As you get older, skating alone becomes common place.
Peoples schedules always change as do priorities.
Girls,kids,jobs,ego's,drugs do there fair share to disassemble a crew.
After too many wasted days and sitting around for someone to get ready I just said fuck it.
I'm not 14 with no job or responsibilities. I have a limited time window to get out and skate so either you're ready to go or I'm out.I realize this sounds assholish but it isn't half as bad as the people who needlessly waste other peoples time because they're lazy and unmotivated.
I also like skating with headphones, feels like I can block everything out and do tricks without concentrating on things that don't matter. And I feel like a dick doing it with friends around. I have driven to a park where noone knows me so I can just zone out and be antisocial. I used to head downtown and just bomb around skating all these weird little curbs and bumps because im sure my friends would be bored of it instantly.
But nothing beats a good day of skating with the close friends, laughing and dorking. Just enjoying the time. We have a really tight knit group and I can't think of a bad session ever, maybe some semi lame moments but even if it's some weird crappy spot or it's the battle with filming something theres always someone to play shove it skate with or a random hole in the wall to pitch some rock into or whatever else we can do to pass the time. I wouldn't trade that time for anything, as they are some of the best memories in my life.
Yep. Apart from the headphones thing. Can't skate with other sounds coming into my head...
I've been skating solo since I moved to NY for the most part. It started from not knowing anyone, and really not meeting anyone from skating tompkins or around who I really got along with and felt I could just cruise around spots and have fun with. I'm the spot searching random shit kind of guy. Mostly because I can't skate woth a shit, so I just like cruising around looking for interesting spots, and just finding fun shit the whittle the afternoon away on. Most people aren't down for that, or aren't down for some dude tagging along no complying left and right and maybe hitting up a boardslide or two... that said, after a while it just became the norm, and so these days skating alone is actually more appealing than meeting up with some random dudes. I love it for all the reasons stated in this thread so far, and quite a few more. I'll skate with a couple different people here and there, but I usually end up feeling bad for taking them to non-existent spots, that I'm happy enough just cruising through on the way to someplace else, or sitting around while they try and skate something I can't.
Maybe it's just a moving to a new place thing. I don't know. I miss skating with my friends back home, but even then there's only a handful of people I really enjoy skating with (DEGAMETH!), the rest are just buddies who happen to skate. Does that make sense? I've had some of the best times of my life skating with friends, but these days the instant gratification of just getting your board and skating something somewhere is too hard to turn down.
The only alternative would be to try really hard to make some more friends, and I'm not really THAT GUY. I'm happy to go skating, if someone wants to come along then that's rad, if not, I'm still stoked.
The best times I've ever had skateboarding have been alone. I love meeting new people and skating with friends and everything but, nothing beats skating alone. NYC or Philly, between midnight and dawn, sometimes feels like you're on a different planet.
Now that spring is here, NY late night solo missions are mandatory. The Season starts this week. Either tonight or tomorrow night. A new board and some empty dimly lit streets...