.

I’ve seen the photos of the way he kept his house while his kids were living there. Absolutely vile. There was dog piss, mold, and just awful conditions.
He pays her 600 a month in child support now that her son is 18.  Anyone out there who pays child support knows how little that is.  I think he lied about how much he makes to try to pay as little as possible.

Bottom line I’ve seen a lot of takes in this thread that are basically “well we just don’t know what happened so let’s not crucify the guy” and I can’t prove this stuff to you myself but it is very real and will probably eventually come out. There is proof and I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve worked very hard to keep my career and I don’t want risk any personal backlash so Im staying anonymous, but I am telling the truth.  I’m not saying to crucify the guy either I just think it’s ridiculous that people are defending him knowing from the inside all the stuff he’s done and I think people who support him should know what they’re backing. He tried to be a nice guy publicly, but his abuse speaks for itself.  It’s fucked up for everyone involved.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #771 on: July 07, 2024, 03:30:27 AM »
James Cole having bad style on the board seems like karma in full effect.

But seriously, very sad to read and I hope the situation can be resolved (if possible) without further escalation from his side.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #772 on: July 07, 2024, 03:37:29 AM »
...very sad to read and I hope the situation can be resolved (if possible) without further escalation from his side by him falling from a high place and leaving his ex alone for the rest of ever.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #773 on: July 07, 2024, 05:53:28 AM »
Would you leave the poor woman alone and stop with this garbage thread.

How on earth does dragging her past abuse on a slap thread help her at all? I get the raising awareness part at the beginning... But do you think she wants her private matters discussed back and forth between posters. And for the most part this thread is just being used to give digs to each other. It's already toxic as fuck. Troll central.

Im sure she would wince reading this. I can't see how this could possibly help her but maybe I'm wrong.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #774 on: July 07, 2024, 06:47:10 AM »
Would you leave the poor woman alone and stop with this garbage thread.

How on earth does dragging her past abuse on a slap thread help her at all? I get the raising awareness part at the beginning... But do you think she wants her private matters discussed back and forth between posters. And for the most part this thread is just being used to give digs to each other. It's already toxic as fuck. Troll central.

Im sure she would wince reading this. I can't see how this could possibly help her but maybe I'm wrong.
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 I'm always skeptical about domestic abuse I'm not siding one way or the other. I disagree with the abuse part alone no matter the aggressor or victim, certainly seems like there's a lot pointing towards CC being a douchebag, however, I know I'll get kooked to oblivion and back just try to hear me out

. Having some experience with my partner's in the past there's also a two way street (provocation, instigator systematic micro aggressive, passive dismissal, emotional abuse, gaslighting) in  any case there's his side her side and the truth. I managed to get out of various situations barely without going to jail or getting killed.  Eg... Driving in the passenger seat of ex's car she's fuming and I can see it I said something meek about hey this isn't going to workout she ended up smashing her car in to I95 freeway saying beforehand if I can't have you no one else will, we ended up doing a 900 and survived but she had a cut on her head and I had a concussion, several people stopped helped us out, I grabbed my gear and went in a separate ambulance, bailed no checking on her as I was OUT.... Second incident was 20+ years later right before the pandemic was in full swing, I was with a single mother and her kid on again off again tween kid. Well my homies warned me but she was hot but there's an old saying that if you date a stripper she's probably a HUGGGGGE RED FLAG, anyways I'm working on myself and learning how to embrace my past and heal myself with trauma and stuff, part of which also is setting some boundaries, let's just say this she didn't like that one. Long story short I had to bail on that one because she said if I didn't do things her way she'd make some shit up about her kid and have me charged... Mind you this kid would hold weights like 10lbs disk's over my head while I was sleeping, I'd wake up and hear the clattering of those things. Idk what that families deal was but let's just this I wasn't the first person to have that shit said to.  Now mind you I'm no saint at all, I've had to restrain and smacked someone around who came at me with a knife or a bat, I don't think it's right but I'm not trying to die or go to ICU.


 As @RichardBarclay pointed out it's mad embarrassing to have everything aired out in a thread as such.

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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #775 on: July 07, 2024, 07:13:59 AM »
The lengths some of you will go to just so you can justify your misogyny is incredible. Until Cole sees consequences, this stays first page. And every incel post on here is just another bump.

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« Reply #776 on: July 07, 2024, 07:20:51 AM »
The lengths some of you will go to just so you can justify your misogyny is incredible. Until Cole sees consequences, this stays first page. And every incel post on here is just another bump.

I am completely on her side and I hope Cole sees justice .

But this is just gross. It's just trolls one upping each other and picking apart the poor woman's private life to get digs in. It's a cesspit.

I sincerely doubt she wants hundreds of strangers picking apart her life private life in public. If anything it would be traumatizing no?

I get the initial post raising awareness and by all means sticky it but this thread has turned so nasty how on earth could it help her.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #777 on: July 07, 2024, 07:59:41 AM »
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The lengths some of you will go to just so you can justify your misogyny is incredible. Until Cole sees consequences, this stays first page. And every incel post on here is just another bump.
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I am completely on her side and I hope Cole sees justice .

But this is just gross. It's just trolls one upping each other and picking apart the poor woman's private life to get digs in. It's a cesspit.

I sincerely doubt she wants hundreds of strangers picking apart her life private life in public. If anything it would be traumatizing no?

I get the initial post raising awareness and by all means sticky it but this thread has turned so nasty how on earth could it help her.


I know for a fact that she wants this information to go public but she is completely silenced by the fact that he threatened to sue her and damage her and her children financially forever.  So for her, I know she’d rather have her public information out there being discussed so that people who he is and what happened to her.  The only thing she’s embarrassed about is that she spent so long defending his bullshit.  If you support her as you say you do, then spread the word because she wishes she could speak publicly about this stuff but she can’t because he threatened to sue her and even though he would probably lose, his lawyers could make her spend a fortune defending herself and she’s scared.


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« Reply #778 on: July 07, 2024, 08:03:34 AM »
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The lengths some of you will go to just so you can justify your misogyny is incredible. Until Cole sees consequences, this stays first page. And every incel post on here is just another bump.
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I am completely on her side and I hope Cole sees justice .

But this is just gross. It's just trolls one upping each other and picking apart the poor woman's private life to get digs in. It's a cesspit.

I sincerely doubt she wants hundreds of strangers picking apart her life private life in public. If anything it would be traumatizing no?

I get the initial post raising awareness and by all means sticky it but this thread has turned so nasty how on earth could it help her.
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I know for a fact that she wants this information to go public but she is completely silenced by the fact that he threatened to sue her and damage her and her children financially forever.  So for her, I know she’d rather have her public information out there being discussed so that people who he is and what happened to her.  The only thing she’s embarrassed about is that she spent so long defending his bullshit.  If you support her as you say you do, then spread the word because she wishes she could speak publicly about this stuff but she can’t because he threatened to sue her and even though he would probably lose, his lawyers could make her spend a fortune defending herself and she’s scared.

Ok I see. In that case I completely concede and take back what I said.
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Re: Chris Cole is a domestic abuser and his real name isn't even Chris
« Reply #779 on: July 07, 2024, 08:33:26 AM »
Who still sponsors this kook? Time to boycott them and make it as public as possible.